Introduction - Weeks 4-6 - Interpersonal Effectiveness - Flashcard set 5 (Version 2)
What can be the negative impact of always trying to be right in friendships?
It can be lethal in making and keeping friends.
What does observing involve?
Stating what we observed in a matter-of-fact way.
What does describing involve?
Distinguishing what we are observing within ourselves from what we are observing outside of ourselves.
How do judgmental thoughts and statements affect describing?
They get in the way of describing.
What should we avoid assuming about others?
We need to avoid assuming what others are thinking, feeling, or doing.
What is the effective skill for maintaining relationships?
Giving other people the benefit of the doubt.
How is trust built in relationships?
Trust is built when we choose to give others opportunities to prove themselves trustworthy.
Can too little and too much trust both be problems in relationships?
Yes, both can be problems.
What does participating mean in relationships?
It means “jumping into the relationship” and going with the flow of the other person or group activity.
