Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills - Video 11 - Flashcard Set
What is the acronym GIVE and what does it stand for?
The acronym GIVE stands for Gentle, Interested, Validate, and Easy Manner.
Why is it important to be gentle when using the GIVE skill?
It is important to be gentle because people are less likely to comply with a request if they feel disrespected.
What are the four things to keep in mind when being gentle?
The four things to keep in mind when being gentle are: 1. Don’t use attacks, verbal or physical; 2. Don’t use threats; 3. Don’t judge; 4. Don’t disrespect.
What does the ‘I’ in GIVE stand for?
The ‘I’ in GIVE stands for ‘Interested’.
Why is it important to act interested in the other person?
It is important to act interested in the other person because it shows that you care and respect them.
What are some ways to act interested in the other person?
Some ways to act interested in the other person are: listening to their point of view, maintaining eye contact, and leaning towards them.
What does the ‘V’ in GIVE stand for?
The ‘V’ in GIVE stands for ‘Validate’.
What is validation?
Validation is communicating to the other person that their feelings, thoughts, or opinions are understandable.
How can you validate someone?
You can validate someone with words, such as ‘I can see that you’re upset,’ or with nonverbal communication, such as nodding and making eye contact.
What does it mean to use an ‘easy manner’?
Using an ‘easy manner’ means being assertive and friendly at the same time, and using humor to ease the other person along.
Why is it important to use an easy manner?
It is important to use an easy manner because it helps maintain a good relationship while also getting your request.
What are the benefits of using the GIVE skill?
The benefits of using the GIVE skill are strong relationships and increased likelihood of getting what you want.
