Lecture 6: Attraction and Partner Selection Part 3 Flashcards

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why might similarity be attractive?

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  • Validation for our interests, beliefs, & opinions
  • We can better predict the behaviour of similar others
  • Can participate in shared activities
  • We expect those who are similar to us to
    be more likely to like us
  • Interactions may run smoother
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effect of similarity on initial attraction

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Attitudinal similarity predicts attraction for people we don’t know (or with whom we are newly acquainted)

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“Bogus stranger” paradigm

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responses are manipulated to be either similar or dissimilar to one’s own responses

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effect similarity in speed dating studies

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  • There is limited evidence of a link between attraction and similarity in a speed-dating content
  • To the extent that similarity matters in this context, perceived rather than actual similarity may play a larger role
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similarity in married couples

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  • 1,000 married couples provided information about themselves on 88 characteristics
  • More similar on 66/88 traits compared to pairs matched at random
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what is the directionality of the similarity-relationship link?

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  • Similarity predicts friendship development among newly acquainted
  • Similarity does not increase over the course of marriage
  • Length of marriage does not moderate spousal similarity
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types of similarity

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  • Demographic similarity (ex. Age, race, education, religion, etc.)
  • Attitudes and values
  • Personality
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for what type of similarity is the link most strong and why?

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  • Link between similarity & attraction seems to be stronger for attitudes/values and some demographic characteristics than for personality
  • As we saw, some personality characteristics are more uniformly desirable than others
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similarly & satisfaction

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  • Similarity between partners’ personalities explains only small amount of variation in satisfaction
  • Having a partner with desirable personality traits (ex. agreeableness, conscientiousness, low neuroticism) more important than matching
  • Couples similar on unappealing traits less successful than couples who are less alike on these traits
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neural homophily study

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  • Measuring neural activity while individuals view naturalistic stimuli (e.g., movie clips) thought to offer view into thought processes as they unfold
  • In this study, neural responses to movie clips more similar among friends than those further removed in a real-world social network
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previous research on neural homophily

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inter-subject correlations of neural response time series during viewing of complex dynamic stimuli associated with similarities in subjects’ interpretation of those stimuli

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homophily

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the tendency of nodes to connect to other similar nodes

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why do we think opposites attract?

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  • Perception vs. reality: perceptions of similarity may be more important for liking than objective similarity
  • Discovering dissimiarities can take time
  • We may pursue partners that represent our ideal selves
  • Dissimilarity may decrease over time
  • Some types of similarity may be more important than others
  • Matching is a broad process
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complementarity

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  • Perhaps we are attracted to people who possess the qualities we lacl
  • There is little support for this idea
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happiness of egalitarian vs. traditional couples

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  • Members of egalitarian couples are happier than more traditional couples
  • This may help explain results of some studies showing higher satisfaction in gay and lesbian couples
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humour in relationships

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  • There is no gender differences in preference for a partner with a sense of humour, but men do not rate funny women more highly
  • There are different interpretations of what it means to have a sense of humour
  • Men like women who laugh at their jokes and women like men who make them laugh
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do preferences predict attraction? speed-dating study

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  • Before the event: they rate the importance of physical appearance, earning potential & attractive personality in an ideal romantic partner
  • During the event: they rate each interaction partner on the above characteristics and indicate their level of desire
  • Ideal preferences failed to predict desire at the event
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promises of online dating

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Online dating platforms claim to have sophisticated algorithms that can match you with a perfect partner based on the large amount of data they collect

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efficacy of online dating study method

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  • Participants completed over 100 self-report measures, including personality, attachment, mating strategies, values, ideal partner preferences
  • Desire for each partner was assessed during a speed dating event
  • Statistical model: Can account for interactions between predictors
  • Parses variance in romantic desire into 3 components
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3 components of romantic desire

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actor variance, partner variance, and relational variance

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actor variance

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the overall tendency to desire others

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partner variance

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the overall tendency to be desired by other people

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relational variance

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people’s desire for specific partners

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efficacy of online dating study findings for actor desire

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  • Predicted 4-18% of variance in actor desire
  • Consistent predictors: desired warmth/responsiveness, one’s own expected selectivity
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efficacy of online dating study findings for partner desire

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  • 7-27% variance in partner desire
  • Consistent predictors: self-reports of one’s own mate value and physical attractiveness
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efficacy of online dating study findings for relationship desire

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Could not predict variance in relationship desire

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fatal attraction

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we may be originally attracted to some traits we don’t have but then become increasingly irritated by those traits

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efficacy of online dating study caveats

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  • Generalizability: relatively homogenous sample (undergraduates)
  • Desire was measured after a single 4-minute interaction: Results may look different for long-term romantic compatibility
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do we have a type?

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  • Collected self-reports of personality from individual’s current and former partners
  • Found evidence of unique (distinctive) similarity between current partner’s profile & ex-partner’s profile
  • Controlling for normative similarity
    (this suggests that the key finding is not due to shared environments)
  • There is some evidence that more extraverted and open-minded participants are less likely to be in a relationship with a partner distinctively similar to ex-partner
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Major histocompability complex (MHC)

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genes play a significant role in immune system; help recognize and respond to pathogens

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MHC and offspring

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Selection of MHC-dissimilar mates may confer benefits for offspring

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MHC study

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  • Women were asked to rate odours of t-shirts previously worn by a group of men
  • Odours of men with dissimilar-MHC antigens were seen as more attractive
  • Moderated by oral contracptive use
  • There were subsequent replications, but they were not consistent
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context and attraction

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  • Preferences feel like a stable part of our identity
  • One reason why attraction may be somewhat unpredictable is due to the effects of context on attraction
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normative similarity

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reflection of how people describe themselves in general ad self-partner similarity

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Capilano Suspension Bridge Study

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  • Men who saw an attractive woman on a scary bridge were more likely to call her than those who saw her on a safer bridge.
  • The men also wrote more romantic and sexual content in their stories if they met the woman on the scary bridge than the safe one
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Two factors of romantic attraction

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  1. Physiological arousal
  2. Misattribution of arousal: attributing physiological arousal to the wrong source
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two-factor theory of romantic attraction

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  • We will experience passion if we can assign physiological arousal to the target
  • Nature of arousal (negative or positive) does not matter
  • This effect may not generalize to contexts where physiological arousal is frequent and/or anger-provoking situations
  • Theories of aggression suggest that misattribution of arousal from a negative event may contribute to interpersonal aggression
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two-factor theory of romantic attraction shock study

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  • Brought participants in for a study of “electric shock on learning and pain”
  • They completed the task with an attractive confederate
  • Two conditions: expecting either a weak or strong shock
  • Measured attraction to the confederate
  • Those expecting a strong shock reported more attraction to the confederate
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two factor theory of romantic attraction positive vs. negative arousal study

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  • Is the effect contingent on type of arousal or attractiveness of confederate?
  • Manipulated the type of arousal
  • Negative: description of mutilation & killing
  • Positive: comedy tape
    neutral/no arousal: description of the circulatory system of a frog
  • Then, they watched a video of a woman made up to look either attractive or non-attractive
  • Regardless of the type of arousal condition, participants experienced the confederate as more attractive than in the no arousal condition
  • For the low attractiveness confederate, this effect seems to flip