Lecture 14: Sexuality Part 1 Flashcards
4 broad themes for why people have sex
physical, emotional, goal attainment, insecurity
Why do we have sex? study
- Meston & Buss, 2007: “Please list all the reasons you can think of why you, or someone you know, has engaged in sexual intercourse in the past.”
- 443 participants -> generated 237 distinct reasons
- Identified 4 broad themes with 13 subfactors
1 reason for why people have sex
I was attracted to the person (both men & women)
Most frequently endorsed reasons for having sex
attraction, pressure, affection, love, adventure, desire to please, opportunity, celebration
Least frequently endorsed reasons for having sex
- Retaliation, manipulation, desire to enhance one’s social status, desire to inflict harm
- Less frequent but potentially damaging
gender similarities in sexuality
- Men & women were remarkably similar in most frequently endorsed reasons
- Not a lot of evidence that women are more likely to endorse emotional reasons
gender differences in sexuality
- Men report higher frequencies for the majority of individual items and subfactors. They endorse more reasons centring on physical appearance of partner, experience-seeking, opportunity, enhancement of social status
- Evidence that men have stronger sex drives (strength of sexual motivation)
- Evidence that women exhibit greater relational focus when it comes to sex
sex drives by gender
- Gap gets bigger after having children & menopause
- More spontaneous thoughts about sex, greater frequency, and variety of sexual fantasies, greater desired frequency of intercourse and desired number of partners
- More likely to succumb to sexual temptation (infidelity, mate poaching)
- More willing to incur costs to have sex
- Engage in more masturbation, casual sex, and pornography use
- Hold more permissive sex attitudes (except same-sex behaviour)
relational focus by gender
- Women prefer sex within the ongoing, committed relationships
- Men express more desire for extradyadic sex
- Women’s fantasies are more likely to include familiar partner, affection and commitment, while men’s fantasies are more likely to include strangers & anonymous partners
- But, men feel happier with their sexual experiences when they’re happy with their relationship and when their partner is enjoying themselves
Sociosexual orientation
measure of individual differences in sexual strategies; the extent to which individuals are restrictive or permissive in their attitudes towards casual sex
Low SO (restricted)
- Tend toward long-term mating strategies
- Insist on commitment and closeness in a relationship prior to engaging in sex with a romantic partner
- Fewer sexual partners & one-night stands
high SO (unrestricted)
- Tend toward short-term mating strategies
- Feel comfortable with sex without commitment or closeness
- More sexual partners & one-night standard
- Endorse more reasons for having sex (with the exception of love and commitment)
gender & SOI
- On average, men are higher on SOI
- But, there’s much more variability within each gender than between the genders
- Gender differences account for only 9% of variance in number of desired sex partners, 20% of variance in consenting to sex with attractive acquaintance, 25% of variance in casual sex
- Approximately 30% of US men have less favourable attitudes towards casual sex than the median US woman
evolutionary explanations for gender differences in sexuality
- There is asymmetry in minimal parental investment
- Women may increase their reproductive success by being choosier, selecting mates that will provide resources, care, and protection
- Men may increase reproductive success by pursuing multiple mating opportunities
social roles theory for gender differences in sexuality
- Traditional view of men as initiators and women as gate-keepers
- Changing, but stigma against sexual permissive women still exists
sexual double standard
- Harsher judgment of women (relative to men) for engaging in similar sexual activity
- Women are socialized to restrict feelings of sexual desire to the context of committed, intimate relationships