Lecture 2: Constructing Social Experience Flashcards
making meaning of our relationship interactions
- Many social experiences are ambiguous and subject to multiple interpretations
- Some studies estimate that as much as 70% of our thoughts and conversations are spent trying to make sense of others
- ¼ UK adults admit to spending “hours” analyzing the wording/tone of a text
- Couple conflict is often rooted in disagreements about the meaning of an event rather than disagreement about its occurrence
attribution
explanations we make to understand the causes of events
two categories for attributions
locus & stability
locus distribution
is the cause of the behaviour internal or external to the person?
stability dimension
is the cause of the behaviour temporary?
are attributions independent?
Often go hand-in-hand (ex. Internal causes are more likely to be stable), but not necessarily
relationship-enhancing attributions
- Seeing positive behaviours as internal and stable
- Seeing negative behaviours as external and temporary
distress-maintaining attributions
- Seeing positive behaviours as external and temporary
- Seeing negative behaviours as internal and stable
attributions and relationship satisfaction
- Satisfied couples tend to make relationship-enhancing attributions
- Distressed couples tend to make distress-maintaining attributions
- The pattern of attributions partners make also predicts which couples are likely to stay happy and together over time
what influences the attributions we make?
- Attributions shape our interpretation of events (construal), which in turn affects our behaviour
- In any given interaction, we bring our pre-existing knowledge of what our partner is like, what people are like in general, and what relationships are like
schemas
- Mental frameworks or cognitive structures that help us make sense of our complex world
- Information processing by providing an organizational structure where we can slot new information
- Guide perception
- Allow us to make predictions (i.e. includes expectancies)
expectancy confirmation
Schemes can be updated with new information, but also tend to be self-perpetuating
2 pathways for expectancy confirmation
- Perceptual confirmation: we see what we expect to see
- Behavioural confirmation: we behave in a way that makes our expectancies come true
rejection sensitivity
disposition (individual tendency) to be anxious expect, readily perceive, and overreact to rejection
high vs. low RS
- High RS: people who anxiously expect rejection
- Low RS: people who calmly expect acceptance
how do we form rejection expectancies?
- Repeated experiences of rejection lead to the formation of rejection expectancies
- These expectancies are activated in situations where rejection is possible
- Once activated, they increase our readiness to perceive rejection
rs measure
- Lists a variety of interpersonal situations where rejection is possible and assesses responses along two dimensions
- The score for each situation is calculated by weighing the expected likelihood by the degree of concern
two dimensions of RS
- Degree of anxiety & concern about the outcome
- Expectations of acceptance & rejection