Family and Peers Flashcards
____ ____ in the United States have ____ since the early 1980s, but current estimates are that _ to _% of ____ ____ -____ ____ ____ ____ in ____.
Divorce Rates; Declined; 40 – 50%; Recent First-Time Marriages will End in Divorce
Predictors of Divorce: Several ____ ____ have been identified as ____ of ____. For example, results of the National Survey of Family Growth (National Center for Health Statistics, 2002) indicate that, for women, the risk for divorce is greatest when they marry at a ____ ____; have a lower level of no ____ ____, are in a ____ -____ ____; come from a ____ -____ ____, were ____, had a ____ ____ to ____ or within ____ ____ of ____, or ____ with their ____ ____ ____.
Demographic Characteristics; Predictors of Divorce; Young Age; Education; Religious Affiliation; Mixed-Ethnic Relationship; Single-Parent Home; Raped; Child Prior to Marriage; Seven Months of Marriage; Cohabited with their Partner Before Mariage
Risk for divorce has also been linked to the married couple’s ____ ____. A 14-year longitudinal study by Gottman and Levenson (2000) identified two interaction patterns that are predictive of divorce: The ____ ____ ____ -____ ____ is predictive of earlier divorce and is characterized by ____ ____. This pattern is consistent with previous research by Gottman and colleagues, which revealed that it is how ____ is ____ with (rather than the anger itself) that accurately predicts the risk for divorce.
Interaction Style; Emotionally Volatile Attack-Defend Pattern; Escalating Negativity; Anger is Dealt with
Investigators found that the ____ of ____ is predictive of divorce when it consistently involves a combination of criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling (the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse”).
Expression of Anger
The ____ ____ ____ is predictive of later divorce and is characterized by suppression of both ____ and ____ ____. Couples exhibiting this pattern not only ____ ____ but also ____ -____ and any other form of ____ ____.
Emotionally Inexpressive Pattern; Positive and Negative Affect; Avoid Conflict; Self-Disclosure; Emotional Engagement
____ of ____ on ____: Children’s adjustment following the divorce of their parents is affected by several factors, including the ability of parents to ____ ____ their ____.
Effects of Divorce on Parenting; Effectively Parent their Children
Wolchik and colleagues (2000) found that children exhibited ____ ____ ____ following the divorce of their parents when their mothers exhibited a ____ ____ of ____ and ____ in ____.
Fewer Adjustment Problems; High Degree of Acceptance and Consistency in Discipline
Unfortunately, divorced parents often experience ____ ____ and changes in ____ that include a ____ ____ to ____: Mothers, who usually have ____ ____ of the children, are frequently socially isolated and lonely, and experience a decline in income. They also tend to be ____, ____, and ____ ____ and ____ toward their children (especially sons), and they monitor their children’s ____ ____ ____ and are ____ ____ but more ____ in terms ____.
Emotional Distress; Functioning; Diminished Capacity to Parent; Physical Custody; Uncommunicative, Impatient, and Less Warm and Loving; Activities Less Closely; Less Consistent; Authoritarian; Punishment
____ ____ have ____ ____, although they may adjust to their situation ____ than do ____ ____. Finally, ____ ____ tend to be ____ ____ and ____ with their children during ____. and, after the first few months, their visits often ____ in ____.
Custodial Fathers; Similar Problems; Sooner; Custodial Mothers; Noncustodial Fathers; Overly Permissive and Indulgent; Visits; Decline in Number
Effects of Divorce on Children: The ____ of ____ on ____ are usually most profound during the ____ ____ ____ the ____. ____ ____ include increased misbehavior, aggression, and delinquency; lower academic achievement; problems related to psychological and emotional functioning; lowered self-esteem; and disruptions in interpersonal relationships.
Effects of Divorce on Children; First Year After the Divorce; Common Effects
The consequences of divorce are related to several factors including the ____ ____; Children who are ____ at the time of the divorce initially exhibit more problems than older children, probably because they are less able to ____ the ____ for ____ and are more likely to ____ ____ and fear they will be ____ by both parents. In contrast, the long-term consequences may be worse for ____ ____.
Child’s Age; Preschoolers; Understand the Reasons for Divorce; Blame Themselves; Abandoned by Both; Older Children
Wallerstein (1987) found that children who were six to eight years old at the time of the divorce exhibited ____ ____ ten years later and feared they would have ____ ____ themselves.
Painful Memories; Unsuccessful Marriages
Research examining the relationship between gender and the effects of divorce has produced somewhat ____ ____. Some studies show that ____ are more adversely affected and recover more slowly. Other research suggests that ____ may show ____ ____ ____ but that the long-term consequences are ____ for boys and girls so that, by adolescence, gender differences are ____ ____.
Inconsistent Results; Boys; Boys; Greater Distress Initially; Similar; Less Apparent
The similarity of adolescent boys and girls has been attributed to a “____ ____,” in which girls who were in preschool or elementary school at the time of the divorce do not show negative consequences until adolescence when they develop several problems including noncompliant behavior, decreased self-esteem, and sexual promiscuity. As young adults, these girls are at high risk for experiencing ____ and ____ ____ about ____ and ____ in ____ ____, choosing a husband who is ____ ____, and getting ____ themselves.
Sleeper Effect; Depression and Intense Anxiety about Betrayal and Abandonment in Romantic Relationships; Psychologically Unstable; Divorced
Custody Arrangements: Another factor that has been linked to child outcomes is the ____ ____. Several investigators report that children who live with the ____ -____ ____ do better than those living with the ____ -____ ____ – e.g., they have higher levels of self-esteem, lower anxiety and depression, and lower levels of antisocial behavior.
Custody Arrangement; Same-Sex Parent; Opposite-Sex Parent
Buchanan, Maccoby, and Dornbusch (1996) found that adolescent boys and girls living with their fathers had ____ ____ and ____ ____ than those living with their mothers, apparently due, in part, to the residential father’s lack of ____ of the ____ ____. Regardless of custody arrangements (whether the child is living with the same- or opposite-sex parent). adjustment outcomes are better when children have ____, ____ ____ with the ____ ____.
Poorer Adjustment and School Grades; Monitoring of the Teen’s Activities; Frequent, Reliable Contacts; Noncustodial Parent
There is evidence that ____ ____ does not improve outcomes for children when the divorce is ____ and may worsen outcomes when the divorce is ____ ____.
Shared Custody; Amicable; Highly Conflicted
____ ____: There is evidence that boys with ____ ____ ____ exhibited ____ ____ prior to the divorce, apparently because the parents’ ____ was a ____ ____. This finding is consistent with studies showing that (a) children with divorced parents or unhappily married parents do not differ ____ with regard to behavioral problems, (b) ____ ____ ____ are more detrimental to a child’s well-being than is a stable single-parent or stepparent family, (c) children whose parents report a high level of pre-divorce ____ are better off in terms of psychological well-being after the divorce than are children whose parents report a ____ ____ of pre-divorce conflict, and (d) a lack of parental conflict ____ the divorce is more important for a child’s adjustment to divorce than the ____ of ____ with the noncustodial parent. These findings have led some experts to conclude that it is ____ ____ rather than ____, that increases the risk for ____ ____ for children.
Parental Conflict; Serious Behavioral Problems; Similar Difficulties; Marriage was a Troubled One; Substantially; Conflictual Intact Families; Conflict; Low Level; After; Frequency of Contact; Parental Conflict; Divorce; Adverse Outcomes
Research on ____ has consistently found that, when compared to children living in biological two-parent families, children living with a parent and stepparent have ____ ____ in terms of academic performance, social relationships, and psychological and physical health.
Remarriage; Worse Outcomes
The differences between the two groups of children are often ____. Amato and Keith (1991), for example, report an average effect size of .17 across a variety of child outcomes, which means that the adjustment of children in stepfamilies is only .17 standard deviations below the adjustment of children in intact families. Researchers have also found that the apparent negative outcomes are ____ ____ when the effects of ____ ____ ____ – e.g., family socioeconomic status, family history of instability, and child’s preexisting adjustment problems — ____ ____.
Small; Reduced Substantially; Certain Antecedent Conditions; Are Controlled
There is evidence that the impact of remarriage is related to the ____ ____ In a longitudinal study, Hetherington (1993) found that stress and conflict between parents and their children was greatest when children were nine years of age or older at the time of the remarriage and that ____ ____ was “an especially deleterious time in which to have a remarriage occur.”
Child’s Age; Early Adolescence
To help explain why early adolescents have more trouble adapting to remarriage than younger or older youngsters do, Hetherington proposes that the ____ of a ____ at this time may exacerbate the normal adjustment problems characteristic of this age, especially problems related to ____ and ____.
Introduction of a Stepparent; Autonomy and Sexuality
Studies investigating the effects of gender on adjustment to parental remarriage have produced ____ ____. While most studies indicate that girls have more problems than boys do. some studies report the opposite effect or, alternatively. no gender effect.
Inconsistent Results
Research indicating worse outcomes for girls often report that girls in ____ ____ have the most problems, especially in families with a stepfather. In contrast, there is evidence that having a ____ may actually ____ ____ for ____, particularly ____ ____: Over time, these boys often develop ____ ____ with their ____ and become fairly ____ from boys in ____ families in terms of ____ ____ and ____ ____.
Early Adolescence; Stepfather; Beneficial for Boys; Preadolescent Boys; Close Relationships; Stepfathers; Indistinguishable; Nondivorced; Behavioral Problems and Academic Achievement
____ frequently express concerns about their ability to discipline and provide ____ to their stepchildren, and children confirm that stepparents (especially stepfathers) are ____ involved with them than their biological parents are. In fact, regarding parenting, the best general conclusion that can be drawn about ____ Is that they are more distant and disengaged than their biological counterparts.
Stepparents; Less Involved; Stepfathers
There is also evidence that the ____ ____ ____ by a ____ is an important determinant of the ____ -____ ____ and the ____ ____: An ____ ____ ____ has a positive effect, especially on the ____-____ ____; and in general, the best outcomes occur when the stepparent is ____, ____, and ____ of the ____ ____ ____.
Parenting Style Adopted; Stepparent; Stepparent-Stepchild Relationship; Stepchild’s Adjustment; Authoritative Parenting Style; Stepfather-Stepson Relationship; Warm, Involved, and Supportive of the Biological Parent’s Authority
Research on the ____ of ____ ____ has provided inconsistent results, but probably the best conclusion is that its ____ ____ its ____, especially for older children: Children of working women have more ____ ____ -____ ____ and more positive views of ____, and daughters have higher levels of ____ -____, ____, ____ ____, and ____ ____, and higher ____ ____.
Effects of Maternal Employment; Benefits Outweigh its Costs; Older Children; Egalitarian Gender-Role Concepts; Femininity; Self-Esteem, Independence, Academic Achievement, and Achievement Motivation; Career Goals
Some studies suggest that, in lower-SES (socioeconomic status) families, sons of working mothers obtain higher scores on measures of ____ ____, but, in ____ -___ ____; they may obtain lower scores on ____ and ___ ____.
Cognitive Development; Higher-SES Families; Achievement and IQ Tests
There is also evidence that maternal employment is most likely to have ____ ____ for ____ (e.g., lower school achievement, more behavioral problems, and increased mother-child conflict) when it is combined with low levels of ____ ____ and ____. Finally, maternal employment is less likely to have a negative impact on children if both parents have a ____ ____ attitude toward it.
Negative Outcomes for Boys; Parental Supervision and Monitoring; Positive Attitude
Research on the effects of daycare has produced inconsistent findings but, overall, it appears that ____ -____ ____ does not have a detrimental impact and may have benefits for children’s ____ and ____ ____.
High-Quality Daycare; Cognitive and Social Development
Children attending a high-quality daycare center tend to do better in terms of ____ ____ ____, ____ ____, and ____ ____ than those raised at home with a parent or babysitter or at a daycare home. These effects may be ____ however, with daycare center children becoming indistinguishable from other children by the end of first grade.
Intelligence Test Scores, Creative Play, and Language Skills; Temporary