7.2c Sibling Adaptation

Question 1

Siblings

Answer 1

• Distributing attention between siblings and neonate can be difficult, especially if the newborn is pre-term or needs special needs
• Positive sibling adaptation includes interest and concern for the baby and increased independence
• Negative behaviors include regression in toileting and sleep habits as well as aggression towards the baby

Question 2

Parents

Answer 2

• Parents attitudes towards baby arrival sets the stage for children reactions
• There will often be jealousy and sibling rivalry
• Parents must manage guilt of depriving older siblings of attention and monitor behavior of older siblings towards the infant (divert aggressive behavior)

Question 3

Acquaintance

Answer 3

• Depends on the information given to the child before the baby is born
• Also depends on children’s cognitive and developmental levels

Question 4

Sibling Acceptance

Answer 4

• Take older child on tour of hospital room and point out similarities between this birth and their birth.
  “This is like the room I was with you and the baby is in the same bassinet”
• Have a small gift from the baby to the older child
• Give the sibling a t-shirt that says I’m an older brother/sister
• Let your children be one of the first to see the new baby
• When older child visits for the first time, do not hold the baby, arms should be available for the older child.
• Plan time with both children (switch off between mom and dad)
• Give siblings a picture of the baby to show off at school
• Give older siblings responsibilities if they enjoy it such as giving the baby a bottle