Insights from ‘The Code of the Extraordinary Mind’ by Vishen Lakhiani Flashcards
What does Vishen Lakhiani advise about happiness and goal-setting?
You must be happy before you attain your goals; don’t tie your happiness to your goals.
What are self-fueled goals?
Goals that are entirely within your control, which you can achieve to experience happiness anytime.
True or False: Self-fueled goals can be controlled by external factors.
False
Name one example of a self-fueled goal Lakhiani identified for himself.
Being surrounded by love, always learning and growing, or having amazing human experiences.
Fill in the blank: ‘Self-fueled goals allow for a consistent sense of _____.
happiness
How can self-fueled goals reduce the fear of failure?
They make happiness independent of external achievements, allowing for fearless pursuit of bigger goals.
What question helps identify experiences you truly desire?
If time and money were no object, and I didn’t need permission, what experiences would I want to have?
How does imagining your ideal environment, adventures, and experiences contribute to goal setting?
It clarifies what you truly desire, guiding you toward goals that align with your values.
Fill in the blank: ‘By setting _____ goals, you reduce the fear of failure and set yourself free to pursue bold, meaningful goals.’
self-fueled
What is one reason Vishen Lakhiani believes safety can be overrated?
Because taking risks is less dangerous than before, and playing it safe may hold us back from a life of meaning and discovery.
How should one think about growth when setting meaningful goals?
Think about growing physically, intellectually, and spiritually to prepare for desired experiences.
True or False: Self-fueled goals are about achieving milestones imposed by others.
False
According to Lakhiani, what can happen even if one faces major setbacks, like homelessness?
They can still experience love, growth, and amazing human experiences from within.
Describe a way you could feel a sense of growth, as suggested by Lakhiani.
Engage in learning opportunities that allow continual personal and intellectual development.
Why is it important to envision how you could impact others as you grow?
It helps align personal growth with ways to give back, creating a sense of purpose and fulfillment.