Why We Do What We Do Ch. 12 Flashcards
individual differences among people
People are born with individual differences that generally follow a normal distribution
Factors that help people become autonomous
- A more vital and proactive temperament. This can influence adults to be less controlling
- Having a special support person, whether it’s a relative, coach, teacher, etc
- Interpreting situations as more autonomy-supportive than they actually are
- Promoting one’s own development
- Developing regulatory processes to manage one’s emotions and inner urges about finding ways to get one’s needs satisfied
- Regulating one’s behaviour
- Accepting oneself and taking an interest in one’s inner world
people who have a strong autonomy orientation:
- display greater coherence among various aspects of their personality and between their behaviour and personality
- are more satisfied with their interpersonal relationships
- have more positive mental health
- experience social contexts as more autonomy-supportive
Deci case study with San Francisco managers
Deci worked with a company in San Francisco that was characterized by controlling interpersonal relationships between the management team. He found that as the managers began relating to each other differently and providing support for each other, they also became more autonomy-supportive with their work teams, leading to a more positive morale in the whole company. They also began to deal with their boss differently and give him support so that he would reciprocate
emotions
reactions to real or imagined stimuli in the current situation or your memory
meanings of emotional stimuli
Stimuli have different meanings to different people
two components of emotional regulation
- Immediate intuitive response
- Reappraisal process (reflective assessment)
what component of emotional regulation gives people power over their emotions
Reappraisal process
emotions in ego-involved people
Ego-involved people become pawns to their emotions
emotions and behavioural tendencies
Emotions have behavioural tendencies built into them but we can inhibit the impulses and decide how to behave
signalling function of emotions
Emotions signal a discrepancy between a person’s current state and some standard they hold
Deci on the meaning of life
“The true meaning of being alive is not just to feel happy but to experience the full range of human emotions.”
developing autonomy through techniques
There are no techniques that make people autonomous; it has to come from within oneself