Succeed Ch. 12 Flashcards
persistence and succeess
Persistence has a lot to do with success
grit
a combination of long-term success and persistence
grit and achievement
Grittiness is strongly associated with higher achievement
is grit malleable?
yes, you can become more gritty if you want to
how can you improve your grit?
- Choosing getting-better goals and autonomously chosen goals
- Attributing your successes and failures to the right causes
our attributions are largely a function of ___
culture
attributions in Western societies
we emphasize measuring and celebrating ability
attributions in Asian countries
Asian countries emphasize effort rather than innate ability, which is why they perform better in math and science
two good reasons to disengage from a goal
- You can’t have it all (it’s impossible to accomplish everything with a set amount of time and energy)
- It is costing you too much
is disengaging from a goal easy?
No, disengaging from a goal can be hard, especially if it is related to an important aspect of your self-image, but it is critical for your happiness and well-being
what should you do when giving up a goal?
avoid ruminating about it and choose a new goal, assuming you don’t have one in its place
is disengaging from goals adaptive?
yes, it tends to be more adaptive when it leads to new goals