Succeed Ch. 5 Flashcards
image-maintenance goals and happiness
People whose goals are about image maintenance and financial gain tend to be far less happy even if they succeed at their goals
what aspects of one’s goals matter for achieving happiness?
the content & source of the goal
external pressure & goals
- People who pursue goals because of external pressures don’t work as hard or as well
- They use superficial strategies that will help them merely “get by”
Deci and Ryan on human motivations
all humans have three basic motivations
what are Deci & Ryan’s motivations?
relatedness, competence, and autonomy
relatedness
the desire to feel connected to and care for others
competence
the desire to have an effect on your environment and be able to get the things you want out of it
intelligence and competence
Intelligence is a kind of competence, but not the only kind
autonomy
the desire to choose and organize your own experiences
what kinds of goals satisfy all three of Deci and Ryan’s needs?
Goals about making, supporting, or strengthening our relationships, contributing to our communities, and helping others
what kinds of goals don’t satisfy all three of Deci and Ryan’s needs?
Goals about seeking other people’s validation, such as becoming rich and famous
does achieving goals that don’t satisfy all three of Deci and Ryan’s needs make us happy?
Achieving these goals doesn’t make us happy but we think it will so we pursue them
when do we turn to superficial goals?
when our needs for relatedness, competence, and autonomy are being frustrated
what kinds of goals create intrinsic motivation?
self-chosen goals
intrinsic motivation
the desire to do something for its own sake