Why We Do What We Do Ch. 1 Flashcards
efficacy of control and discipline
Rigid control and strict discipline do not work
autonomy
feeling free and volitional in one’s actions
controlled motivation
acting because one is being pressured to
2 types of controlled motivation
compliance & defiance
compliance
doing what you are told to do because you are told to do it
result of compliance
profound alienation
defiance
doing the opposite of what you are expected to do because you are told to do it
how are compliance and defiance related?
- Compliance and defiance are complementary responses to control
- Where there is one, there is a tendency for the other
- One tends to be dominant within an individual
rebellion
the outward manifestation of people’s tendency to defy control
conformity
the expression of one’s tendency to comply
authenticity
being the author of one’s actions
integration
the process by which various aspects of a person’s psyche have been brought into harmony with the person’s innate, core self
self
the author from which authenticity emanates
narcissism
a concern for what other people think that takes peoples’ focus away from their true self
impact of increased authenticity on autonomy and relatedness
As people become more authentic, they develop a greater capacity for autonomous self-regulation and become capable of a deeper relatedness to others