Packet- Arrangement Conference Flashcards
- Set time, date and location of service in consultation with the officiant- honorarium.
- Cemetery information- disposition by means of interment, entombment, cremation… charges.
- Newspaper information- obituary or death notice.
- Vital statisitcs for death certificate and funeral home record- how many transcripts- fees.
- Transportation- funeral home rolling stock charge.
- Use of facilties charge
- Professional service charge- nondeclinable
- Selection of merchandise.
- Cash advances by the funeral home
Areas to be Included in the Arrangement Conference
This type of newspaper notice is free of charge.
Obituary
This type of newspaper notice is done by classified rates.
Death Notice
- Casket
- Outer burial container
- Printed materials
Selection of Merchandise
- Clergy offering
- Copies of death certificate
- Newspaper death notice
- Cemetery/crematory charges
- Shipping costs
- Flowers
- Long distance telephone calls
- Any other cash advance
Cash Advances by Funeral Home
Many funeral homes have eliminated the use of these because they tend to intimidate the consumer and place the funeral director in an authoritarian, psychologically dominant position over the consumer. Instead, a setting of furniture is utilized with over-stuffed chairs, sofas, coffee tables, small telephone table, etc., must make provisions for storage of forms, etc.
Arrangement Office Desks
- Discussion involving the family, clergy, and the funeral director is often necessary due to the diversity of religious custom.
- In determining the availability of the clergy, it is often wise to contact the clergy in the presence of the family.
- The wishes of the family should always prevail. It may be necessary to contact another clergy person.
Consultation With the Clergy/Officiant
- Type of service
- Time of service
- Day of service
- Cost to the family of the clergy’s services
- Closed or open casket during the service
- Location of service
In a Clergy Consultation, Determine the Following:
- Name
- Address
- Phone number(s)
- Honorarium
- Religious affiliation
- Funeral home to provide transportation?
- Religious requirements
- Local customs
- Funeral home to provide literature?
- Idiosyncrasies of a particular clergy person
Keep a Clergy File up to Date
If a _____ _________ is to be coordinated with a religious service, the clergy person should be made aware of it.
Fraternal Organization
These are becoming more common. Someone in staff or contracted from the outside should be trained and available to conduct and coordinate such a service.
Funerals Without Clergy
- Cemetery deed
- Be sure of casket and vault size vs grave space size.
- Is double depth an option? (usually lawncrypt)
- Call cemetery while family is present.
- Confirm cemetery charges
- The primary right of disposition has no authority to open the grave- only the deed holder
- If the family has an outstanding bill owed to the cemetery, the grave will not be opened.
Cemetery Information
Cemetery Deed
Proof of ownership and authority to open a grave.
- Funeral home should check with the family for accuracy prior to submission (email, fax, read over the phone the spelling of all names).
- Ask the family how long to run the notice and in what newspapers.
- Give the family the estimated cost. This varies according to locality.
Death Notice
Editorials, not classified death notices. These are not subject to charges. The newspaper has editorial control as to content. Refer these writers to family members for information. Never volunteer information to newspapers without permission from the person holding primary right of disposition.
Obituary
- The facts
- Biographical information
- Survivors
- Service information
- Memorial contributions
Information to be Included- Death Notice