Oct 3 Flashcards
attachment theory
influential framework for understanding the emotional bonds we form with our closest others
experiences we have with our closest others (typically child parent beginning in infancy) shape our social & emotional development and future relationships
2 components to attachment theory
- normative development & functioning of the attachment system
^universal, present in all people
- individual differences in how the attachment system operates
behaviourist perspective on love
argues that all human and animal behaviour can be explained in terms of CONDITIONING
(associations made between two events)
thoughts and feelings are seen as irrelevant
when did school of behaviourism dominate?
dominated thinking and research in psychology
for first half of 20th century
Gordon Allport quote on behaviourism and psychology circa 1950
“a flight from tenderness”
ignoring fundamental human experiences like love and tenderness
behaviourism: why do infants cling to their moms?
because they’ve come to associate the mother with FOOD and OTHER MATERIAL REWARDS
but how to explain the lifelong, unrelenting persistence of love?
harry harlow challenged…
the behaviourist perspective which prevailed at the time
thought we should scientifically study LOVE and AFFECTION
point of departure for the study of love
what was the point of departure for the study of love?
Harry Harlow’s study of the affectionate bond of a child for its mother
harlow monkeys: surrogate mother as source of security
faced with novel, fear-producing situations, infants PREFER to cling to the CLOTH, not the wire lactating surrogate
use her as a SECURE BASE for exploration
high levels of distress in unfamiliar situations when cloth mother absent
having wire mother present doesn’t help
revolutionizing childcare
with emerging understanding of germs, utmost priority was placed on SANITATION and CLEANLINESS
- cuddling babies seen as UNHYGIENIC & DANGEROUS
despite greatly improved sanitary conditions in orphanages and hospitals, MORTALITY and MORBIDITY rates for young children was stubbornly high
as was development of MENTAL HEALTH issues
behaviourist perspective on childcare
childcare viewed in terms of “training”, “stimuli” and “conditioned responses”
- picking up a crying baby is conditioning them to be whiny
Jhn Watson (behaviourist) thoughts on maternal affection
that it’s dangerous
john bowlby’s attachment theory
observations of homeless children
warm, intimate and continuing relationship with the mother (or another caregiver) is ESSENTIAL for healthy child development
took EVOLUTIONARY perspective
^ infants can’t survive without caregiver to protect them from harm - some MECHANISM must be in place to KEEP INFANTS CLOSE to caregivers
john bowlby proposed that all humans are born with…
an ATTACHMENT BEHAVIOURAL SYSTEM
conceptualized attachment behavioural system as akin to a control system
like a THERMOSTAT regulating room temp - but instead of temp, it regulates SAFETY
what does the attachment behavioural system regulate?
safety
- comparison to set point
- controller
- sensor
a. error
b. feedback
c. input
d. feedback
attachment behavioural system is composed of…
proximity seeking behaviours
they are triggered when caregiver leaves - feeling of danger
and then they evaporate when person feels secure again
john bowlby’s attachment theory (1969) in a nutshell
posits the existence of a universal, evolved biobehavioural system (attachment system)
that motivates maintenance of proximity to caregivers (attachment figures)
in infancy/childhood, thus promoting survival
attachment figure hallmarks
- proximity seeking
- safe haven
- secure base
- separation distress
proximity seeking
attachment figure is the person you go to
esp when in need/distress
safe haven
attachment figure provides protection, comfort, support
secure base
attachment figure allows one to pursue non-attachment goals in safe environment
separation distress
actual/expected separation from attachment figure evokes strong feelings of distress
defining feature of attachment relationship
we’re drawn to our attachment figures not only by the REWARDs of their company, but by the PAIN of SEPARATION from them
response to separation
- PROTEST
- acute distress, desperate attempts to re-establish contact
- crying, clinging, calling, searching
- generally rejecting of contact with others - DESPAIR
- preoccupation with caregiver still evident
- depressed mood
- hopeless/withdrawn - DETACHMENT
- may begin to show interest in other things/people
- often appears listless & apathetic if reunited with caregiver
- may exhibit anger
Mary Ainsworth
colleague of Bowlby
made crucial psychometric and empirical contributions
put the theory to the test
Mary Ainsworth was concerned not only with…
WHETHER children were attached
but also with:
- HOW they were attached
- the MATERNAL FACTORS that predicted this
resistant/ambivalent response in strange situation
- clingy baby
- highly distressed by mom’s departure
- continues to cry and exhibit distress when contact is restored
- contradictory behaviour toward mother (tries to get close, but sometimes shows anger/resistance)
- no interest in exploration, not able to use mom as secure base
avoidant response in strange situation
- sullen baby
- appears indifferent to mother upon her return
- may play with toys but doesn’t actively involve mom as secure babies do
- further research identified signs of distress (elevated heart rate)
prevalence: madigan et al meta-analysis
meta-analysis of the first 20 000 strange situation procedures
51.6% secure
14.7% avoidance
10.2% resistant/ambivalent
23.5% disorganized (lack of coherent attachment style)
antecedents of secure pattern
history of positive interactions with a responsive caregiver
- bids for proximity and reassurance = sensitively & consistently attended to
- learns that primary attachment strategy (seeking proximity to caregiver when in distress) is safe and effective
- can bravely explore world because mom will be there if trouble arises
antecedents of insecure pattern
stems from deficits in caregiving
specific differences for avoidant and anxious/ambivalent
antecedents of anxious/ambivalent pattern
caregiver is INCONSISTENT
leads to HYPERACTIVATION of attachment system
ie. if I ramp up my bids for proximity, maybe caregiver will respond
antecedents of avoidant pattern
caregiver is REJECTING, discourages closeness
leafs to DEACTIVATION of attachment system
ie. if I don’t come off as too needy, maybe the caregiver won’t reject me
internal working models
through attachment interactions, develop SCHEMAS or INTERNAL WORKING MODELS of:
- themselves
- attachment figures
- attachment relationships
“working” component of internal working models
“working”:
- allows them to STIMULATE/PREDICT likely outcomes of attachment behaviours
- provisional/subject to UPGRADING
internal working models include…
- specific AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL MEMORIES
- GENERALIZED BELIEFS about oneself, attachment figures & close relationships
- PROCEDURAL KNOWLEDGE (how to regulate emotions & behave in close relationships)
2 models within internal working models
- MODELS OF OTHERS
- representations of attachment figures’ responses
- “can others be relied on?” - MODELS OF SELF
- reps of one’s own efficacy
- “am I lovable?”
internal working models organize…
ORGANIZE attachment knowledge
internal working models guide…
GUIDE subsequent interactions with attachment figures as well as other people
internal working models bias…
BIAS the way we interpret info & ENCODE it into memory
“tolerably accurate reflections of what actually happened” - Bowlby
attachment beyond childhood
Bowlby: the attachment system REMAINS ACTIVE “from the cradle to the grave”
“to remain within easy access of a familiar individual known to be willing and able to come to our aid in an emergency is clearly good insurance policy - whatever our age”
airport study - proximity seeking
proximity seeking under threat
ie. couple separating in airport more likely to maintain physical contact (mutual gaze, touching, talking intently) if securely attached
separation distress past childhood
experience intense anger, anxiety, sadness in response to actual or perceived threats to close relationships
bereavement is a universally painful experience
safe haven past childhood
mere presence of a close relationship partner can alleviate distress in the lab and real life
secure base past childhood
when Ps perceive romantic partners as more supportive, report greater sense of independence, self-efficacy, more autonomous goal exploration, more likely to achieve goals
differences in adulthood to childhood attachment
- individuals OTHER THAN PARENTs take role of attachment figures (romantic partners, close friends)
- PSYCHOLOGICAL (not just physical) proximity
- THRESHOLD for attachment system activation is HIGHER
- become more capable of SELF-SOOTHING (internalized positive self-reps)
- MUTUALITY (care seeking AND caregiving)
- SEXUALITY
3 categories percentages - attachment in adults
similar patterns of attachment in adults as in children
3 category traditional measure:
56% secure
19% anxious
25% avoidant
later distinguished between DISMISSING and FEARFUL avoidant types
3 category traditional model later changed…
to distinguish between dismissing and fearful avoidant types
dismissing: high avoidance, LOW ANXIETY
fearful: high avoidance, HIGH ANXIETY
- secure
- dismissing
- fearful
- preoccupied
secure person thought process
“it’s easy for me to become emotionally close to others. I’m comfortable depending on them and having them depend on me. I don’t worry about being alone or having others not accept me”
low anxiety, low avoidance
preoccupied person thought process
“I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others, but I often find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like. I’m uncomfortable being without close relationships, but I sometimes worry that others don’t value me as much as I value them”
high anxiety, low avoidance
fearful person thought process
“I’m uncomfortable getting close to others. I want emotionally close relationships, but I find it difficult to trust others completely or to depend on them. I worry that I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others”
high avoidance, high anxiety
dismissing person thought process
“I’m comfortable without close emotional relationships. It’s very important to me to feel independent and self-sufficient, and I prefer not to depend on others or have others depend on me”
high avoidance, low anxiety
behavioural assessment
adult attachment interview
- discuss relationship with parents
- choose adjectives that describe them
- justify choices
- speculate about parent’s behaviour
adult attachment interview - what are we interested in?
- CONTENT of answers
- also HOW individual discusses these experiences
try to infer STATE OF MIND relative to attachment
- are answers (IN)COHERENT? (IN)CONSISTENT?
- are there signs of EMOTIONAL DISORGANIZATION?