Islam- Relationships And Families Flashcards
Quote against homosexuality
“Must you, unlike [other] people, lust after males and abandon the wives that God has created for you? You are exceeding all bounds.”
Quran 26:165-166
What does shar’iah law say about sex before marriage
Considered like adultery or rape to be zinah- a sexual offence
Quote against sex before marriage
“The only way to protect all within society is to maintain a society where only a man and his wife share the act of sex.
Adbul Wahid Hamid, Islam: the
Natural way
Quotes about sex outside of marriage - man behavoir
“A man should not stay with a woman in seclusion unless his is a Dhu-Mahram (relative).
Hadith
Quotes about sex outside of marriage
“And do not go anywhere near adultery: it is an outrage, and an evil path.”
The Qur’an 17:32
What is required for conviction under law for sex before marriage and adultery
require a confession or 4 separate eyewitness accounts. Therefore it is rare for a conviction to be reached
Why does adultery destroy a marriage
betrayal of trust and goes against the promises made by the couple at their wedding.
Quote to support importance of marriage
“There is no institution in Islam more beloved and dearer [to God] than marriage.”
Hadith
Whoever is able to marry, let him marry, for this will keep him chaste’-hadith
‘Marry those who are single among you for [god] will develop their moral traists [through marriage]- hadith
‘He created spouses from among yourselves for you to live with in tranquility
Quote against arranged marriage
“If a man gives his daughter in marriage while she is averse to it then such marriage is invalid.”
Hadith
Quote about rules for divorce
when any of you intend to divorce women, do so at a time when their prescribed waiting period can properly start…if you are in doubt, the period of waiting shall be three months…”
Quran 65:1-4
Quote treatment of women during divorce
“Divorced women shall also have maintenance as is considered fair: this is a duty for those who are mindful of
God”
Quran 2:241
Quote for importance of mother
“Heaven is under the feet of the mothers”
Hadith
Quote for views on children
“Honour your children and perfect their manners.”
Hadith
“For every tree there is a fruit and the fruit of the heart is the child.”
Hadith
Children duty
‘It is one of the greatest sins that a man should curse his parents.’
Hadith
Quote for treatement of elderly and treatment parents
“He who is good to his parents, blessing be upon him…
Hadith
Lower your wings in humility towards [your parents] in kindness say ‘lord have mecy on them just as they cared for me when i was littel’ quaran
‘It is one oft he greatest sin that a man should ignore his parnets’ hadith
‘Your lord has commanded that you be kind to your parents’ ‘if [they] reach old age with you, say no words that shows impatience with them’
‘Do not be hahrsh with them, but speak to them respectfully’
Your Lord has commanded you should worship non but Him, and that you
be kind to your parents.
If either or both of them reach old age with you, say
no word that shows impatience with them, and
do not be harsh with them, but
speak to them respectfully..
Quran 17:23
Importance of mother story
when asked, the Prophet said that the mother is to be respected three times before mentioning the father. Nevertheless,
Describe on emuslim attitude towards pre-marital sex
Muslim might oppose pre-marital sex
• They might consider it sinful
• It might be referred to as an act of zina or unlawful sexual act
• Sex is for the purpose of having children, which should take place within marriage
• Another response might be to ask forgiveness from Allah for their actions
Quote to support polyamery
Qur’an 4:3 states:
If ve fear that ve shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one.
State three purposes of the family according to muslims
to marry
• to raise children
• to continue the faith
• to teach/ introduce children to the Qur’an/ to their pravers
• to care for the elderlv/ relatives
• to live a life of modesty
• according to the Sunnah
Quote that suggests equality
Qur’an 30:22 states: And among His Signs is the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the variations in your languages and your colours: verily in that are Signs for those who know. This suggests that diversity, including differences of local culture, may be part of Allah’s divine plan and therefore may influence Muslims views.4
Men and women equality quotes
The Qur’an Surah 33 Verse 35 refers to men and women eguallv in all actions: For Muslim men and women - for believing men and women, for devout men and women… for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward. Furthermore, in Surah 60 verse 8 it is stated: Allah loveth those who are just.
