Nonviolent communication NVC Flashcards
Non-violent communication - 1. make observations not evaluations
Limit descriptions to what can be perceived with five senses
I went to the gym one time last week versus I failed to exercise last week
O for observatioins
Nonviolent communication 2 .Express feelings not thoughts
Statements like I feel useless I feel in adequate or not expressions of feelings
F for feelings
Nonviolent communication 3. Identify needs not strategies
Needs are more than things we can’t live without they represent our values wants desires and preferences for a happier and more meaningful experience as human.
N for Needs
Nonviolent communication 4. Make a requests not demands
Once you become clear about feelings and needs it’s time to confirm an action use request like “would you be willing to tell me what you’ve heard me say”
R for requests
Non Violent communication ( OFNR)
Observation
Feelings
Needs/values
Request