Ch10-turn The Volume Down Flashcards

1
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Even you persuaded me, you won’t persuade me

A

Aristophanes

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2
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Argument tool: passive voice/ Control emotions

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Passive voice-great pathos

There is no doubt that this has been compromised

Question were raised

Mud has been dragged across the room

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3
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persuasion alert: angry board calmer

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The account got ruined
Mistakes were made

Don’t point finger

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4
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argument tool: cognitive ease

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When audience brain is already on autopilot is more susceptible to persuasion

System 1 brain : instinct - keep it simple and to pinpoint
System 2 brain : thinker- uses energy avoid

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5
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Make your audience powerful

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Give them a sense of control-

Trigger system 1 by give them comfort by smile and offer a choice

  • what a jerk? Relax ? Do you like wine?red o white?
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6
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persuasion alert: humor

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Best tool to assuage fear and relax people

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7
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Urbane humor

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Depends off the educated audience

Would John Wayne
No he would wax

Use the opposite word

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8
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Banter

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Form of attack and defense clever insults and snappy comebacks

Agree with a point at face value just to snap it back

“If I am x that makes you y”

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9
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Set a back fire: exaggerate emotion

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Like with client : what u wanted to be done, what you done to fix it, finally how anergy you are

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10
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The tools

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Passive voice: redirect anger from others
Comfort: keep them in their easy, instinct state-make them smile
Humor: use concession to snap back
emotional refusal: refuse to show emotion the bully wants
Backfire: calm their emotion by overplaying it yoursef

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