11.2 social motivations Flashcards
Abraham Maslow
some of our motivations must take presidency over others
Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs
the motivation to pursue higher levels of needs can only proceed after we succeed in pursing lower level needs physiological needs safety needs belongingness and love needs esteem needs cognitive needs aesthetic needs self actualization needs
Maslow’s hierarchy of needs
- failure to fulfill more basic needs will tend to make it impossible to fulfill higher needs
- maslow didn’t mention it, but sometimes it is possible to fulfill more than one need at a time
- having self actualization as the ultimate goal is bias of our individualistic western culture
- members of more collectivist cultures may consider group success to be the ultimate goal
the basic human need to belong
this needs relates to the goal to maintain social relationships that generate pleasant feelings in us, these feelings come from knowing other ppl value us
-failing to achieve belongingness affects our mental health-one key source of anit-social behaviour
under-appreciated threats to mental health and causes of social problems
sleep deprivation
information overload
social isolation and rejection
fulfilling our need to belong generates health benefits
- loneliness lowers our immune system and increase our risk of disease
- the ultimate fulfillment of our need for belongingness goes by the term, LOVE
Passionate love
love that is tied to physical attraction and the intense desire to have sexual contact with the other person
Companionate love
lover emerges more from feelings of warmth, contentment, trust, as well as deep knowledge of the other person and strong admiration for them
- more strongly related to romantic relationships that last over the long-term
- our desire for theses sorts of relationships probably arise from the child raising advantage they provided our ancestors
- OXYTOCIN
oxytocin
hormone that stimulates the feelings of attachment and closeness that we refer to as love
factors associated with romantic partners staying together for the long-tern include
- having a high level of attraction to begin with
- the obstacles discouraging the break up
- the availability of alternative options
- > staying together is an accomplishment, particularly for ppl who do have many appealing alternative options
esteem needs
also known as achievement motivations
achievement motivation and approach goals
we seek achievement through approach goals
money, self esteem boosting, popularity
achievement motivation and avoidance goals
-trying to avoid negative feelings
avoidance of emotional pain
to avoid financial losses
embarrassment avoidance
universal human needs
relatedness
autonomy
competence
relatedness
the need to feel connected with others