Listening (M) MT-Q Flashcards
This is the ability to accurately receive and interpret messages in the communication process
Listening
This refers to:
- complex, affective, cognitive, and behavioral processes
- interpretation and analysis of a message
Listening
This refers to:
- a physiological process
- the starting point of the listening process
Hearing
This is a requirement for listening
Hearing
This is the partner of listening
Speaking
T or F: Listening is easy to develop among the 4 language skill (reading, writing, speaking, and listening)
False (difficult)
Kinds of processes:
- are those that motivate us to attend to a message
Affective
Kinds of processes:
- includes understanding and interpreting its meaning
Cognitive
Kinds of processes:
- are those related to responding with verbal and nonverbal feedback
Behavioral
T or F: It is very important to generate a feedback, specifically a verbal one only
False (both verbal and non-verbal should be provided)
T or F: Listening is still the most widely used daily communication activity, despite of the use of technology
True
Listening for Various Reasons:
Refers to listening for enjoyment (e.g. listening to music for enjoyment and to speakers because we like their style)
Appreciative Listening
Listening for Various Reasons:
Refers to when we listen to infer what more a speaker might mean beyond the actual words being spoken (e.g. when a doctor is explaining test results, we might also try to discern whether the results are routine or cause for concern)
Discriminative Listening
Listening for Various Reasons:
Refers to listening with the goal of recalling information (e.g. material a professor shares during a lecture)
Comprehensive Listening
Listening for Various Reasons:
When we want to really
understand and critically evaluate the worth of a message
Critical Listening
Rank the “Reasons for Listening” from least to most complex
(Remember Casidy)
- Critical
- Appreciative
- Comprehensive
- Discriminative
This refers to the anxiety we feel about listening
Listening Apprehension
Refers to our favored and usually unconscious approach to listening
Listening Style
T or F: We don’t change our listening style based on the situation and our goals for the interaction
False (we change)
Types of Listeners:
- They focus on and evaluate the facts and evidence
- Appreciate details and enjoy processing complex messages
- They are likely to ask questions to get even more information
- Likely to understand and remember details, but may miss the overall point of the message and be unaware of the speaker’s feelings
Content-oriented listeners
Types of Listeners:
- They focus on the feelings their conversational partners may have
- Tend to notice whether their partners are pleased or upset
- Encourage their partner to use nonverbal cues like head nods, eye contact, and smiles
- Likely to understand how the speaker feels, empathize, and offer comfort and support
- Might become so focused on the speaker’s feelings that they miss important details or fail to evaluate the facts offered as evidence
People-oriented listeners
Types of Listeners:
- They focus on the ultimate point the speaker is trying to make
- Tend to get frustrated when ideas are
disorganized and when people ramble
- Often anticipate what the speaker is going to say and may even finish the speaker’s sentence for them
- May notice inconsistencies but because they tend to anticipate what will be said rather than hearing the speaker out, may miss important details.
Action-oriented listeners
Types of Listeners:
- They prefer brief and hurried conversations
- Often use nonverbal and verbal cues to signal that their partner needs to
be more concise
- May tell others exactly how much time they have to listen, interrupts when feeling time pressures, regularly checks the time on smart phones, watches, or clocks, and may even nod their heads rapidly to encourage others to pick up the pace
- Prone to only partially listen to messages while also thinking about their time constraints
- Might miss important details and be insensitive to their partner’s emotional needs
Time-oriented listeners
This may also be influenced by cultural and co-cultural identities
Preferred Listening Style
These people are more likely to describe themselves as person-oriented
Women for feminine co-culture
These people are more likely to be time-oriented
Men for masculine co-culture
These people are more likely to have a people-oriented listening style
People in collectivist cultures