Interpersonal Relationships (M) MT-Q Flashcards
All those interactions that occur between two people that help START, BUILD, and sometimes END or REDEFINE our interpersonal relationships.
Interpersonal communication
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Interpersonal communication is all those interactions that occur between two people that help _____, ______, and sometimes _____________ our interpersonal relationships
START
BUILD
END or REDEFINE
Are defined by the sets of expectations two people have for each other based on their previous interactions (Littlejohn & Foss, 2011)
Interpersonal relationships
T or F
Are defined by the sets of expectations two people have for each other based on their current interactions
F
Are defined by the sets of expectations two people have for each other based on their PREVIOUS interactions
Who provided the definition for interpersonal relationships?
Littlejohn & Foss, 2011
Help satisfy our innate human need to feel connected with others and run the gamut from impersonal acquaintances to intimate friends.
Interpersonal relationships
What are the 3 types of relationships?
- Acquaintances
- Friends
- Intimates
Are people we know by name, but with whom our interactions are largely impersonal.
Acquaintances
Are interchangeable chit-chat (Beebe, Beebe, & Ivy, 2007)
Impersonal communication
T or F
Most conversations with acquaintances can be defined as external communication.
F
Most conversations with acquaintances can be defined as IMPERSONAL COMMUNICATION.
Is the processs of attempting to maintain positive self-image in a relational situation,
Saving face
What are the 5 acquaintanceship guidelines?
- Initiate a conversation
- Make your comments relevant
- Develop an other-centered focus
- Engage in appropriate turn-talking
- Be polite
Are people with whom we have voluntarily negotiated more personal relationships (Canary, Cody & Manusov, 2008)
Friends
Who provided the definition for friends?
Canary, Cody & Manusov, 2008
What are the 5 friendship guidelines?
- Initiation
- Responsiveness
- Self-disclosure
- Emotional support
- Conflict management
T or F
Friendships do not exchange personal information
F duh
Friendships are BASED ON THE EXCHANGE OF MORE PERSONAL INFORMATION, OPINIONS, AND FEELINGS
Are people with whom we share a high degree of interdependence, commitment, disclosure, understanding, affection, and trust.
Intimates
Is one which the partners are not sexually attracted to each other or do not act on attraction they feel.
Platonic relationship
Is one in which the partners acknowledge their sexual attractions towards one another
Romantic relationship
Is placing confidence in another in a way that almost always involves some risk.
Trust
What are the 4 types of interactions in intimate relationships?
- Physical touch
- Sharing thoughts and opinions
- Sharing feelings
- Shared activities
What are the 6 Intimacy guidelines?
- Be dependable
- Be responsive
- Be collaborative
- Be faithful
- Be transparent
- Be willing
Moving back and forth among the relationship phases
Relationship life cycle
The process of revealing confidential information
Disclosure
The verbal and nonverbal responses we make to messages we receive
Feedback
Sharing thoughts and feelings that are unknown to the other person
Self-disclosure
Confidential information we deliberately choose to share about ourselves.
Self-disclosure
Confidential information shared about someone by a third party
Other-disclosure
Describes the different kinds of self-disclosure we use in relationships.
Social Penetration Theory
A tool for examining the relationship between disclosure and feedback in relationships.
Johari Window
Explains how various forms of disclosure and feedback operate in them.
Johari window
T or F
Not all self-disclosure is equally revealing
T
Has to do with range of different dubjects you discuss with your partner
Breadth
Has to do with the quality of information shared
Depth
Who are the originators of Johari window in which the “Johari” window is named after
Joe Luft and Harry Ingham
T or F
The 4 panes of the Johari window are: The Open pane, The Secret pane, The Blind pane and The Known pane
F
The 4 panes of the Johari window are: The Open pane, The Secret pane, The Blind pane and The UNKNOWN pane
What are the 4 panes in Johari window
- The Open pane
- The Secret pane
- The Blind pane
- The Unknown pane
Pane that represents the information about you that both you and your partner know. Information you share with most people.
The Open pane
Pane that contains everything you know about yourself, but you partner does not yet know.
The Secret pane
T or F
As you share secret information through self-disclosure, it moves to the Secret Pane
F
As you share secret information through self-disclosure, it moves to the Open Pane
What are the 3 stages of relationships?
- Coming together
- Staying together
- Coming Apart
Stage of relationship that focus on begginning and developing relationships.
Coming together
T or F
When we first meet someone, we assume they are similar to us until they say or do tells us otherwise
T
Consists of those communication startegies used to keep a relationship operating smoothly and satisfactorily
Relational Maintenance
By putting their needs or desires on hold to attend to the needs of their partner or the relationship
Sacrifice
When one or both partners fail to engage actively in relational maintenance strategies the relationship may?
may begin to come apart and could eventually even end altogether
This is the first sign that a relationship is coming apart.
Circumscribing
During this stage, communication decreases in both quantity and quality
Circumscribing
If circumscribing continues, it may eventually lead to?
Stagnating
This is when partners go through the motions of interacting without enthusiasm or emotion ; ((
Stagnating
When a relationship that has stagnated becomes too painful, partners begin?
Avoiding
Creating physical distance between them and by making excuses not to do things together
Avoiding
When partners decide the relationship is no longer worth trying to maintain, it will end
Terminating
Explanations about why the relationship failed (attempts to explain why the relationship failed)
Grave-dressing
The process of changing a relationship from one type to another
Relationship Transfromation
Interaction online based on the assumption that our online partner is similar to us (Joe Walther)
Hyperpersonal communication
Who provided the definition of Hyperpersonal communication?
Joe Walther
The use of many different mediums to maintain relationships
Media multiplexity
Is a tension between conflicting forces
Dialectic
Are the competing psychological tensions that exist in relationships
Relational Dialectics
What are the 3 types of Relational Dialectics?
- Autonomy/Connection
- Openness/Closedness
- Novelty/Predictability
Is the desire to do things independent of your partner
Autonomy
Is the desire to link your actions and decisions with your partner
Connection
Is the desire to share intimate ideas and feelings
Openness
Is the desire to keep intimate ideas to yourself
Closedness
Is the desire for originality, freshness, and uniqueness in your behavior, your partner’s behavior, or in relationship
Novelty
Is the desire for consistency, reliability, and dependability
Predictability
What are the 4 strategies for managing dialectical tensions?
- Temporal Selection
- Topical Segmentation
- Neutralization
- Reframing
Is the strategy of choosing one desire while ignoring the other for the time being
Temporal selection
Is the strategy of choosing certain topics to satisfy one desire and other topics to satisfy the opposing desire
Topical segmentation
Is the strategy of comprising between the desires of one person and the desire of the other
Neutralization
Is the strategy of changing your perception about the opposing desires so they no longer seem quite so contradictory
Reframing