Influences of Experience on Relationship Development Flashcards
Attachment:
any form of behavior that
results in a person attaining or
retaining proximity to some
other differentiated and
preferred individual, usually
conceived as stronger and/or
wiser
Attachment
Theory
- John Bowlby
- Mary Ainsworth (“The strange situation”
strange situation
the mother leaves the room and maybe there is a stranger comes back or not
what is inportant is how they react when the mom comes back
Attachment
Behaviour
- Is adaptive
- Keeps a balance between
exploration and proximity
seeking - Idea of a “safe zone”(keep checking back)
- Attachment figure is the secure base from which to explore
“A Theory of Affect
Regulation” - Responses to the experiment
secure - acknowledge distress, turn to others for comfort/support
avoidant - don’t acknowledge distress and do not seek support
anxious-ambivalent - hypersensitivity and heightened distress
(possible 4th group) disorganized - disoriented, contradictory reunion behaviour
attachment and parenting style is not causality but related
attachment and parenting : secure attachment style
parenting style: Available, warm, responsive
attachment and parenting : Avoidant attachment style
parenting style: rejecting, rigid, hostile
attachment and parenting : Anxious-ambivalent attachment style
parenting style: insensitive, inconsistent
Why is this important?
Attachment plays a role in our close relationships throughout the life cycle
through adulthood
Initial Measure of Adult Attachment
- Shaver and Hazan
- the way they asked the questions - had to much in a text and some negative wording
Adult Attachment: Two Dimensions
not clumps this is a problem because some people dont fall in these category
secure:low intimacy avoidance, low anxiety over abadomment
Preoccupied (anxious ambivient) : Low intimacy avoidance,High anxiety over abandoment
Fearful(avoidant) : High intamacy Avoidence, High intimacy avoidance
**Dismissing **(avoidence) : Low Anxiety over Abandamonment, High Intamacy avoidance
Individual Differences in
Attachment
Bi-directional Influence
* Influence caregiver and child have on each other
Genetic constitution
* Infant temperament
Cultural influence
* Frequency of insecure attachment varies based on differences in child rearing practices
* Western Europe more Avoidant
* Israel and Japan more Preoccupied