Forming Impressions and Impression Management Flashcards
First
Impressions
- Based on stereotypes we have
about people. - Formed from past relationship
experience, social learning, etc.
(not necessarily based on truth). - in milliseconds
Why are First Impression Long Lasting?
Primacy effect
* Tendency to remember things that come first
Confirmation bias
* Look for information that confirms our first impressions
Overconfidence
* Belief that you have more accurate
impressions of individuals than you do
Overconfidence
Overconfidence:
Accuracy of
Partner’s Sexual
History
cofidence: 62% avarage
actual accuracy: 39%
overtime
confidence:90% (because lenght of relationship)
actual accuracy: 39%
Impression Management
Trying to control how others perceive us
Strategies of
Impression
Management
Ingratiation –
favors/compliments/agreement
* Creates Liking
Self-promotion –reveal
accomplishments/skills
* Increases Respect
Intimidation –portray self as
dangerous
* Creates Fear/Compliance
Supplication – portray self as unable
* Increases Help/Nurturance
Self-monitoring
High self-monitors – adjust behavior to fit the situation
- More friends but less in common
- More social but less committed relationships
Low self-monitors - does not adjust behaviour to fit the situation
How Well do we
Know our Partners?
Not as well as we think
Factors Affecting Accuracy of
Perceptions
Knowledge: the more
knowledgewe have, the more accurate
Motivation: the more we
want to know, the more we know
Partner legibility: with obvious
traits we are more accurate
Perceiver ability: some people are naturally better judges
E.g., having high emotional intelligence
Threatening perceptions:
intimates don’t want to be accurate
about some things
E.g. partner’s attraction to
others
Perceiver influence:if we change our partners, we are more accurate