BDSM Flashcards

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Fetish

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an unusually strong liking or need for a particular object or activity, as a way of getting sexual pleasure (fixation)

they need the object/activity to orgasm

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Kink

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kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices concepts or fantasis (BDSM)

the object/activity does not need to be there for oragsm

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Perversion

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perversion is a form of human behaviour which deviates from what is considered to be orthodox and normal

not bad in the bdsm community

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BDSM

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Acronyms refering to practices of

Bondage Discipline/Dominance and Subimission/Sadism and Masochism

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Phatologizing Paraphilia

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  • the first records of BDSM 3000 BDSM - Ancient Sumerian goddess-safe word
  • 2010 : American Psyactric association announced that it would be changing the diagnostic codes for BDSM
  • 2011 - 50 shades of gray sold over 150 millions
  • 2015 sexual sadism and masochism were changed to sexual sadism disorder and sexual misochism disorder -
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ssc

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  • Safe
  • Sane
  • Consensual
  • Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)
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7
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PRICK

most common

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Personal
Responsability
Informed
Concensual
Kink

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8
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BDSM is different then abuse

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because it is consesual

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9
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Role-play is like bad acting

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you are not unlike yourself, but more like yourself in the realm of fantasy

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10
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rituals

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are powerful way to signify a shift into play

fantasy is the realm of possibility

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why engage in BDSM

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  • Exchanging power(through which they experience a sense of freedom)
  • Seeking novelty or intensity through a new sexual experience
  • increasing connection
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12
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what is Garden of Boidish Delights

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a painting that has an erotic suggestions

one side is heaven, other hell, in the middle earth - evrybody is naked

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13
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How can BDSM help women?
act as therapy?

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  • heal their relationship to power
  • step into their unique leadership potential
  • move through shame into self-acceptance within community
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power

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dominance state is not about getting power but about learning all the ways you can stop giving power away.

its not about taking,but recognition of power within yourselves

help other recognize the power they have in them

so the submissive also allows them to be aware of what they want and how to ask for it

power is the ability to move enertgy is mutial

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submission and power

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submission is not powerless. its recognizing the power you do have and willingly choosing to surrender

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16
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BDSM vs Abuse

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  • for pleasure vs to cause pain
17
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why is eroticims healing?

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empathy(dominance) and intimacy(submission) produces eroticism and allows one to look inwards about their wants and needs

18
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what are the results of moving through shame into acceptance

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19
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masochism as escaper from self

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pain allows focus on the immidiate present and on the bodily sensation

temporary suspension from the burden of selfhood - choice,shame,etc

20
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BDSM can be therapeutic

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  • predictable in negotiation
  • rewring trauma
  • aftercare and repair
21
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trauma play

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reacting traumatic event but in a safe enviroment

a person learns to transencde his or her past rather then repeating it and stunting growth

can allow control in something tramautic