Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy Flashcards
Greek and Roman _____ philosophers said: people are disturbed not by things, but by the …
stoic; view which they take of them
Alfred Adler invented the S-O-R theory, which is…
stimulus - organism - response
- not just environment then response, but filtered through lens that people are perceiving it/meaning we give to stimulus
we determine ourselves by the meanings we give to situations
what happened in Ellis’s childhood that was out of the ordinary in that time?
parent’s divorced
reindoctrinate
reversion back into own ways, active process (moving forwards in ways that puts you in the same situation)
number one issue of REBT
people make irrational demands of themselves, others and the world, setting themselves up for distress
why does Ellis believe REBT is the best therapy?
brief in time
goal is to get person out of therapy quickly
3 characteristics of theory of personality for REBT
physiological
psychological
social
theory of personality for REBT: physiological
all humans born with innate tendencies to have desire or want
hardwired to want things and when we don’t receive wants, reaction is to condemn self, others and world
temperament: demandingness to desire, born with capacity to develop rational thought
theory of personality for REBT: social
we are social beings, often too much emphasis places on what others think of us
lead to belief of how we can accept ourselves if others accept us (can lead to distress)
theory of personality for REBT: psychological
people needlessly upset themselves, stemming from irrational beliefs
irrational vs. rational
irrational vs rational beliefs
r:
- possibility
i:
- extremeness
- something becomes absolute
- these demands with not be met
- holding these beliefs will cause distress as it will not be met
how distress develops (A-B-C)
Activating event
- ex) I did my job poorly
Belief (important for distress)
- ex) I must always be perfect, and if I’m not it’s horrible
Consequence
- ex) depression
how does reindoctrination work with A-B-C
the consequence becomes the activating event!
ex. “depression” becomes “I feel depressed and worthless”
cycle for reindoctrination
condemn self for poor performance
feel guilty or depressed
condemn self for guilt and depression
condemn self for condemning self
condemn self for seeing disturbance and not changing it
condemn self for needing help and going to therapy
repeating process!
we are born with the potential to be __________ or __________
rational; irrational
irrational thinking is exacerbated by ___ and ______ ______
culture; social groups