Nov 13 Flashcards
what even is coping?
multiple related definitions
INTENTIONAL and CONSCIOUS, or UNCONSCIOUS RESPONSES to STRESS
basically, how one responds to stress
coping is distinct from, but similar to…
emotion regulation
sometimes studied together, sometimes apart
2 major distinctions in coping types
- primary control
- secondary control
primary control coping
efforts to change the STRESSOR ITSELF
thought to be more effective for stressors WITHIN your control
secondary control coping
change YOURSELF to adapt to the stressor
thought to be more effective for UNCONTROLLABLE stressors
ie. ignore or reframe situation
ie. distract yourself/think about positive things instead
Dr Kevin Nadal’s coping strategies (video)
uses secondary coping strategies
- talks about his feelings with people
- uses support network to unpack experiences
- tries not to internalize things
- externalizes racialized experiences ie. “it’s because they’re racist, it’s not my fault”
*he LEARNED these strategies from models, esp his black female friends
Dr Linda Juang’s coping strategies (video)
emotions accumulate from racism experiences
so much emotion in the instant it happens, hard to cope
different emotions occur when she sees her kids experience racism - more sadness and hurt
coping strategies:
- talking about her experiences
- hearing from others about how they handle things, sharing stories and coping strategies
- reading books, listening to others
- makes her proud to see others standing up
Dr Marissa Franco (video)
racism as a multiracial person
feelings of anger
emotional suppression
trying to make others feel comfortable
experienced audacious comment “you would’ve been a slave if you were alive 100 years ago”
she felt she had to respond docilely and avoid confronting the white woman
so much anger/emotion in response to these events that it feels like she can’t productively respond in a way that’s inclusive of the anger
and she feels so angry about that - mad at the perpetrator and at her friend for not standing up for her
mad and disappointed at herself too - internal conflict
as a multiracial person, says there’s a component of privilege to “know whiteness” and be able to please white people, but that this comes at a personal sacrifice - she gives something up when she makes those decisions
Dr Marissa Franco and primary control
its hard to engage in primary control
so hard to stand up against these experiences
doesn’t want to be disruptive or confrontational
feelings of anger, frustration, helplessness, discomfort, fear of escalating the event, recognizing the perpetrator isn’t in a place to recognize the weight of their actions
culturally-embedded coping - what does this mean?
complex set of learned behaviours that has a SHARED MEANING among members of a racial/ethnic group
doesn’t mean that ONLY members of X or Y group use this strategy
not exclusive to one group, but might have shared meaning exclusive to that group
culturally embedded coping: may be…
- more COMMON among CERTAIN ethnic-racial groups than others
- may have SLIGHTLY DIFF MEANINGS
ie. anti-racist critical action for minority people can be both a coping strategy and help challenge structural issues
but for majority group members, they aren’t coping through action in the same way because they aren’t personally disadvantaged by the system of oppression
coping: while it’s important to look at mainstream coping strategies…
coping is VERY CONTEXTUALIZED and very tightly woven within a person’s cultural context
only looking at mainstream coping obscures other types of important culturally-specific coping strategies and sources of resilience
framework of radical hope (Mosley et al 2019) BACKGROUND
radical hope = conceptualized as KEY identity-consistent coping factor among POC
“radical hope allows for a SENSE OF AGENCY to CHANGE things for the GREATER GOOD - a belief that one can fight for justice and that the fight won’t be futile”
“the steadfast belief in the collective capacity contained within communities of colour to HEAL and TRANSFORM oppressive forces into a BETTER FUTURE despite OVERWHELMING ODDS”
framework of radical hope: two axes
- PAST to FUTURE
- linked by COLLECTIVE MEMORY
- COLLECTIVE ORIENTATION to INDIVIDUAL ORIENTATION
- linked by FAITH and AGENCY
- RADICAL HOPE
- in the middle of these two axes
framework of radical hope: faith
idea that positive change for one’s group is POSSIBLE DESPITE BARRIERS faced by POC
framework of radical hope: agency
sense that POC can alone or with others, ACT TO IMPROVE individual and collective WELLNESS
framework of radical hope: collective memory
“humanizes our stories, captures a group’s shared history of struggles and victories, and provides pathways created by previous generations to identify alternative routes to use in times of crisis”
ie. remembering history of oppression
ie. remembering fight for voting rights
framework of radical hope: faith, agency and collective memory lead to…
4 different types of behaviours
- understanding history of oppression and resistance
- ancestral pride
- envisioning possibilities
- meaning and purpose