Lecture 17 Attachment and Autonomy: Level 2 constructs that w learn in our Family November 5 Flashcards
how many people have secure relationships
60%
how many people have avoidant relationships
25%
how many people have dependent relationships
15%
how is secure related to the big 5
Low N, High E (esp SD), High A
how is anxious related to the big 5
Very High N
how is avoidant related to the big 5
Low E, Low A
what predicts relational outcomes better; Big 5 or attachment styles
Moderate empirical overlap, but ** attachment styles predict relational outcomes better than Big 5 traits.
what is The grand theory of John Bowlby
origins of attachment thought to be between mother and child
“A complex, instinctually guided behavioral system that has functioned throughout human evolution to protect infants from predators.” (we are biologically wired fr attachment)
Secondary Proposition: Emotion regulation (protects child from internal stressors as well as (fear especially) assess by looking at how mother reacts to child's fear
what is the Attachment in development
Normative patterns (by end of year 1 there is some sort of attachment)
Failure to attach? (genetic and not likely good for their future (perhaps autism))
what is a secure attachment based on
trust, exploration, base.
what is an insecure attachment based on
distrust, anxiety, pessimism.
- infants programmed to be fearful of strangers/separation! The way parents manage the normal fear is how the child will form attachments
how to assess infant attachment?
Strange Situation for 12-18 mth old
reaction to stranger & returning mom
what is the other category of D babies
disorganized babies- v. rare (less than 1%), kids growing up with neglectful/abusive parents
worst outcome is D babies
what are the traits of a mother that influence attachment
Consistent Sensitive Responsive Attentive Not Interfering or controlling
what are the important actions of a mother when the infant is 3 months
Resp. to crying;
Affection w holding;
Enter room;
Feeding
What Developmental Outcomes Are Associated with Security of Attachment?
Exploration
Task Mastery
Emotional Adaptation (in preschool/daycare)
Social Adaptation
what is meant by mothers are supposed to be a secure base and safe haven
secure base- check in with mom, then go and explore again
safe heaven- place to be protected
what are the results of the study;
Simpson et al.,2007
Infant attachment;
Peer competence in teacher reports grades 1,2,3
Age 16 interview about security in closest friendships
Age 23 assessment:
Emotional Tone of relationship;
Observation during conflict resolution;
Observation during collaborative task.
infant attachment strongly associated with peer competence
peer competence associated with security at age 16
security at age 16 strongly associated with romaji relationship
what are the conclusions
“Our experiences in adult relationships appear to be tied in significant and meaningful ways to experiences rooted in earlier relationships and stages of development.”
(starts with mother attachment 12-18months)
but, strongest and most direct impact on the stage that immediately follows
Childhood attachment and adult personality?
Minnesota Longit Study of Risk & Adaptation
271 first time mothers living below poverty line (high risk; worry that their children would fail and secure attachment);
48% teenagers, 65% single, 42% no HS education.
170 individuals followed 32 years since birth.
Infant Attachment assessed at 12 and 18 (% secure was lower than normal 65%…was about 45%) months
Big 5 traits measured at age 32
Controlled for education levels of mother
how are attachment styles relating to the big 5
sig relationships;
pos A
pos C
neg N
no relationship for
E and O
Stability of romantic attachment Q’s?
Over time. r = .30.
Across Partners. r = .40
Selecting Mates? (if have different romantic parters, level of attachment may be different, securely attached adults pair of with severe adults
Parenting our own children? (same as way your parental (if security))
What is inaccurate about these clips? for love actually
only securely attached people! supposed to be 65%