growing together Flashcards
when are we happy
when we make progress towards our goals
how to partner affect goal pursuit, well being and sucess
highest well-being when partners are together and activity meets both ppl goal
wanna do actiivites together that help both ppl accomplish goals
what happens when our partner put a lot of effort into helping us achieve our goal
self regulatory outsourcing; we feel we have to exert less effort ourselves - rely on partnewr to tell u what to do
results; thinking abt ways in which our partner has helped us to obtain a particular goal makes us less motivated to pursue that goal ourselves
who is good at knowing if relationship will last
we hv the rose coloueres glasses
college roomates and parents
Pulling it All Together
- “I promise to respect, admire and appreciate you for who you are, as well as for the person you wish to
become.”
2. “I promise to support and protect your freedom, because although our lives are intertwined, your choices
are still yours alone.”
3. “I promise to seek a deep understanding of your wishes, your desires, your fears, and your dreams.”
4. “I promise to always strive to meet your needs, not out of obligation, but because it delights me to see you
happy.”
5. “I promise to be there for you when you need me, whenever you need me - “I promise to nurture your goals and ambitions; to support you through misfortune, and to celebrate your
triumphs.”
7. “I promise to keep our lives exciting, adventurous, and full of passion.”
8. “I promise to persevere when times get tough, knowing that any challenges we might face, we will
conquer them together.”
9. “I promise to treat you with compassion rather than fairness, because we are a team, now and for
always.”
10. “I promise to show you, every day, that I know exactly how lucky I am to have you in my life.
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app to help decide if u should stay in a relationship
