Chp 13.3: Social Relations I Flashcards
The two criteria to satisfying the need for affiliation
- Frequent and pleasant interactions
2. Temporally stable interactions involving concern
social comparison
the act of comparing one’s personal attributes, abilities, and opinions to those of other people
What leads us to be attracted to others?
•Proximity
• Our ”nearness” to other people influences the likelihood of social interaction
• The mere exposure effect
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•Similarity
• Overwhelming evidence for similarity on a number of psychological dimensions: attributes, attitudes, beliefs, and values
• Similarity found across cultures and different age groups
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•Physical Attractiveness
mere exposure effect
the tendency to evaluate a stimulus more favourably after repeated exposure to it(with some exceptions)
Identify two factors that may underlie the desire to affiliate more with attractive people than unattractive people.
- we often assume that attractive people have more positive personality characteristics than unattractive people, stereotype of ‘what beautiful is good
- Because we are often judged by the company we keep, we also may prefer to associate with attractive people to buttress our self-esteem
- (Self-conscious people, who are highly concerned about how they come across to others, are especially likely to gravitate toward attractive people)
matching effect
in romantic relationships, the tendency for partners to have a similar level of physical attractiveness
Self-disclosure
one way to deepen attraction
• Increases emotional involvement
• Increases relationship satisfaction
social exchange theory
• In relationships, rewards and costs are weighed
• Rewards may include: meeting needs, emotional support, companionship
• Costs may include: goal conflict, effort to maintain relationship
What two standards are outcomes evaluated against in the social exchange theory?
Comparison level for alternatives: potential alternatives to relationship, eg. Think something better is available (determines commitment)
triangular theory of love (Sternberg)
the view that various types of love result from different combinations of three core factors: intimacy, commitment, and passion
7 types of love in the triangular theory of love
Consummate love (intimacy plus passion plus commitment)
Liking
(intimacy alone).
Companionate love (intimacy plus commitment)
Empty love
(commitment alone)
Fatuous love (passion plus commitment)
Infatuation
(passion alone)
Romantic love (intimacy plus passion)
cognitive-arousal model of love
the view that passionate love has interacting cognitive and physiological components
transfer of excitationa
misinterpretation of one’s state of arousal that occurs when arousal actually is caused by one source, but the person attributes it to another source
What are “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse”? (bad dealing with anger in relationship)
criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling (listener withdrawal and nonresponsiveness).
prejudice
a negative attitude toward people based on their membership in a group