Chapter 5: Connection Through Communication Flashcards
Lasswell’s model for communication: 5
who says what in which channel to whom with what effect
who=
says what=
in which channel=
to whom=
with what effect=
who = communicator
says what = message
in which channel = medium
to whom - receiver
with what effect = effect
the ability to identify with people and relate to them in a way that increases your influence with them
connection
self trust (credibility) is built on 4 elements:
capabilities
integrity
results
intent
- make and keep commitments to oneself
- stand for something
- be open
integrity
- talents
- knowledge
- attitudes
- style
- skills
capabilities
- a clear motive
- a sound agenda
- consistent behavior
intent
- take responsibility
- finish strong
- expect to succees
results
relationship -trust based on 3 elements:
character based behaviors
competency based behaviors
character and competency based behaviors
5 character based behaviors:
be honest demonstrate repesct create transparency show loyalty right wrongs
5 competency based behaviors:
deliver results get better confront reality clarify expectations practice accountability
3 character and competency based behaviors:
listen first
keep commitments
extend trust
D.I.S.C.
Dominant
Inspiring
Cautious
Supportive
planning to communicate encoding - carefully constructed message choose best channel to send message decoding - interpret a message offering feedback
5 steps to communication
_ type personality
fast paced task-oriented result oriented thrive on control want to know the "what" of the situation
Dominant
_ type personality
avoid withdrawing assertive nonverbally assertive continuous eye contact avoid chit chat
Dominant
_ type personality
outgoing people oriented fast speaker and mover, decision maker enjoy integrating and socializing want to know the "who" of the situation
Inspiring
_ type personality
gently keep client focused
show enthusiasm
inquire about friends and family
Inspiring
_ type personality
reserved people oriented enjoy helping others speak softly and slowly not comfortable with quick decisions want to know "how" of the situation
Supportive
_ type personality
health coach makes decisions
ensure client’s feelings are considered fairly
avoid a loud, pushy approach
Suportive
_ type personality
reserved task oriented want less emotion monotone voice want data want to know "why" of a situation
Cautious
_ type personality
talk slowly
provide logic
Cautious
Health Coach moving in a _ manner:
offering information
providing a challenge
making specific suggestions about what the client should be doing
Authoritative manner
Authoritative approach: _
offer advice, guidance and information
offer direct suggestions for what clients can do to help themselves facilitate desired outcomes
prescriptive approach
Authoritative approach: _
the health coach offers his/her own experiences and point of view
Informative
Authoritative approach: _
mirror or reflect what the client has said
coach offers thoughts on what client said in a direct way
tell client what obstacles lie ahead
Confronting
Health Coach moving in a _ manner:
helping the client find his/her own solutions or decisions
Facilitative
Facilitative approach: _
coach helps client express emotions, fears, or thoughts that he/she has not previously confronted
must be 3 things:
Cathartic
empathetic
non-judgemental
good listener
Facilitative approach: _
ask questions to generate new solutions
create new options
must follow with: 4
Catalytic
active listening
mirroring
validating
empathizing