Changing Family Patterns Flashcards
what are the household patterns/ trends
- divorce rates have increased
- people are marrying later in life
- there are more lone parent families
- more couples are cohabitating
explanations for the increase of divorce: law
Diffcult to obtain, especially for women. Three kinds of changes:
- equalising the grounds for divorce
- widening the grounds (sharp rise)
- making divorce cheaper (legal aid)
what are the other solutions to an unhappy marriage
- desertion: partners leaves but remains legally married
- legal separation: separate financial + legal affairs
- empty shell marriage: live under sane roof but nit together
these solutions have become less common now divorce is easier
explanations for the increase of divorce: stigma
stigma= negative label
in the past. churches condemned divorce, refused to marry divorcees
what did Mitchell and goody say about the stigma against divorce
as stigma declines, couples more willing to give up and resort to divorce
divorce is ‘normalised’ - no longer shameful but a misfortune
explanations for increase of divorce: secularisation
- decline in the influence of religion
- church rates continue to decline
- people less likely to be influenced by religious teachings
- churches softening views on divorce for fear of losing members
explanations for increase of divorce: expectations
- ideology of romantic love: Mr and Mrs right
- Reason to divorce to find true soulmate
- in the past, individuals had little choice who they married, family was a unit of production, duty
- Entered marriage with lower expectations and less dissatisfied
what are the functionalist views on the expectations of divorce
- fletcher= higher expectations make couples
- functionalist take an optimistic view -rate of remarriages shows marriage is still popular.
what are the feminist views on the expectations for divorce
they argue that the oppression of women within the family is the main cause of marital conflict and divorce , but functionalist ignore this
explanations for increase in divorce: independence
-women are more likely to be in paid work, narrower pay gap, girls greater success in education, welfare benefits- women do not need a husband
what did Allan and crow say about independence which leads to an increase in divorce
fewer family firms and no longer a unit of production. separate source of income and no need to tolerate conflicts
explanations for increase in divorce: feminism
- dual burden new source of conflict
- change in the family has been slow and limited
- marriage remains patriarchal, triple shift
- both couples working means less time for ‘emotional’ work
what did Hochshild say about feminism being the cause for the rise in divorce
home compares to work unfavourably-more valued at work
what did Rushton say about feminism being the cause for increase in divorce
dual workers more likely to be divorced than non working mothers, contrasted with cooke and gash, no evidence as working is now the norm
what did Bernard say about feminism being the cause for increase in divorce
radical feminist, more women are becoming aware of patriarchal oppression + doing something about it
what does divorce mean?
legal termination of marriage
name some statistics about divorce
- 40% of marriages will end in divorce
- 65% divorce petitions come from women
- numbers have fallen over the years but that is because less people are getting married
what is the meaning of a high divorce rate (new right)- no
see divorce rate as undesirable because it undermines marriage and the traditional nuclear family, which they regard vital to social stability.
what do the new right argue high divorce rates creates
creates a growing underclass of welfare dependent female lone parents who are a burden on the state and it leaves boys without the adult male role model they need. Also results in poorer health + education
what is the meaning of a high divorce rate (feminists)-yes
see a high divorce rate as desirable because it shows that women are breaking free from the oppression of the patriarchal nuclear family
what is the meaning of a high divorce rate ( post modernists and the individualisation)- yes
see a high divorce rate as showing that individuals now have the freedom to choose to end a relationship when it no longer meets their needs. they see it as a major cause of greater family diversity
what is the meaning of a high divorce rate (functionalists)- yes and no
argue that high divorce is not necessarily a threat to marriage as a social institution. it is simply the result peoples higher expectations of marriage today. The high rate of remarriages show people continuing commitment to the idea of marriage
what is the meaning of a high divorce rate (interactionalists)- yes and no
Morgan: cannot generalise meaning of divorce because everyone experiences are different.
Mitchell and Goody: one interviewee said the day her father left was the best day of her life