13.5 (17.7) Bereavement Flashcards
Define the following terms:
1. Bereavement
2. Grief
3. Mourning
4. Anticipatory grief
5. Pathological grief (list 2 variants)(!!!)
6. Disenfranchised grief
- Bereavement - STATE of loss (usually referring to loss of life)
- Grief - RESPONSE associated with loss (emotional, physical, cognitive, behavioral)
- Mourning - process of adaptation including cultural and social RITUALS prescribed as accompaniments
- Anticipatory grief: precedes the death and results from expectation of that event
- Pathological grief: abnormal outcome involving psychological, social, or physical morbidity
(variants: COMPLICATED grief, PROLONGED grief) - Disenfranchised grief: HIDDEN sorrow of the MARGINALIZED where there is less social permission to express many dimensions of loss
List four types of theory to explain the phenomenon of bereavement*
See table 13.5.1 (17.7.1):
1. attachment theory*
(secure/insecure attachment influences impact of loss)
2. psychodynamic theory*
(early relationships lay down template for future relationships)
3. interpersonal model
4. psychosocial transition
5. sociological model*
(cultural influences shape form/content of grief)
6. family systems theory
6.Cognitive stress coping theory
7. traumatic model
8. ethology
9. meaning-centered model
Cognitive behavioural theories*
*4 categories of predominant explanatory models
What are the two orientations described by the dual process model of grief - What is focused on in each state?
Where does active grief work take place?
LOSS orientation - a focus on the loss itself
RESTORATION orientation - focus shifts to attending to ongoing life, counter negative emotions with some positive reappraisal/construction of meaning of event
Active experience of grief sits in a dynamic equilibrium with some avoidance of grief. Bereaved adjust balance via emotion-based coping
active grief work occurs when the bereaved are loss oriented (*not mentioned in 6th edition)
List 4 dimensions of grief
- Emotional
- Physical
- Cognitive
- Behavioural
List four emotional displays of normal grief
unavoidable crying
loss of concentration and purpose
preoccupation with thoughts of deceased
sadness
anger
despair
Anxiety
guilt
FS: emotions aspect of MSIGECAP (no suicidal ideation) and BESKIM
List 1 common cognitive manifestation of grief
Cognitive processes dominated by MEMORIES (reflected in storytelling, reminiscences, conversations about the deceased)
List four physical manifestations of grief
numbness
restlessness
tension
tremors
sleep disturbance
anorexia
weight loss
fatigue
aches and pains
FS: physical aspect of MSIGECAP and BE SKIM (anxiety)
list three behavioural manifestations of normal grief
social withdrawal
seeking company and consolation
wandering
searching
Beside loss of life - list four other domains where loss is expected
loss of :
work
leisure activities
financial security
independence
sense of certainty about life
further physical impairments
body image change
altered perception of well being
loss of health
FS: health, wealth, independence, work, leisure
List four emotional indicators for risk of complicated grief in a person/family experiencing anticipatory grief
intense distress
Anger
denial of the seriousness of the threat
protective avoidance
withdrawal from involvement
FS: DADA
Distress, anger, denial, avoidance
List 2 ways clinicians can help a family experiencing anticipatory grief
- Encourage them to openly share their feelings
- Recognize saying goodbye as a process over time - support opportunities for reminiscence, celebration of life/contribution of dying person, expressions of gratitude, completion of unfinished business
FS: encourage (1) share feelings (2) saying goodbye
Family and friends are gathered around the death bed of a loved one who is dying.
List 4 things you will discuss with them as a physician
- comment on the process of dying explaining breathing patterns etc
- normalize experience empathetically
reassure family when a concern develops - discuss pain
- discuss reasons for medications
- skilled prediction of events
- ask about and facilitate religious rituals
- expression of sympathy
FS
1) signs of dying
2) symptoms (pain)
3) meds
4) rituals
5) empathy
List 3 post-mortem practices that MD can provide to be supportive for family/friends of the deceased (immediately after death)
- Respecting post-mortem cultural approaches
- If relatives not present at time of death, invite to attend based on a deterioration and shares news on arrival
- Unless there is a legal requirement for coroner’s postmortem, respect family’s views on autopsy
- If concerns about emotional response of bereaved, consult cultural intermediary, support with short acting benzo Rx, follow up phone call next day
FS:
1) share news on arrival of family
2) respect rituals/autopsy views
3) bereavement call
List 4 scenarios in which grief could be marginalized or disenfranchise the bereaved from usual supports
- Ageism (death is normalized because it appears in step with life cycle & family members given less support)
- Suicide
- Homicide
- Euthanasia
The duration of grief is based on what two major factors
strength of attachment to the lost person
cultural expression
What are the four general phases of acute grief
- initial numbness and sense of unreality
- waves of distress begin to occur as the bereaved yearn for lost loved one
- phase of disorganization emerges as loneliness resulting from the loss sets in
(periods of restlessness/inattention/sadness/despair/social withdrawal can last for several months) - phase of reorganization and recovery - altered world view constructed + personal growth
FS:
Numb
Distress
Disorganized
Reorganize