Week 1 - Building Blocks Of Relationships Flashcards
Humans have a “______ _______ for __________” connection
Strong need; intimate
What are the 7 ways intimacy is different from causal relationships?
- Knowledge (personal histories, likes/dislikes etc…)
- Interdependence (influence of one partner is frequent/strong)
- Caring
- Trust
- Responsiveness
- Mutuality (collaboration, having the same feelings for one another)
- Commitment (invest lots of time & effort)
What is the “need to belong”?
Baumiester and Leary
For healthy functioning…
Need interactions that are FREQUENT and PLEASANT w/ intimate partners that are LASTING and CARING
We only need a “_____ close relationships, ________ over ________”
Few
Quality;quantity
When closely connected with others we tend to live a “_______, _________ and _________” life
Longer, healthier and happier
True or false. People are NOT more prone to weaker immune responses and higher mortality if they lack intimacy in their lives
False
True or false. Individuals who are married are less likely to die from cancer-related deaths in comparison to unmarried individuals (Aizer et al., 2013)
True
Mental health & physical health are impacted on the quality of our relationships
Our need to belong “______ _______ ________” over hundreds of thousands of years
May have evolved
What was the average age of marriage in 1965 VS today?
1965 = early 20’s, 94% of individuals married, typically did not co habit (5%)
Today = late 20’s, ~80% of individuals marry, partners cohabit (75%)
What is singlism?
Prejudice and discrimination against individuals who choose to remain SINGLE and decide not to devote themselves to one romantic relationship
True or false. Singles tend to have a closer relationship with their parents, siblings, friends etc…
True
Although there in a RISE in cohabitation…. Individuals experience more what?
- Conflict
- Jealousy
- Infidelity
- Physical aggressiveness
- Volatile subsequent marriage
How does technology work as a source of change?
Give the definition of technoference and phubbing
Temptation often exists…
To give “precedence to people we are not with OVER people we are with”
Technoference: frequent interruptions of interaction caused by tech devices
Phubbing: partner snubs the other by focusing on a phone
How does sex ratio work as a source of change?
The number of men for every 100 women w/in a particular location
HIGH SEX RATIO: more males than females
LOW SEX RATIO: more females than males
What are the other 3 sources of change?
- Industrialization
- Education/financial resources
- Rise of individualism
What are the 3 types of attachment styles? (review)
- Secure attachment: feelings that others are reliable for sercurity and kindness
- Anxious-ambivalent attachment: feelings that behave in unpredictable and inconsistent ways
- Avoidant attachment: feelings that others are rejecting or hostile