Stability and Change in Socioemotional Development During Early Adulthood Flashcards

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Attachment in Adulthood

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Early attachment influence people into adulthood

-securely attached infants are more securely attached in romantic relationships- romantic partners act as a secure base

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Secure attachment syle

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adults have positive views on relationships,

  • find it easy to get to others
  • Not overly concerned about their romantic relationship
  • positive romantic relationships
  • committed romantic relationship
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Avoidant attachment style

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  • Hesitant to get involved in romantic relationships
  • Tend to distance themselves from partner
  • not emotionally open
  • Lower levels of sexual satisfaction
  • lower commitment
  • more depressed and unsure
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Anxious attachment style

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Demand closeness

  • less trusting
  • more emotional, jealous, afraid of rejection
  • lower levels of sexual satisfaction
  • Ambivalent about relationship commitment
  • more depressed and anxious
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Sexual activity in early adulthood

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time when both partners are unmarried and sexually active

  • males have more casual partners
  • females more selective
  • Sexuality plays an important role in relationship and life satisfaction
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Heterosexual behavior and attitudes

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Americans tend to fall into three categories:
-1/3 hook up twice a week
-1/3 a few times a month
-1/3 a few times a year 
Adultery is the exception, not the rule 
Most couples are fairly conservative
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sources of sexual orientation

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sexual orientation is likely to a continuum from exclusively male-female relations to the latter

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Causes of sexual orientation

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genes, hormones, cognition, environment

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9
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Eriksons 6th stage

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Intimacy vs isolation

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Intimacy vs isolation

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early adulthood is for developing intimacy

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Love

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vast and complex territory of human behavior which spans a range of relationships like: friendships, romantic love, affectionate love, and compassionate love

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Friendship

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plays important role in development throughout human life span

  • woman have more close friend and friendship involves self-disclosure
  • talk is central to their relationships
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Romantic love

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Passionate love, has strong components of sexuality and infatuation, “Honeymoon phase”

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Affectionate love

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occurs when someone desires to have the other person near and has deep, caring affection for the person, also called compassionate love

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15
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Sternbergs triarchic Consumate love

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triangle of passion, intimacy, and commitment

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16
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Choosing a mate

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Filter theory, potential partners pass through a series of “filters” to find an acceptable partner

17
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Propinquity

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geographic location

18
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Attractiveness

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males value this more than females

19
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Social background

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look for similarity in religion, political affiliation, education, occupation and social class

20
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Consensus

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similar values and goals

21
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Complementary

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“you complete me”

22
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readiness for marriage

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discrepancies can lead to termination of relationship

23
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Ideal standards model

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ideals guide us towards who to date and what to expect in the relationship, three interlocking components:

  • Perception of self
  • perception of the partner
  • Perceptions about the relationship
24
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Ideal partners are often based on:

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emotional: warmth, commitment, intimacy
Physical and personality: health, passion, attractiveness
Economic: status and resources

25
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Ideal relationships are based on

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intimacy, loyalty, and stability

passion and excitement

26
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John Gottman’s Horsemen of the Apocalypse (end of relationship)

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criticism, defensiveness, contempt, stonewalling

27
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Making marriage work

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nurturing fondness and admiration, turning toward each other instead of away, letting your partner influence you, create shared meaning, 5:1 ratio (5 positives to overcome 1 negative)

28
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Rapport talk

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language of conversation, negotiating relationship, women

29
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report talk

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talk designed to give information; includes public speaking, men

30
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25

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A

31
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1

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B

32
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50

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D

33
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recession

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unemployment rates were higher because of recession