Religion and the meaning of life Flashcards
Religion and adult lives
majority of middle-aged adults profess religious beliefs
- For some, religion is a major influence
- females participate and show stronger interest
Health
research found lower blood pressure, longer life, more committed marriages, religion promotes health
Viktor Frankl
Three most distinct human qualities: spirituality, freedom, responsibility
Erikson
generatively vs stagnation
Generatively
desire to leave legacies of themselves to next generation
Stagnation
sense they have done nothing for the next generation
types of generatively
biological, parental, work, cultural
Levinson’s Seasons of a mans life
- 20s- novice phase: experimentation and testing
- 28-33- transition
- 30s- BOOM Becoming ones own man
- 40-45- transition to middle adulthood, four issues: being young vs being old, being destructive vs constructive, masculine vs feminine, attached vs separated
Levinson’s mid life crisis
being suspended between past and future, cope with threats of continuity
Vailliant’s “Grant study”
time of reassessing and readjusting, only minority experience mid life crisis
Life events approach
coping with life events, might be cause of mid life crisis rather than just aging
Stress
young and middle-aged adults had more stressful days than older adults, middle-aged adults experience more “overload” stress days
Gender difference for stress
men: fight or flight- aggression, withdrawal
women: tend-and-befriend- seek out others
Relationship
affectionate, compassionate love increases, security, loyalty, and mutual emotional interest become more important
Divorce
feeling alienated and avoidant, marriages may become ‘empty’
‘positives’- more resources, children less “damages” and can cope better
negatives- personal failure and betrayal
Empty nest syndrome
decline in marital satisfaction after children leave the home, time to pursue other interests, career and time for each other
Refilling the nest
young adult children move back home
sibling relationship
persist over entire lifetime, majority of adults have at least one sibling, most are close but if you weren’t close tend not to become close in adulthood
Lemme sibling relationship
Shared genes, long-term family relationship, shared history, equality
Hourglass effects
sibling interaction is highly involved early in life, less involvement during adulthood, then increase again later in life
-reason for interaction later in life: health, support, resolve old conflicts
friendships
continue to be important, some can remain friends for life, shifting process in friend making
Grand-parenting
satisfaction, easier parenting, 3 roles: source of biological reward and continuity, source of emotional fulfillment, remote role
-differing functions in families and in cultures or in situations
Changing role of grandparents
assume parental roles more often because of divorce, adolescent pregnancy, and drug use
-Grandparent visitation issues in divorced and stepfamilies
Sandwich or squeeze generation
responsibilities for adolescent and young adult children as well as aging parents
OCEAN
Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism (emotional stability)