Religion and the meaning of life Flashcards
Religion and adult lives
majority of middle-aged adults profess religious beliefs
- For some, religion is a major influence
- females participate and show stronger interest
Health
research found lower blood pressure, longer life, more committed marriages, religion promotes health
Viktor Frankl
Three most distinct human qualities: spirituality, freedom, responsibility
Erikson
generatively vs stagnation
Generatively
desire to leave legacies of themselves to next generation
Stagnation
sense they have done nothing for the next generation
types of generatively
biological, parental, work, cultural
Levinson’s Seasons of a mans life
- 20s- novice phase: experimentation and testing
- 28-33- transition
- 30s- BOOM Becoming ones own man
- 40-45- transition to middle adulthood, four issues: being young vs being old, being destructive vs constructive, masculine vs feminine, attached vs separated
Levinson’s mid life crisis
being suspended between past and future, cope with threats of continuity
Vailliant’s “Grant study”
time of reassessing and readjusting, only minority experience mid life crisis
Life events approach
coping with life events, might be cause of mid life crisis rather than just aging
Stress
young and middle-aged adults had more stressful days than older adults, middle-aged adults experience more “overload” stress days
Gender difference for stress
men: fight or flight- aggression, withdrawal
women: tend-and-befriend- seek out others
Relationship
affectionate, compassionate love increases, security, loyalty, and mutual emotional interest become more important
Divorce
feeling alienated and avoidant, marriages may become ‘empty’
‘positives’- more resources, children less “damages” and can cope better
negatives- personal failure and betrayal