Interpersonal Comm. Chapt. 10 Flashcards
Friendship is ______
Voluntary. Not established between family members, or proximity and have no formal standards to guide interaction.
Friendships grow out of personal investments
Time, Effort, Thought, Feeling
Emotional Intimacy grows out of….
Investments, such as time, talk, and shared expiriences
Growth Stages of Friendships
- Friendship begins when people meet
2.new acquaintances usually check to see whether common ground, values, and interests exist. - Some friendships do become closer and relationship rules are unspoken understandings that regulate how people interact important
Deterioration Stages of Friendship
1.When one or both friends stop investing in a friendship, it is likely to wane.
2. Friends may drift apart because one moves or because the two are pulled in different directions by career or family demands
Role Limited Interaction
Interacting with teammates or coworkers. These people are involved in your life but not close you.
Internal Tensions On Friendships
Relational Dialects-Opposing human needs that create tension and propel change in close relationships.
Diverse Communication styles
Sexual Attraction
Internal Tensions
Relationship stresses that grow out of people and their interactions
External Pressures
Pressures from outside sources
External Pressures include
Competing demands
Personal Changes
Geographic Distance
Friends of the Heart
Who remain close regardless of distance and circumstances
Friends of the Road
Who change as we move along the road of life
Social Media and Friednships
Social media offer us a range of ways to make friends and to maintain existing friendships.Research suggests that online communication is not as effective as f2f communication for providing social support.
Guidelines for Communicating with friends
Engage in dual perspective
Communicate Honestly
Grow from Differences
Don’t sweat the small stuff
Do’s for friendships
Stand up for your friend
Share your sucesses with your friends
Give emotional support to your friends
Trust and confide in them
Help a friend when they need it