Friendship Flashcards
Friendship:
voluntary, personal relationship, typically providing intimacy and assistance, in which the two parties like one another and seek each other’s company
Components of friendship
Affection, companionship, trust
Reciprocal self disclosure, emotional support, practical support
Social support
Provide us with aid; emotional, physical, advice and material support
Emotional support is beneficial:
has real physiological effects and mental health benefits
Friendship in early childhood (6 steps)
Unoccupied play, solitary play, spectator play, parallel play, associate play, cooperative play
Peer relationships in childhood
- make friends quickly (havent formed judgments)
- have multiple opportunities to form friendships
- choose friends with similar interests
What age to most children have at least one best friend
age 10
How do friendships change into adolescence
Remain stable if friendships are high quality
Older children struggle because
They get more upset losing friends, find making friends more difficult
Children who experience disruption and loss of close friendships:
- experience problems forming enw relationships
- show poor adjustment
- low self-esteem
How many children are friendless
15%
Is being friendless bad?
Not necessarily harmful, some children prefer solitude
Peer acceptance:
Degree that child is viewed as a worth social partner by peers
Peer rejection
ongoing interaction where child is deliberately excluded by peers
How do rejected children behave (4):
- misinterpret other childrens behaviours
- have trouble understanding and regulating emotions
- Poor listeners
- less socially competent
How do relationships change in adolescence
- more time spent with peers
- increasingly lean on friends
Friends in young adulthood
- entering post-secondary
- relationships typically change
- dip in satisfaction with the transition but this will increase later
Friendships in midlife
- social networks change - growth with a new partner
- settling down is associated with spending less time with friends
Friendships later in life
- smaller social networks, more selective
- same number of close friends
- less time with casual friends
- quality not quantity
socioemotional selectivity theory
seniors have different interpersonal goals than younger people do - people age and their futures seem more and more finite, they become oriented more toward the present than toward the future, and they emphasize emotional fulfillment to a greater extent
Shyness:
Inhibited behaviour and nervous discomfort in social settings
Shy people:
Feer negative evaluation, tend to have poor self esteem, feel less competent in interactions
A cycle of shyness
- shy concern for other evaluations
- timid and awkward behaviour
- negative impressions on others
- others responses are less engaging and more distant
Repeat
Loneliness:
unhappy discrepancy between number of quality of partnerships we want and those we have