5: Horney - Psychoanalytic Social Theory Flashcards
in Horney’s theory, an attempt to make life bearable - process of interpersonal control and coping
neurosis
in Horney’s theory, a condition experienced when a neurotic need is not met, causing discomfort / distress
anxiety
10 needs based on principles that all human beings share, but become distorted by the difficulties of some people’s lives
neurotic needs
broad clusters / categories for the neurotic needs that people use to cope with life
coping strategies
moving-toward strategy / self-effacing solution - includes neurotic needs 1-3 (affection, partnership, restriction) - needs to be attached to others, devalues self, represses anger, dependent, undemanding
compliance
moving-against strategy / expansive solution - includes neurotic needs 4-8 (control, exploitation, popularity, validation, achievement) - identify with idealized self, arrogant, need to be right, likable facade, want dominance/control
aggression
moving-away-from strategy / resigning solution - includes neurotic needs 9-10 (hermeticism, perfectionism) and 3 (restriction) - resigned, lack goals, detached from emotions, private, uninvolved, vulnerable to coercion
withdrawal
termed the “basic evil” by Horney - lack of warmth and affection extended from parents to their kids during childhood, a main source of neuroticism (compliance, aggression, and withdrawal)
parental indifference
sense of anger and betrayal a child feels in reaction to parental indifference - inclined to lash out and protest in frustration
basic hostility
most common child reaction to parental indifference - becoming overwhelmed with feeling of helplessness, inferiority, fear of abandonment, insignificance
basic anxiety
the core of your being, what you believe to be true and unique about yourself - has growth potential
real self
one half of neurotic self - your perceived faults and downsides, possibly internalized from perceived rejection / hatred by peers (hating yourself)
despised self
one half of neurotic self - the unrealistic and ultimately impossible image of the person you “should” be, if you were living up to certain standards (pretending to be perfect)
idealized self
Horney’s suggested counterpart to penis envy - a tendency in some men to be envious of women’s ability to bear children, and to be driven for personal success to account for not being able to directly extend their legacy through bearing a child
womb envy
Horney’s novel idea that, with minor neurotic problems, individuals could act as their own psychiatrists
self-analysis