12: Rogers - Humanism / The Fully Functioning Person Flashcards
single “force of life” in Rogers’ theory - built-in motivation present in every life form to develop its potentials to the fullest extent possible
the actualizing tendency
an evolutionary inner sense which guides us in the direction of health and growth, draws us towards experiences best fitted to suit these needs
organismic valuing
Rogers’ term for feelings like love, affection, attention, nurturing, etc. which we instinctively value
positive regard
Rogers’ term for self-esteem and a positive evaluation of oneself built from experiencing the positive regard others show us
positive self-regard
social phenomenon where during childhood, parents/teachers/peers/etc. only give us what we need if we show we are “worthy” of it
conditions of worth
receiving love, affection etc. on certain conditions (if you “behave”) - conditions may not always be fair or healthy
conditional positive regard
only being able to appreciate yourself if meeting up with standards others have applied to you, rather than if truly actualizing our potentials - usually unable to meet them and therefore unable to have self-esteem
conditional positive self-regard
in Rogers’ theory, the aspect of your being that is founded in the actualizing tendency, with organismic valuing, positive regard and self-regard - if all goes well, the person you will become
real self
in Rogers’ theory, sense of self developed from conditions of worth that are out of step with actualizing tendency and organismic valuing, only receiving conditional positive regard and self-regard - always out of our reach and unable to be met
ideal self
the gap between the real self and the ideal self, who you are vs. who you “should” be - the greater the gap, the more suffering (essentially Rogers’ term for neurosis) - feeling as though the real self is threatening
incongruity
a situation in which there is incongruity between your self-image and your immediate experience (between ideal and real self)
threatening situation
emotional condition when you are expecting a threatening situation - signal that indicates trouble ahead
anxiety
attempts to psychologically “flee” from threatening situations and anxiety (denial and perceptual distortion) - every time one is used, it widens the gap between the real and ideal self
defenses
psychological defense that involves blocking out a threatening situation altogether to avoid anxiety
denial
psychological defense that involves reinterpreting the situation so that it appears less threatening, similar to rationalization (ex. student blaming the teacher for his poor grades)
perceptual distortion