REATIONSHIPS - Self Disclosure Flashcards
What is self-disclosure?
the revealing of personal information about the self, such as thoughts, feelings and experiences, to another person.
What is the social penetration theory?
by gradually revealing emotions and experiences to their partner, couples gain a greater understanding of each other and display trust
What increases as self-disclosure increases?
trust
When someone first meets someone else, what information is generally revealed?
only superficial details such as hobbies and interests
What happens to self-disclosure as two people get closer?
As people get closer, more intimate things are revealed about the self such as difficult experiences.
Why is self-disclosing early a bad thing?
self-disclosing too quickly reduces attraction
Reciprocal self-disclosure
The more self-disclosure someone gives, the more self-disclosure they expect in return
Self-disclosure in romantic relationships evaluation points
- Tal-Or Big Brother viewer-contestant study
- Kito cross-cultural validity study
- Reductionist vs holistic explanation for attraction
Tal-Or Big Brother viewer contestant study evaluation point Self-disclosure
- Research agreed that self-disclosure is a gradual process which affects attraction
- Analysis of reality TV shows showed that viewers did not like contestants that self-disclosed early on
- Contestants that self-disclosed gradually were preferred
Kito cross-cultural validity study evaluation point Self disclosure
- Research supports cross-cultural validity of self-disclosure
- Japanese and American studied in different types of relationships
- Self-disclosure was found to be highest in those who were involved in romantic HETEROSEXUAL relationships
- But this does not explain homosexual relationships!!!
Reductionist vs holistic explanation for attraction evaluation point Self disclosure
- It seems unlikely that attraction is based on self-disclosure alone
- Other factors are also needed in order to increase attraction
- physical attraction, similarity of attitudes, complementarity of needs