Public Speaking, Sales and PR Flashcards

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Make Your Mess
Your Message
-Robin Roberts

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As a public person, Robin has divulged a lot of what’s gone on in her personal life. But as a journalist, she
was taught not to insert herself into the stories she’s reporting. This can be a complicated balancing act—one that’s evolving as the nature of information sharing continues to change.

n 2005, Hurricane Katrina hit Mississippi. Robin’s mother lived there and had been with Robin’s sister and her sister’s children during the hurricane. ABC flew Robin down to the area
to cover the story of Katrina on the ground. While the producers set up the shoot, Robin rushed to find her family to make sure they
were okay. How could she not? Luckily, she found them safe and sound. Shortly after, Robin had to go on the air. Charlie Gibson, an ABC anchor, asked Robin on live television if she’d been able to find her family.

Unable to stop herself, Robin started to cry. Her
immediate concern was that she had lost her job
for letting her raw emotions take over on live TV.
“Just the opposite happened,” she says today.
“I was being authentic. I was being in the moment. I was speaking from the heart.

People sensed that, rallied around me, and adopted
my hometown, which was decimated.” People thanked her for being real.

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It’s up to news
organizations,
producers, and
editors to decide
how and when to
use a first-person
point of view.
-Robin Roberts

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F or a long while, journalists were taught
to keep themselves out of their stories
to ensure complete impartiality. But in the
last 60 or so years—thanks in part to writers
like Joan Didion, Tom Wolfe, and Hunter S.
Thompson—the use of first-person narration in
reported features has become more and more
conventional. It’s often employed by writers
who are looking to imbue their work with a sense
of authority and emotion, or
maybe to add a bit of levity or
scene-setting to a particularly
wieldy story. No matter how
it’s being used, though, one
thing is for sure: First-person
narration draws a reader (or,
in Robin’s case, a viewer) in.

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Public
Speaking
-Robin Roberts

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Preparation equals confidence. Even those
people who embrace the stage and look like
they’re ad-libbing their way through a great
speech have some predetermined talking points. The way you present those points, in large part,
should be determined by your audience. Before outlining your speech (or your news report),
ask yourself what your audience wants to hear.

For Robin, answering this question sometimes means asking an audience member. She’ll ask the person who
invited her to speak what they’re hoping she
would convey, and then she’ll plan accordingly
by writing out some pertinent bullet points. Communicating effectively during a speaking
engagement requires that you engage your audience. Robin does this by sharing personal anecdotes. Just as you’ve learned to make your
mess your message, if you can insert yourself into
your talking points, you’ll show that you mean
what you’re saying.

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where to look
-Robin Roberts

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If you’re speaking to a very large crowd, Robin
suggests looking just over the crowd’s eye line.
That will make it appear that you’re looking at
everyone while giving you the personal comfort
of not having to be constantly reminded of the
crowd’s daunting size.

In a smaller crowd, find that one person who’s
looking straight at you and hanging on to your
every word. Speak to them. They’ll make you
feel confident about your speech. The audience
member who’s looking at their phone will only
end up distracting you as well. Ignore them.

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where not to look

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Don’t look at a prepared script, and definitely try to avoid writing out your speech in full. Your words won’t sound genuine if you’re reading them verbatim from a piece of paper instead of addressing your audience directly. Even if you’re not reading from a piece of paper, you’ll still sound stiff if you’re delivering a memorized speech.

This doesn’t mean you can’t write down anything. Robin suggests using index cards
with bullet points to help you remember your
big ideas

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keep it simple
-Robin Roberts

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You don’t need to impress the audience with
your sentence structure. You need to keep them
engaged with short phrases and quick, snappy
stories. Audiences always have limited attention
spans, and your speech better cater to that.
That said, your speech isn’t always going to be
a hit. Robin acknowledges that there’s not much you can do when that happens. Just keep talking
like you’re killing it and get through what you
came there to say

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Robin always comes back to
being real. That could be easier said than done. Robin is a confident woman who is at ease in front of the
camera, but you may not have the same luck. You know what, though? That’s okay -Robin Roberts

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Making an impression during a television
journalism interview, or really any interview,
isn’t solely about wowing people with your
confidence. Confidence is important, but what
matters more is stepping into an interview with
deep knowledge about the specific job you’re
applying for: If you’re interviewing at a magazine, are you intimately familiar
with each editor and writer on staff as well as the magazine’s different sections?

If you’re interviewing at a department store, do you know which brands it carries and which ones it doesn’t? Doing your research ahead of time will show you’re thoughtful and sharp and you have a genuine interest in the role. Don’t be afraid to show that you have a
genuine interest in the interviewer, either.

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What to do in interviews -Robin Roberts

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• Feel proud that you have an interview. You earned it.
If you walk into an interview with your head held high,
your confidence will come through—even if you’re
nervous.

•Be prepared. Do your homework. Come in having
studied up on the company and the person conducting your interview. “Google the heck” out of both,
Robin says.

•Come in with ideas. Because you’ve done your
homework, you should have some creative and
informed thoughts on what the company could be
doing differently or additionally.

• “Dress for the job you want” is an old standby for a
reason. If the interviewer can picture you sitting at the
anchor’s desk delivering the news on their network, it
might help you land the job.

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What not to do in interviews -Robin Roberts

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•Don’t Be cocky. Confidence is one thing—it shows that
you understand your worth—but being arrogant is
presumptuous and disrespectful. It won’t get you anywhere. As Robin often says, “When you strut, you stumble.”

•Don’t Prep answers for interview questions word for word. Your interviewer will be able to tell if you’ve memorized your reply in advance. Plus, while there are some questions you can be fairly sure interviewers will ask, they may surprise you. Don’t spend time rehearsing your lines—you’ll appear stiff and inflexible.

•Don’t Assume you know what the job will require. No
matter the industry, no one company operates in
exactly the same way as another.

•Don’t Be afraid to ask questions. Leave that interview
being as informed as possible about the job lest you wind up in a position you didn’t bargain for. Asking questions is another way to show you’ve read up on the company and care about what it does.

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Like Robin says, there’s no problem with following up.
consider these rules as a guideline before sending a gentle nudge:
-Robin Roberts

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  1. Give the person a chance to respond on their own.
    That may mean waiting one or two weeks before
    reaching out again.
  2. Be understanding and respectful in your messaging.
    Don’t get exasperated, even if it’s your second
    follow-up email. Always acknowledge that the
    person you’re contacting is busy, and reiterate that
    you appreciate their time.
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Communicating
Your Value
at Work
-Robin Roberts

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d o
•When it comes to negotiation conversations at work, make sure you have a game plan. Know what you’re going to ask for and outline how you will benefit the company if you get what you ask for.

•Know your worth. Before you can tell a boss your
worth, you have to know what you’re bringing to the
table. Write down some of your skills and successes at
your company to date in advance if that helps.

• Show your worth. This may be reminding a boss of
your past accomplishments or telling them specific
attributes you have that are unique on your team.
Why are you the right person for the job?

d o n ’t

•Act entitled. Stay away from commentary about how
long you’ve been working at the company or that “it’s
about time” for a promotion. That can be part of your
case, but it absolutely shouldn’t be all of it.

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Handle Criticism With Grace
-Robin Roberts

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Let’s face it: Criticism hurts, and putting yourself on TV means opening yourself up to commentary, whether it be positive or negative.

Viewers have criticized Robin for everything from her enunciation to her outfit choices. “It stung, but when I just really sat with it,” she says, she realized those people were just trying to help her. She learned to try and receive it that way—as
constructive criticism. She’s since used some of
that constructive criticism to improve her work.

Of course, not all criticism is constructive (and not all constructive criticism is useful—if one person doesn’t like the shirt you wore on camera
yesterday, that’s no reason to ditch the shirt). There will always be trolls. Unfortunately, this
is especially true for female journalists. It’s more
than okay to block people on social media who
behave in a threatening or abusive manner.

The New York Times’ social media policy, for
example, specifically supports journalists’ right
to “block people on social media who are threatening or abusive.” As Times journalist Rukmini Callimachi writes in the newspaper’s social
media guidelines, “I used to get really upset and
respond to abuse—which only made it worse.
What I finally discovered is that… By blocking
anyone and everyone who uses abusive terms, I
am able to halt the conversation.”

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Interviewing
People for TV
-Robin Roberts

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A good TV interview looks like a good conversation. The questions don’t appear scripted, and the relationship between interviewer and interviewee almost resembles friendship, or at least camaraderie.

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Two key components to conducting a solid interview:
-Robin Roberts

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l i s t e n
Some people come into an interview ready to tell their
story. With others, your job is to coax their story out of
them. One way to do this, says Robin, is to show that
you care. Show them that you’re genuinely interested
in what they have to say with conversational cues (“uh huh,” “I see,” “fascinating, go on”) and body language
(eye contact, posture).

f o l l o w u p
Following up means paying attention to small turns
of phrases. Politicians, for example, tend to come to
interviews with talking points. They’re going to say
what they’re going to say regardless of the question
you ask them—they’re masters of spin. Listen carefully to the person who comes to your interview armed with scripted talking points. Pull out the details of what they’re saying, and question them on specifics.

That way, they’ll be forced to answer you in more than just canned sound bites. Sometimes you’ll hear something unexpectedly fascinating from the person you’re interviewing—something your research didn’t prepare you for. Feel free to ask follow-ups on those, too, to get
a story that may not have been told yet.

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Journalism Rules
-Robin Roberts

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Seek Truth and Report It

There’s more to seeking out the truth than sticking to the facts. Seeking truth means providing
adequate context so as not to distort the facts.
It means relying on as many firsthand sources
as possible and crediting secondhand sources
(like other news organizations) when you rely on their work. It means taking extra care to verify
the information you’ve received while reporting
and considering your sources’ motives.

Minimize Harm

When writing a story, it’s important to think
about why you’re telling it. Is it just to catch
readers’ attention with some salacious details?
Is it so you and your news organization will get
more views or clicks? If that’s a yes, and it comes
at the expense of the subject’s safety or peace
of mind, then think twice before broadcasting,
writing, or posting. In other words, weigh the
outcome of your story. Is getting this information out to the public so crucial that it’s worth the discomfort it may cause one source? Or is
the information not so critical after all?
Understanding the difference between a public and private figure is key here. Public figures understand that their positions put them in the
spotlight. For private people, being in a news story could alter their lives in unforeseen ways. Special sensitivity is required when writing about minors, crime survivors, and sources who may be in danger for sharing information.

Act Independently

This means avoiding all conflicts of interest as
a journalist or at the very least disclosing them.
It’s probably okay to quote a subject matter
expert who also happens to be your cousin, as
long as you mention in the article that he or she
is your cousin. However, if your partner is the
CEO of a company, you probably shouldn’t be
reporting on that company.
Generally, newsrooms don’t permit journalists
to accept gifts that exceed about $25 in value. It’s
probably all right to take the gift bag from a convention, but it’s not okay to accept free travel, a night at a hotel, or a Rolex. (That’s right: Payto-play Instagram influencers and “bloggers”
who accept free stuff in exchange for posts are
not reliable or ethical sources of information.
Chances are they won’t share an honest review
of a hotel or restaurant when they’re being paid
to talk about it.)
Allowing a source to buy you a coffee is usually fine—a full meal, if possible, should be
avoided (unless you’re paying for the meal on
your own dime). On the flip side, journalists
should not be paying sources for information.

Sure, the National Enquirer made this a practice for
years—the tabloid famously paid Elvis Presley’s cousin thousands of dollars to snap a picture of the King in his casket—but it’s certainly not considered ethical. Payment can influence what
a source might tell you.

Be Accountable and Transparent

This one is simple. If a journalist makes a mistake, they should acknowledge that and provide
clear corrections of their errors. And transparency means transparency—how journalists do
their work isn’t meant to be a secret from those
who watch, read, or listen to the news. It’s more
than okay to tell the public about the journalistic process and how you went about reporting
a story

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Objective of journalism
-Robin Roberts

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Regardless of whom you’re interviewing or what you’re reporting on, the main
objective is always the same. You’re there to
tell a story for the benefit of the public, your
viewers (or readers or listeners). As Robin
says, helping people tell their stories is the
reason to go into journalism. If you have
that desire, then you can follow in Robin’s
footsteps and tell stories to the world

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Emotional Utility. (NeuroMarketing)

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Utility is a quick measure of gain or loss calculated by our
brain to assess the importance and urgency of a decision. When the brain
evaluates the relevance and value of a persuasive message, it quickly computes the likelihood that expected benefits exceed the costs. Although you may not realize this, a sales offer, your brain is busy figuring out if the sum of the
benefits that is above the cost you must pay.

The net difference is commonly
referred to as the utility of that decision [41] or its gain, a critical concept of
NeuroMap that is extensively discussed in Chapter 7, Demonstrate the Gain.

More importantly, there are two powerful emotions that affect the perception of
the utility of any buying decision: the fear of regret and the fear of loss.

The fear of regret may arise when the outcome of a situation is not what we
expect. This happens when you consider the utility of the decision to fall short of
your expectations. On the other hand, the feeling of loss appears when we no
longer own or control something we value. In fact, Knutson and his colleagues
[41] from Stanford produced convincing neuroimaging evidence showing that
we use distinct circuits when we expect a gain or a loss.

The fear of loss
activates the insula (which also fires when we experience disgust) and
deactivates the medial prefrontal cortex, whereas the expectation of gain
generates more activity in the nucleus accumbens.

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Emotional Encoding. (NeuroMarketing)

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Emotional encoding represents the effect a message has
on memory, which is often a measure of how a persuasive message ultimately
succeeds. Being able to remember an advertisement does correlate positively
with the probability of selecting a brand [43, 44]. After all, how can you decide
if you do not remember which brand you are supposed to pick and why?

The study of how information encoding is performed in the brain has received
considerable attention from neuroscientists since the mid-1990s. Though it is
still very difficult to crack the neural code of memory in general, it is clear that
subcortical areas of the brain such as the hippocampus and the amygdala have an
important role in creating and maintaining our long-term memories [32]. This
may surprise you, but crucial functions such as remembering our short-term and long-term experiences are largely controlled by the primal brain and without
much of your awareness involved.

Also, research conducted by Bogdan Draganski and his colleagues [45]
demonstrated that gray matter volume increases as a result of learning, offering
scientists more tangible ways to measure the neuroanatomical correlates of emotional marking. How cool is that? The more you store information, the more
you create circuits in your brains! In fact, a famous study conducted on London
cab drivers [46] confirmed that by having to remember the names and location
of London’s 25,000 streets, their brains had a larger hippocampus than most
people. That is because the hippocampus is responsible for storing and
organizing our long-term memory. You can think of your long-term memory as
a muscle: the more you work it out, the stronger it will be.

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The Elaboration Likelihood Model (NeuroMarketing)

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Inspired by the cognitive theoretical movement, this model [51] states that a
persuasive message will trigger a logical succession of mental processes that
engage either a central (cognitive) or peripheral (emotional) route. Both routes represent the levels of thinking performed by recipients to understand the
meaning of the information.

The central route ensures that the message is
considered further (or elaborated), in which case the message has achieved its persuasive intent. However, if a message is processed by the peripheral route, the effect is predicted to be mild. According to the Elaboration Likelihood
Model, a good message is only elaborated if it appeals at a deep and personal
level.

Advocates of the Elaboration Likelihood Model argue that an effective campaign must include strong proofs to establish the credibility of the claims used in a persuasive message. However, despite its wide popularity, the critical
flaw of the Elaboration Likelihood Model is to assert that persuasion is possible
if recipients only engage cognitively with the content of a message, a fact that is
not supported by NeuroMap and by most neuromarketing research studies of the
past decade.

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The Psychological Reactance Theory (NeuroMarketing)

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According to this theory, humans are deeply motivated by the desire to hold themselves accountable and free from other’s rules and suggestions [52]. The
psychological reactance theory predicts that if people believe that their freedom to choose how they want to conduct their lives is under attack or manipulated,they will experience an ardent desire to react as a way to remove the pressure.
Reactance is believed to be at its peak during adolescence because teens have a strong drive toward independence and form beliefs and attitudes that often compete with those recommended by their parents. This model further predicts that explicit persuasive messages trigger more resistance than implicit attempts.

Also, Grandpre [53] demonstrated that reactance to persuasive messages increases with age. This may further explain why campaigns invoking the role of parents discussing the dangers of smoking are not effective [54]. The major flaw of the model, however, is the suggestion that persuasive messages are always recognized consciously, a fact that is clearly no longer defendable based on the
evidence generated by neuromarketing studies.

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The Message Framing Approach (NeuroMarketing)

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This model is based on the notion that a persuasive message can be framed in
two ways: either a loss if recipients fail to act/buy or a gain if recipients agree to
act/buy [55]. Loss-framed messages are typically effective when they raise
consciousness on the risks or loss associated with a lack of action. For instance,
you may kill people by texting and driving, or you may be financially ruined if
your house is destroyed by a fire and you have no insurance.

Experiments using this approach have demonstrated that loss-framed messages are better at preventing risky behaviors than changing them, suggesting that the effect may only be short-term [56–58]. Our research also shows that loss-framed messages work better than gain-framed messages because of the role played by the primal brain.

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The Limited Capacity Model of Mediated Message Processing (NeuroMarketing)

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The Limited Capacity Model is another model inspired by the field of cognitive
psychology. It provides a conceptual framework based on a series of empirical
studies examining the relative effect of message elements on key cognitive
functions such as encoding, storage, retrieval, information processing, and
limited capacity [59]. The model suggests that allocation of brain resources may
be equally distributed among several cognitive subprocesses leading to
inconsistent results in recall and general effect on recipients. Studies using the
Limited Capacity Model indicate that adolescents remember more details from
public service announcements than college students do and require more speed
in narratives to stay engaged. This model did confirm that key cognitive
differences exist between adolescents and adults and that these differences may

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Kahneman’s Two-Brain Model (NeuroMarketing)

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The dual processing theory was originally introduced by Stanovich and West
[61], and is also known as the System 1 and System 2 theory. It was eventually
popularized by Daniel Kahneman through his seminal book Thinking, Fast and Slow [62], for which he received the Nobel prize in economics. The tenets of this approach are both simple and profound.

Although the research supporting this
model was done to study rationality and explain cognitive processes in a
multitude of decision-making tasks, the value of the theoretical framework
extends far beyond cognitive psychology. In fact, it speaks directly to the nature of human cognitive biases and how they affect our day-to‐day choices.

For Kahneman, humans regularly access two decision systems that have different if not opposing priorities. System 1 is the most primitive part of the brain. It is automatic, unconscious, and requires low computational resources. System 2 is
the newest part of our brain. It is more intentional, needs more consciousness,
and has access to more cognitive resources to establish goals and calculate consequences of our decisions. Kahneman argues that System 1 rules over most of our decisions

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Error Management Theory and Cognitive Biases (NeuroMarketing)

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Psychologists Martie Haselton and Danie Nettle [67] proposed a very powerful
model to integrate most cognitive biases based on the theory of evolution called the error management theory (EMT). According to EMT, we collectively suffer
from “paranoid optimism” a dynamic tension that pushes us on one end to “play safe” and on another to “seek risk.” The paradoxical nature of this tension is a function of our drive to survive. For instance, men tend to overestimate how
much women desire them. Haselton and Nettle argue that this tendency may
have been reinforced over thousands of years to increase the number of sexual opportunities, and therefore increase the number of children from one pool of genes. They also argue that decision-making adaptations have evolved to make us “commit predictable errors.” They posit that EMT predicts that human psychology contains evolved “decision rules that are biased toward committing one type of error over another.”

NeuroMap can also explain and predict the same biases. The dominance of the primal brain is crucial during events that compromise our survival. In the absence of enough cognitive energy and the required need to act quickly, we activate programs that minimize risk. Now let’s go back to the tendency to be overly optimistic. This does not easily reconcile with the drive to avoid risk. For
instance, people tend to be overly optimistic about health problems they face
[68]. In that case, EMT states that we have more sensitivity to harms that may
arise from external sources (others) than harms that can come from internal
sources (us). This suggests that we have different biases based on the origin of the risk. Once again, this is predicted by NeuroMap. External threats are urgent
for the primal brain to process and trigger our instinctive response to avoid risk and uncertainty. However, internal threats are typically more complex to assess and therefore are more likely to engage cognitive resources from the rational brain, which may be more naturally inclined toward optimism and hope.

Haselton and Nettle call this phenomena “paranoid optimism.” They observe
that we appear fear-centered about the environment (primal) but optimistic about
the self (rational)

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The Bias of Thin-slicing (NeuroMarketing)

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Malcolm Gladwell’s book Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking [69]
tells curious stories in which people make seemingly absurd decisions using a
limited amount of information. He calls this bias “thin-slicing” and draws
examples from a wide range of situations involving scientists, doctors,
executives, art experts, and more. In all these cases, logic and rationality are
missing.

Choices are made in the “blink of an eye” even though they may
involve smart and educated decision makers. Although Gladwell does not
investigate the neuroscience of “thin-slicing,” NeuroMap can explain many of
the situations he describes. For instance, in the presence of too much
information, the primal brain takes over while the rational brain stalls.

Furthermore, when our primal brain dominates plenty of emotional factors
influence our decisions beyond our level of consciousness. Although there are clear benefits from allowing the primal brain to control an enormous number of our decisions, it can lead us to make very bad choices. Remember the example
of trying to find how much the candy was worth?

Your primal brain took over,
and most likely you did not get the right answer!
Another important book discussing the faulty nature of many of our decisions is
Predictably Irrational by Daniel Ariely [70]. The book presents several
cognitive biases that affect many of our decisions, basically because the primal
brain controls the process below our level of awareness. Following are a few cognitive biases.

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The Bias of Relativity (NeuroMarketing)

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To decide, we need to be able to contrast options that appear radically different.
By offering two options that are about the same, and a third that is radically
different, most people will choose the third. The primal brain is wired to make
quick decisions, and contrast allows that level of efficiency. When we easily
compare and contrast options, we are allowing the dominance of the primal brain
to rule our choices.

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The Bias of Anchoring (NeuroMarketing)

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Our first decisions may considerably influence the rest of the decisions we make
regarding the same product or solution. This suggests that we are wired to repeat
decisions we find satisfying. That is why habits are so addictive. We argue the
reason we do that is because the primal brain wants to reduce cognitive effort by
retrieving old patterns of behavior. It also explains why it is so difficult to
change our behavior in general or shift to another brand of toothpaste!

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The Bias of Zero Cost (NeuroMarketing)

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We always prefer free options over fee options because we perceive that there is
no risk when the item has no price. According to Ariely, the reason free shipping
offers are so effective is that it lifts the objection of adding any cost on top of the
price of an item. In fact, the zero-cost bias reflects the loss-avoidance bias of the
primal brain. It is not logical and rational to wait in line for a free ice cream, yet
thousands of people do it because they are under the dominance of their primal
brain, which seeks instant gratification!

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The Bias of Social Norms (NeuroMarketing)

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We act based on what is expected of our community of reference (social norm),
and this may influence the way we respond to market offers. If the offer is
aligned with the social norm, we accept the offer. If it is not, we reject it. What
this explains is that incongruence between our primal brain (compliance reduces
risk or regret) and the rational brain (evaluation of a market offer) disrupts the
risk or regret) and the rational brain (evaluation of a market offer) disrupts the
bottom-up effect. NeuroMap predicts that for messages/offers to work, they must
stimulate both the primal and the rational brains.

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The Bias of Multiplying Options (NeuroMarketing)

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According to Ariely, we pretend that we prefer more options than fewer.
Paradoxically, to survive, we are better off reviewing a limited number of
options. We will discuss this bias when we elaborate on contrastable as a
persuasion stimulus later in this chapter. We argue that the primal brain hates too
many choices. The rational brain does not mind going through an extensive
evaluation process, but it may delay decisions in the process. This creates a
paradox in many of our decisions. We tend to say we want options, but at a
deeper level, we do not want to face the cognitive burden of choosing among
many. NeuroMap posits that a persuasive message can trigger decisions when it
asserts that there is only one good decision: the one you suggest!

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The Bias of Expectations (NeuroMarketing)

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What we expect influences our behavior. This bias is the direct consequence of
the dominance of the primal brain over the rational brain. What we want is
known to emerge in primal subcortical areas of the brain. What we want shapes
what we expect, and what we expect does overrule what we logically and
rationally report we need.

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Too much information: (NeuroMarketing)

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The dominance of the primal brain is based on
survival priorities that are deeply anchored in our biology. Cognition came
later. We are not wired to process a lot of information, spend ample time
finding patterns, or agonize over decisions. Too much information freezes
the primal brain.

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Not enough meaning: (NeuroMarketing)

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Our primal brain does not have the cognitive
resources to compute and resolve complex arrays of data. If the pattern of a
situation is completely new, and not urgent or relevant, the primal brain will
not be able to retrieve a previously stored set of commands that would
accelerate the processing of the information. We love cognitive fluency
because it conserves valuable energy

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Not enough time: (NeuroMarketing)

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: Time is directly related to how much energy the brain
needs to process information. In the primal brain, faster is always better.
Therefore, situations that require time do not appeal to our older brain
structures and receive low priority.

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Not enough memory: (NeuroMarketing)

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Our brain is not designed to store much information.
The reason is simple. Encoding is costly, because of the energy required to
store but also to maintain and retrieve our memories. Recent research
demonstrates that memorizing attaches specific neurons to our memories. In
fact, by using light to stimulate nerve connections, Dr. Malinow and his team
successfully removed and reactivated memories by stimulating synapses in
rats’ brains [71]. This only proves further that the brain welcomes situations
or events that make it easy to hold information in working memory and not
highly dependent on long-term encoding. The primal brain favors such
conditions over others.

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Focus on Your Audience First (NeuroMarketing)

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. Make sure you put your audience, prospect, or
listeners at the center of the message. So many ads or presentations forget this
simple rule. Admit it: Have you not ever started a presentation by saying, “Good morning, ladies and gentlemen. Today I would like to tell you about our
company, our values, our mission statement, our technology…”?

The image in Figure 4.3 is indicative of just how interested and excited the primal brains of your audience will be while listening to your introduction
In a matter of a few seconds, you only prove that you have no intention of
putting your audience at the center of the story because it is all about you instead
of them!

According to Kahneman [82], we experience 20,000 psychological “present”
moments per day, each three seconds long. Since the primal brain craves input
that is personal, a substantial portion of these moments is spent thinking about
us!

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Focus on a Pain That Is Relevant to Your Audience (NeuroMarketing)

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Our primal brain seeks
to protect us. Therefore, in your attempts to persuade, highlight, if not magnify, a
threat, a risk, or a pitfall that your solution can solve. As a result, you will
command immediate attention. Too often, messages focus on the solution (business centered) and not the problem (personal). NeuroMap suggests that
before offering a solution, you need to remind your audience of a pain they have experienced or do not want to face.

This is not to manipulate or create undue stress. It is simply to recognize that the primal brain will not dedicate energy unless your message is both urgent and relevant to the person you are trying to
engage.

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CONTRASTABLE (NeuroMarketing)

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The priority of the primal brain is to accelerate decisions, and we do that best when we have limited options. This points to an important paradox in consumer behavior: customers tend to tell you they want lots of brand options, even though
they subconsciously resist using valuable energy to evaluate and sort the best
ones. I did not discover this paradox by practicing conventional marketing.
Rather, I detected this puzzling contradiction nearly 20 years ago by observing shoppers in grocery stores. At the time, I was the vice president of marketing of a grocery chain called Grocery Outlet. Grocery Outlet sold top brands at bargain
prices in 12 US states.

Our products’ variety was somewhat limited given the
nature of our retail concept, so I wanted to know if we could increase our sales
by adding additional brands for certain categories of products. I conducted focus
groups, and sure enough, when I asked customers if they wanted more choices,
they always said yes.

However, when I observed them shopping in the stores, they systematically froze in front of too many possible choices. When faced with too many options that were not immediately contrastable with one another,
customers were unable to quickly and easily differentiate among assorted brands. This explained why our category sales did not move quickly when we added brands. Customers were overwhelmed by being in front of so many
options.

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The Use of Contrastable Offers in Comparative Advertising (Neuromarketing)

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The most common use of contrastable in advertising is comparative advertising,
where one brand compares itself to another. There are many research papers on
the effect of comparative advertising, but few make any reference to consumer
neuroscience and none provide a brain-based interpretation of its results.
According to Professor Fred Beard, a general conclusion we can draw, though, is
that comparative advertising works! – especially for “products of high quality,”
where claims are well substantiated and focused on salient benefits that are
believable [86]. Beard explains that comparative advertising works especially
well for companies that have a smaller market share. This makes perfect sense!
How can you convince anyone to buy your product unless you do the
challenging work of finding what your unique differentiators are first?

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Find the Salient Benefits of Your Solution. (Neuromarketing)

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The primal brain will not accept the burden of making complicated decisions. Too often, sales messages spew a list of reasons that customers should consider a solution. However, these reasons do little to motivate the primal brain to commit the energy required to consider them all.

Therefore, you need to distill a limited number of benefits, and then
demonstrate that no other brand or company can deliver a solution that is as
unique and as effective as yours. Later in this book, we will elaborate further on
how you can find your claims. Claims represent the compact list of the top
benefits you offer. They can accelerate the decision and create contrastable
situations that make immediate sense for the primal brain.

Typically, claims will provide direct solutions to pains and grab attention to make your message completely relevant to an urgent threat or risk that your audience faces. Once you magnify a pain and show how your solution can solve it, customers will beg
to buy your solution. As David Ogilvy famously suggested, selling is easy: “Just light a fire under people’s chairs, and then present the extinguisher!”

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Compare Your Solution to a Competitor (Neuromarketing)

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Contrasting your product or solution
with that of a competitor is a good strategy. “Before and after” stories can do
that as well. Show the life of one of your customers before they own your
product or solution – it should be painful to see! – and then show the relief of
their pain as the contrast. This scenario is the typical story that you see in an
infomercial and for a good reason: it works!

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What to Remember About Contrastable (NeuroMarketing)

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Despite what we say, we do not like multiple buying options because it
overwhelms our primal inclination to decide quickly and to do so with the least amount of brain energy.

Comparing two situations makes decisions easy for the primal brain.

Rather than stating: “Choose us because we are one of the leading companies in the XYZ industry,” highlight only a few unique benefits (claims).

Contrast stories of before and after, or your brand against the competition, to
help your customers decide.

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TANGIBLE (NeuroMarketing)

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Making something tangible means to achieve simplicity and minimize the
cognitive energy necessary to process your message. The primal brain does not
have the cognitive resources offered by the rational brain, yet it dominates the
initial review process of any persuasive message.

So, the quality of making things tangible is the quality of serving information to
the brain that does not require much mental effort. We welcome speed and
simplicity because we welcome the opportunity to not waste cognitive energy.
Let’s simply reflect on one idiom that says it all: paying attention. What does this
expression imply? That you are asking people to “spend something,” which is
effectively brain energy. The reason we are so bad about consciously controlling
our attention is that the primal brain is the guardian of that spending. Before you can even think of selling anything, you must sell the value of using your
audience’s energy to process your message.

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The Power of Cognitive Fluency (NeuroMarketing)

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The Power of Cognitive Fluency
The value of making your message more tangible is supported by the study of
how much we enjoy cognitive fluency. Cognitive fluency is the subjective
experience of ease or difficulty to complete a mental task.

It is a well-researched
bias that explains how much we favor processing information that is easy to
understand. For example, we prefer people whose names are easier to pronounce
than others [91]. Also, we remember better what is easier to learn [92]. Shares in companies that have easy-to‐pronounce names tend to outperform others. The
fluency of many cognitive processes is “pre-assessed” by the primal brain.
Anything that appears complicated within the first few milliseconds is likely to
be rejected by the rest of the brain.

For instance, whenever I talk about our persuasion model, I hold a brain in my hand to establish that I am passionate about the topic. Doing so increases people’s attention and reinforces the
perception that I am competent to talk about neuroscience!

More importantly, it
makes the SalesBrain model easier to understand because I am not just relying
on words to explain it. It makes a complex topic more cognitively fluent

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What to Remember About Tangible (NeuroMarketing)

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The primal brain is the guardian of our cognitive energy.
Don’t expect messages that create cognitive effort to persuade.
Making a message complicated is easy but achieving cognitive fluency is
difficult.
You need to work hard to create a simple, yet persuasive message.

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MEMORABLE (NeuroMarketing)

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Memory, or how information is encoded, is a complicated function of the brain.
First, it is largely distributed across many brain areas, some located in the primal
brain (hippocampus, amygdala), but also in newer cortical areas like the
temporal lobes or the prefrontal lobes. A full discussion on memory is beyond
the scope of this book but discussing short-term memory and how you can
improve your ability to impress upon your audience to make your messages
more memorable is extremely important

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Working Memory (NeuroMarketing)

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The concept of working memory is critical to how you can
make your message more memorable. Working memory holds information in
our brains for a short period (short-term memory), and transforms the
information to guide a decision, a thought, or a movement. Working memory
can be stimulated by input coming from your senses (the ringing of your alarm
clock), or from your long-term memory (retrieving the address of the restaurant
where you are meeting a friend). As you realize by now, the whole point of
presenting a persuasive message is to make sure it is easy for people’s brains to
manipulate the information they receive. Therefore, your ability to persuade is
completely dependent on the activation of your audience’s working memory.
Studies prove that the frontal lobes are extensively involved in activating the
process by which we hold and manipulate short-term information we receive.
And SalesBrain’s research shows that only messages that engage the primal brain
first are successfully processed by our working memory.

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Applying Memorable to Persuasive Messages
(NeuroMarketing)

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To make your message memorable, create a narrative that will have limited and short attention dips.

Narratives that work on the brain grab attention at the beginning and the end
of each segment

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What to Remember About Memorable (NeuroMarketing)

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We are wired to remember basic information to guide our short-term actions.
Message recall is affected by sensory memory, which further influences both
short-term and working memory. Both are critical systems that make
encoding fragile.
The primal brain needs a solid narrative structure with a strong beginning
and strong end to create attention and retention.
Messages imprint better in the brain if they focus on the pain first.

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Applying Visual to Persuasive Messages (NeuroMarketing)

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Maximizing the visual appeal of your message is a priority. There are many
ways to apply this core stimulus when you craft an ad, a corporate video, a
commercial, a web page, and, of course, a face-to‐face presentation.
First, always remind yourself that your audience will not process the entire
visual stimuli. Only a fraction of what you show will be seen. Less is more.

Eyetracking studies confirm that only a fraction of a web page or a packaging label
will be processed by most people, regardless of age, gender, or education. There
are 100 million receptors in the eye, but only a few million fibers in the optic
nerve. Fifty percent of our visual brain is directed to process less than 5% of the
visual world. It is as if our eye movements curiously help us see more of small
areas, not more of big areas.
Second, focus on improving the saliency of your images.

Visual saliency is the
inherent quality your visual stimuli must have to capture and captivate your
audience. We typically process details in the center of the visual field, but the contrast between an object and its surroundings makes it more salient

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What to Remember About Visual (NeuroMarketing)

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The visual sense dominates all other senses.
It takes only 13 milliseconds to process an image, but about 10 times more to
process a word and nearly 500 milliseconds to process a decision that
engages the rational brain.
Making a message visual delivers the fastest and most important persuasive
stimulus of all.
Objects in movement attract the most attention.
Saliency of objects is key.

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Applying Emotional to Persuasive Messages (NeuroMarketing)

A

To ensure that you properly guide your audience to the behaviors you want, your
message should first activate negative emotions that prompt us to avoid a
situation. For instance, a negative surprise is one the most commonly used
avoidance emotion to sell products or solutions that reduce risk or uncertainty,
like insurance. If this negative emotion is relevant to your audience, then it will
grab their attention and prime people to ask for a solution.

In fact, at best, their
mirror neurons will kick in to sample the stress that this situation may represent
for them. Neuroscientists consider the existence of mirror neurons a crucial step
toward understanding the basis of empathy and learning functions in humans
[135]. It is now widely accepted that mirror neurons help us learn and sample
people’s emotions by simply observing their behavior. Later you will learn that
one of the most effective ways to stimulate mirror neurons is to act out the pain
of your prospects so they can personally relive it for just a few seconds.

Once you have done that, simply activate an approach emotion by presenting your
solution to their pain. This, of course, will liberate your audience from the
tension you created by re-enacting their fears. The emotional lift will produce
more trust, more sense of safety, more joy, more love, or more excitement for
the value you can bring.

Never forget that a good emotional lift directly impacts
the chemical balance of the brain. Stress or fear may indeed raise levels of
noradrenaline, adrenocorticotropic hormone, and cortisol in the brain and
throughout the body. Love and trust may produce elevated levels of oxytocin;
laughter will raise levels of endorphins; happiness may raise serotonin levels;
and anticipation will boost dopamine. Making your message emotional means
using the power of brain chemicals to make your message more persuasive

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WHAT TO REMEMBER (NeuroMarketing)

A

To improve your ability to persuade, you need to use six stimuli that speak to
the primal brain first and can ultimately engage the rational brain as well.
1. The message must be personal and able to relate quickly to a relevant
frustration or pain.
2. The message needs to be contrastable, so that a decision can be
accelerated by comparing two situations that make the best choice
obvious.
3. The message must be tangible to achieve cognitive fluency and allow the
primal brain to accept the truth of the argument.
4. The message must be memorable so that retention is done effortlessly
and designed to encode the part of the message that will trigger a
decision.
5. The message should be visual because the primal brain is visually
dominant in the way information is first considered and integrated into
our decision-making process.
6. The message must produce a positive emotional uplift, to reach the
higher cognitive areas and trigger a decision.
7. Together, the six stimuli can propel your message to success, achieving
the optimum path of persuasion, as explained by NeuroMap.

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PERSUASION PROCESS. (NeuroMarketing)

A

The four steps are the fundamental pillars of your
persuasive strategy. They ensure a proper articulation of your message by:
1. Diagnosing the top pains of your customers
2. Differentiating from your competition by identifying unique claims
3. Demonstrating the gain of each claim
4. Delivering to their primal brain by following the blueprint of a killer
presentation, a sticky website, a stunning ad, or a compelling video.

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WHY PAINS DRIVE BUYING BEHAVIOR (NeuroMarketing)

A

First, your message must target the elimination of fears, threats, or risks that the
primal brain prioritizes to eliminate. As humans, we aspire to reduce or remove
anxiety to survive and to feel safe. As we learned in the section on personal, our
brain has evolved over millions of years. Even today, we need to pay attention to
events that matter most to our survival so that we can thrive as a species.
According to Stanislas Dehaene, a foremost expert on the neuroscience of
consciousness, our ability to navigate a complex array of decisions is driven by
the level of vigilance we apply to critical states of consciousness. As vigilance
rises (as threats increase), the brain recruits more brain areas in a bottom-up
process that results in recruiting more cerebral blood flow [136].

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Iceberg model of needs (NeuroMarketing)

A

The iceberg of decision drivers is a powerful metaphor to explain how critical
psychological and neurophysiological states affect our response to persuasive
stimuli. Traditionally, marketing research has focused on what people say they
like or think they want. However, neuromarketing studies have now proven that
customers cannot be trusted to articulate or even confirm what they like or want.
That is why both likes and wants are poor predictors of buying behavior. Likes
and wants are vague conscious interpretations of what we think we need to be
happy and safe. They tend to shift over short periods based on lifestyle changes,
trends, and even moods. On the other hand, our core fears and pains are more
permanent. As such, they become the best predictors of how people make
decisions.

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The Nature of Fear (NeuroMarketing)

A

According to Ledoux, fear is associated with emotional events for which we can
identify a specific threat. The semantic difference between both terms may
appear pointless until you realize that anxiety is more diffuse and more
permanent than fear, while fear is more precise and typically more imminent
than anxiety. Ledoux argues: “To experience fear is to know that YOU are in a
dangerous situation, and to experience anxiety is to worry about whether future
threats may harm YOU”

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The Nature of Pains (NeuroMarketing)

A

We understand that in most cases, it is very difficult if not awkward, to discuss
anxiety and fears with your customers directly. When we conduct a neuromarketing experiment, we can assess the level of arousal and fear that people may experience watching an ad without requiring conscious feedback.

However, for many of SalesBrain’s clients, identifying the neurophysiological
basis of fears associated with the purchase of a product or a solution is both costly and challenging to execute. On the other hand, engaging in PAIN dialogues that can specifically focus on what people consider their biggest
frustrations associated with the purchase of a solution is relatively easy to do.

Diagnosing the top pains is a critical step because it will later help you select a
few benefits of your value proposition that can directly eliminate the top sources
of frustrations. It is like putting the dozens of reasons why customers should buy
from you through a strainer. Only those that offer a direct, unique, and credible
solution to the top pains should stay in the strainer!

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Negative Customer Experience (NeuroMarketing)

A

Often, pains are simply correlated to complaints, pet peeves, or grievances that
customers have once they have purchased or used a product or a solution. When
you sell something new, pains can predict future complaints. Here is some
valuable data to help you further understand the power of diagnosing the top
pains to increase customer satisfaction [138].
Sixty-six percent of customers switch to another brand because of receiving
poor service.
Fifty-eight percent will never use a company again after they experience a
negative experience.
Forty-eight percent of customers with negative experiences will tell ten
people or more, whereas good experiences are shared with five or fewer.
These data points stress something obvious: we are more affected by negative
customer experiences events than we are by positive ones. This is why we tend
to spend more time sharing our customer nightmares than we do sharing our
pleasant experiences.

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AN INTEGRATED VIEW OF DECISION DRIVERS
(NeuroMarketing)

A

The process of how consumers assess, respond, and eventually decide after they are exposed to persuasive messages is complex and the source of extensive debate among scholars and researchers.

Our proposal for an integrated view of
decision drivers considers neurophysiological research and traditional research
performed on a wide range of products and industries, as well as over 20
countries. We believe that decisions are influenced by the dominance of the
primal brain and especially the pains we strive to eliminate.

Buyers typically start their journey in a basic state of ignorance or anxiety about
a product or solution, a situation in which risk is potentially high (the fear of
regret), and the cognitive involvement is typically low. However, to the extent
that a product or solution is made relevant, urgent, and useful by re-awakening
pains, specific fears become activated.

For instance, if a message is making you realize that you could die abruptly and leave your loved ones with massive debt by not having life insurance, you face multiple fears you feel you need to address quickly. By considering the value of having life insurance, you now move from a neutral state to a state of interest. Two possibilities happen next.

If you are not willing to engage cognitively with the topic, you will choose to
forego a decision, which means do nothing or else evaluate another option.
However, if the message or the value proposition is successful at activating
cognitive engagement, you will move to a “want” state and feel the motivation to
buy (anticipation), rewarded by a nice dose of dopamine in your brain. So, as
you can see, diagnosing pain is a central construct persuasion step that increases the likelihood you can create effective messages. Know the pains you need to eliminate, and you have the script of your best selling arguments!

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The Three Sources of Pain (NeuroMarketing)

A

Pain always falls into three main categories:
financial, strategic, or personal.
1. Financial pain pertains to economic factors such as the loss of revenue, low
profitability, or bad ROI. Financial pain is typically highly visible and easy
to measure.
2. Strategic pain includes issues that affect key business risks that can
compromise the development, manufacturing, marketing, or delivery of
products and services. Typical types of strategic pains are poor product
quality, production inefficiencies, high customer complaints, and poor brand
recognition. Strategic pain is not always as visible as financial pain and
cannot always be easily measured.
3. Personal pain is made up of the negative feelings and emotions affecting
those who are involved in the buying decisions. Examples include elevated
levels of stress, job insecurity, or working longer hours.

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Marketing pain (NeuroMarketing)

A

Diagnosing pains helps you unveil the most critical decision drivers out of
the many psychological factors that may influence your customer’s behavior.
Humans aspire to eliminate worries to survive and thrive.

Our nature is to
orient our attention to messages that awaken our fears, which is why a
product or solution that can clearly articulate which pains it can eliminate
first will receive more consideration and create higher urgency.

There are three types of pains that can explain how and why people become
attracted to a specific value proposition: financial pains, strategic pains, and
personal pains. They all point to either material, emotional, and
psychological needs we want to satisfy.

Once you have successfully diagnosed the top pains by conducting pain
dialogues, quantify the importance of the pains as well as consider creating
segments or clusters of your top customers who share common pains.

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HOW TO SELECT YOUR CLAIMS
(NeuroMarketing)

A

Defining your claims is a rather simple theoretical process, but it can be
challenging. Here are three critical steps:
1. Make sure each claim is a TOP claim; TOP is an acronym for:
Therapeutic: Your claims should provide a cure for a pain experienced
by your prospects.
Original: Your claims should provide enough differentiation between
you and any of your competitors. To ensure your claims display enough
contrast, you need to know intimately the reason your prospects would
want to buy from your competitors.
Provable: You need to support your claims with strong proofs.
2. You should wordsmith your claim(s), so they become mnemonic, that is,
they become easily memorable; one of the six stimuli!
3. When they are put together in one sentence, your claims should support your
mission statement: “We are the first/best/only company to offer claim 1,
claim 2, and claim 3.” At SalesBrain, we coach many companies to make
sure their mission statement includes their three claims and nothing else!

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What to Remember about Claims (NeuroMarketing)

A

You should remember that the primal brain will favor information that

Claims give your prospects the solution to their top pains
Uses short and simple words that are easy to pronounce [157].

Do not use more than 3 claims to not overload the working memory of your
prospects

Reads easily with fonts that are processed with maximum processing fluency
and in color, which offer a pleasing contrast with their background. Verdana,
Tahoma, Times are always good choices for fonts [158].
Is pleasing to the ear, so wordsmith your claims using:
A repetition of the same word as in “protect, protect, protect.” This
creates a META-claim, a claim above all claims.
An alliteration (the repetition of the same letter or sound at the beginning
of adjacent words) as in “Diagnose, differentiate, demonstrate, and
deliver.”

A rhyme as in “Protect your time, protect your dime, protect your peace
of mind” (or pain, claim, gain). In the book titled Pre-Suasion, Professor
Robert Cialdini reports, “The statement Caution and measure will bring
you riches is seen as truer when changed to Caution and measure win
you treasure.”

There is a lesson here for persuasive success: “To make it climb, make it rhyme” [159].

Any other technique that creates a pleasing sound in the expression of
your claims.

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Summary of Gain. (NeuroMarketing)

A

Gain is the difference between value and cost.
Gain proofing is critical to make sure your value proposition is not only clear
but credible.

It is your burden to prove that the gain is believable.
Break down your gain in terms of financial value, strategic value, and
personal value.

There are four ways to prove the gain. The most effective way is to use
customer testimonials, then a demo, then data, and finally a vision.

Now you have:
Diagnosed the pain
Differentiated your claims
Demonstrated the gain
Now that the content of your message is defined, it is time to work on the
delivery of your message, and you need to
Deliver to the primal brain.

66
Q

Aspirational Proof: Vision
(Neuromarketing)

A

When no other proofs are available, there is still a way to persuade: by using the
power of your vision or belief. You surely have heard this kind of proof when a
power of your vision or belief. You surely have heard this kind of proof when a
seller says: “Trust me, we’ll save you $1,000!” Because of the absence of actual
proof, the seller needs to make the vision bold and impressive. Such an
aspirational proof typically requires telling a story, an analogy or using a
metaphor to get your prospects to trust the value they will receive.

67
Q

Analytical Proof: Data
(Neuromarketing)

A

“In god we trust…all other please bring data!” is the motto of the skeptics.
Despite that skeptic opinion, data are abstract and provide weaker proof than a
customer testimonial or a demo. However, you can still prove your value using
data.
When using data as a proof, research shows that the credibility of the source of
the data impacts the persuasion effect [170]. Furthermore, studies have shown
that quantification of the data always brings some persuasion benefit. The
exception to this rule states that quantification might put more reliance on the
fact that the source of information needs to be perceived as an expert for the
persuasion effect to occur [171]. Note that the diagnostic phase of NeuroMap
serves to unveil the pain of your customers and provides an opportunity to
establish your expertise in the domain.
Imagine you are selling manufacturing equipment. To prove your value, you
could say, “Our new machines would save you $240,000 per year on your
manufacturing cost.” Note that such a statement is not using data to prove the
value, it’s just a quantification of the value but the proof is aspirational, it’s your
hope that you would save them that amount.
Now imagine if you were saying, “Our machines will shorten your
manufacturing time by 10%. Your plant is running 2,400 hours a year, so as a
result you will save 240 hours per year. Since you mentioned that your
production cost is $1,000 per hour, you will save $240,000.”
Notice that although the savings presented in the two examples above are
identical, the first one requires a total act of faith in what the vendor says (the
identical, the first one requires a total act of faith in what the vendor says (the
$240,000), whereas the second requires two assumptions:
1. Your prospect believes you will shorten the manufacturing time by 10%. The
rest of the numbers will be easily accepted because they came from them.
2. Your prospect understands the logic of your argument. For that, he needs to
comprehend how you came up with the $240,000 savings.
The current example is obvious but in most B2B situations these calculations can
be very complex, and they will inevitably lead to a major cognitive load on the
brain of your audience, a task that is energetically taxing and is often conducive
to confusion, not persuasion.
Therefore, your objective is to arrive at quantification of the value – financial,
strategic, or personal – by using the simplest possible formula compatible with
your audience’s level of comprehension of mathematical or abstract concepts.
For example, if you sell a complex solution that will be reviewed by a CFO, it
would be relevant to use a sophisticated ROI model. But if you are in a B2C
situation, the use of data to build your proof should be simple to understand.
Remember, even the simplest data are not appealing to the primal brain!

68
Q

Observable Proof: Demo
(Neuromarketing)

A

Observable Proof: Demo
A demonstration (or demo) uses a prop, a visual, or a sequence of logical steps
to prove a value statement in the present. Think about Domino’s Pizza slogan:
“30 minutes or less or it’s free.” The “or it’s free” is a strong demonstration that
the pizza will arrive on time.

69
Q

Social Proof: Customer Testimonial
(Neuromarketing)

A

In his book Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert Cialdini identifies
six laws of influence [167]:
Social proof: The more people behave one way, the more it will incent others
to match that behavior.
Consistency and commitment: Once people make a statement in one
direction in the future they will be psychologically motivated to remain
consistent with the original statement.
Reciprocity: When you do something nice to people, they will want to
reciprocate.
Liking: The more you have a positive rapport with people the more chances
you have to influence them.
Authority: People perceived as expert or in charge are more influential.
Scarcity: The rarer an item, the more valuable it becomes.

A simple example of the impact of the law of social proof – which we want to
use here to strongly demonstrate your value – is “canned laugher,” which has
proven to cause the audience to laugh longer and more often and to rate the comedy as funnier [168]. Cialdini states that we define as correct behavior what
we see other people do. Other manifestations of this phenomenon can be seen
when bartenders prime their tip jar with a few dollars, when car manufacturers
claim “the number 1 selling truck in America” or when companies are eager to
communicate the long list of customers who use their solution. Remember, our
primal brain will make us behave like sheeps. The more we believe people
behave one way, the more we will want to conform. In a business setting, how
can you use this law to your advantage? The answer is by using one or more
customer testimonials.

70
Q

Financial Value
(Neuromarketing)

A

The financial value refers to the creation of measurable wealth, either by
increasing savings or bringing additional revenues. Keep in mind that because of the loss aversion bias, helping your customers save $1 has a greater
psychological value – in average about 2.3 times more – than helping them make an additional $1 [164, 165].

In a B2B context, the financial value is often labeled ROI (return on investment)
or TCO (total cost of ownership) and it should be carefully quantified. For
example, rather than saying “My solution will save you money,” you should say,
“You will save 12% of your manufacturing cost with my solution.” Or even
better, “You will save $58,000 annually with my solution.” Note how a precise quantification of the value makes it more tangible than a vague and less
convincing statement like “we will save you money” [166]. Also quantifying the
value with an actual dollar amount as opposed to a percentage will reduce your
prospect’s cognitive effort. It makes it simpler to compare the value with your
cost. If your solution has a price tag of $50,000, then your prospects will
instantly understand that they can recoup their investment in less than one year.

The gain calculation becomes obvious, even for their primal brains!

71
Q

Strategic Value
(Neuromarketing)

A

The strategic value refers to a business value your prospect would experience
with the understanding that this value cannot be translated into a credible
financial quantification but offers nonetheless tangible benefits. For example,
imagine you are selling a new type of seat belt to Volvo that offers a higher
safety rating than the ones Volvo currently uses. Because safety is central to the value proposition of Volvo (it is, in fact, their main claim!) the increase of safety
provided by your solution represents a strategic value. Note that translating this
into a financial value would be challenging.

Although an overall increase in safety of the Volvo cars is valuable, claiming it would help Volvo sell more cars
would be a stretch because it would be difficult if not impossible to make a
direct link between higher safety and additional sales.
Similar to the financial value, the strategic value should be quantified with an
exact number. In the Volvo example instead of saying, “Our new seat belts will
make your cars safer,” say, “Your car safety index will increase from 88 to 91
thanks to our new seat belts.”

Note that in this case quantifying the value makes
it more tangible and therefore more appealing to the primal brain.

Other examples of strategic value include less business risk, opportunity to
diversify, increased quality, better differentiation, and so forth. All these examples point to a reduction of risk and uncertainty, which are crucial factors for the primal brain.

72
Q

Personal Value
(Neuromarketing)

A

The personal value refers to the psychological or physical benefits your
customers would experience because of your solution. Personal value includes
less stress, pride of ownership, reduced work burden, being promoted, becoming a hero, feeling more secure or more empowered in the job, getting a bonus,
receiving company or external recognition, etc. Unlike the financial and strategic type of value, personal value is difficult to quantify other than by using
psychological constructs. Nevertheless, if your solution allows your customers to
work less, you should try to quantify how much less: is it just five minutes per
week or one hour per day?

Notice that if the benefit of working less implies that
your customers could, in turn, decrease the cost of their solution, it would then
be wise to quantify that financial component of the value. Instead of saying “Our
solution will save you time,” say, “You will save five minutes on the assembly
time of each of your machines, which means you will no longer have to do extra hours on Fridays (personal value) and it will result in production cost savings of $27 per machine (financial value).”

Even in large B2B transactions, the personal value should not be underestimated. For example, for years when IBM was selling large computers, their motto was “Nobody ever got fired from choosing
IBM.”

The objective of an effective persuader should always be to maximize the
amount of value presented and not to leave it open to the imagination of the
audience.

73
Q

YOUR VALUE PROPOSITION
(Neuromarketing)

A

Value (often called value proposition) is a favorite topic in the world of
marketing. Of the roughly 200,000 books written on marketing about 1,000
focus specifically on the subject of the value proposition. By comparison, less than about 60 books have been written on neuromarketing so far, and over 1,000,000 books have been written on sales!

Fundamentally, when you are trying to sell or market a product or a service (or
even an idea) your objective at any given price point should always be to
maximize the value your prospects will perceive they receive. In other words,
regardless of your price, you should attempt to maximize the value you present,
and by doing so, you will maximize the GAIN defined as: value minus cost.
Imagine you are selling a car for $50,000. If you can create the perception in the
brain of your prospects that the value of your car is comparable to that of a
Bentley, a Ferrari or a Tesla, it will become easier to sell than if the perceived
value is comparable to a Fiat or a Hyundai. The perception of value is key!

74
Q

Forcing Answers

A

Using questions forces answers. Remember that when you ask a
question, you are in control of the thought processes of the other
person. You can control and direct him by asking the right questions.

75
Q

Cultish - Language is a way to get members of a community on the same ideological page

A

As she traces just how reliant cults like Synanon and Heaven’s Gate were on jargon and invented language (the latter referred to people as “containers” and parking lots as “docking stations”), Montell concludes that language is the primary means by which any group, and not just a cult, establishes a sense of shared purpose and identity.

Specialized terminology allows adherents to feel they have unique access to something. “Whether wicked or well-intentioned,” she explains, “language is a way to get members of a community on the same ideological page. To help them feel like they belong to something big.” In this way, most organizations are cult-ish (her term), and indeed, Montell prefers to see the term cult as something that operates on a continuum, with language alerting us that a popular fitness trend or a company we work for has teetered across a boundary into something dangerously exploitative. After all, most cults do not start off as such.

Their respective paths to the dark side though, Montell tell us, often begin with increased levels of esoteric terminology and choice epithets for outsiders. “Language,” she explains, “can do so much to squash independent thinking, obscure truths, encourage confirmation bias, and emotionally charge experiences such that no other way of life seems possible.”

76
Q

Jim Jones Cultish

A

“Jim Jones,” writes Montell, “was a linguistic chameleon.” His message and style of address drew on the Black Power movement (he called the massacre in Guyana an act of “revolutionary suicide”). He labeled his white followers “bourgeois bitches” and used the term “churchianity” to dismiss hypocritical white Christians. With this kind of language, writes Montell, “[Jones] created the illusion that the Black majority had more privilege than they did.”

By the 1970s, his congregation had attracted a large proportion of Black women who felt sidelined by second-wave white feminists. Montell takes care to note that Black women were not somehow more susceptible to brainwashing, but as people facing racist economic barriers, they had genuine reasons to be compelled by Jones’s unique message of socialist communalism. So did many others: Jones’s vision appealed to women of all races.

Montell located a People’s Temple member named Laura Johnston Kohl, a white woman who survived Jonestown only to join Synanon, so strong was her belief in basic tenets of collectivism that she could find nowhere else in American society. “In the seventies we had a saying,” Kohl tells Montell. “One person can only whisper. You need to be in a group to stay strong.”

77
Q

Cultish - MLM’s

A

Some cults, on the other hand, try to convince followers that they can beat capitalism at its own game, as long as they possess a billionaire mentality and sell enough essential oils and diet supplements to their Facebook friends.

Montell spends a sizable portion of Cultish discussing the history of multilevel marketing schemes, from early successes like Tupperware to billion-dollar companies like Amway (the source of the DeVos family’s fortunes), to more recent entries on the scene, such as doTerra and Arbonne. These companies, Montell writes, “target non-working wives and moms, and they have since the dawn of the modern direct sales industry in the 1940s.”

78
Q

MLM’s - Cultish

A

After World War II, millions of white American women who had joined the labor force to fill in for men were suddenly ousted from their jobs. Earl Tupper and his most successful recruit, a single mom from Detroit named Brownie Wise, found a way to take advantage of this surplus of women looking for ways to make money doing something that felt professional but not in a way that encroached on their husband’s territory.

Selling Tupperware mostly to friends and family was not a job as much as it was an exciting opportunity, “the sort that wouldn’t threaten their traditionally feminine, wifely image.”

Yet despite the promises of financial independence, most MLMs require sellers to buy a large amount of inventory up front, sometimes costing hundreds or even thousands of dollars, and according to multiple studies, 99 percent of recruits never make a profit. “Like most destructive ‘cults,’” observes Montell, “they’re in the business of selling the transcendent promise of something that doesn’t actually exist.”

Their real product, Montell insists, “isn’t merchandise, it’s rhetoric.” Today’s MLMs use the language of empowerment to entice women to join. Phrases like “Build a fempire” and “Be a mompreneur” and other “faux-spirational lingo of commodified fourth wave feminism,” Montell writes, abound in their promotional materials. Like cults, they utilize terminology that distinguishes and elevates their business model compared to traditional employers’. For instance, you will not have a boss but rather “an upline mentor,” and sellers are not employees but rather “entrepreneurs.”

People with salaried positions, benefits, and other basic labor protections, on the other hand, are said, with derision, to possess a “J.O.B.” (jackass of a boss). In this way, sellers aren’t buying oils or diet pills but life rafts. With enough esoteric Facebook posts about “opportunities” and creepy D.M.s to old high school classmates, they believe they can transcend the conditions of the working poor to become “boss babes.”

79
Q

Help pay bloggers bills.

A

When a blog is starting, there’s no steady flow of page views, this becomes their goal. Any profit they are going to make is going to come from these impressions. All bloggers want to do is to increase their audience and be able to reach larger publishers. Help them out in the early stages, they will be appreciative of any freebies and advice. Ryan explains that by being there in the early stages they will remember your generosity, and this may just work in your favour when they’ve taken off and have an influential voice.

80
Q

Tell bloggers exactly what they want to hear

A

Bloggers don’t really look at facts.
Indeed, sometimes they start with a story already in mind and are only looking to cherry-pick quotes to fit their narratives.

If you want to be cited and quoted, don’t tell them facts: tell them what they want to hear.

Another technique is to pass them something that looks and seems juicy, like a (fake) “leaked document”.

81
Q

It doesn’t have to be good, it just has to be shareable

A

The news you publish and the information you pass to bloggers must not be good or, God forbid, true. It must be “shareable”.

Gloom doesn’t get shared, but anger does. Positive and surprising emotions shares.
Reasonableness and neutral emotions don’t get scared.

If an article or quote doesn’t get shared, does it even exist?

82
Q

Tricking their readers is key

A

This technique is basically what’s today called “clickbait“.

Clickbait means using an attention-grabbing headline which might or might not be connected to the full article.
However, once the click has happened, the ad impression has been delivered and the blogger is happy.

As a media manipulator, you should approach bloggers the same way they approach their readers.
Give them a sense of mystery, raise a feather-ruffling question, and see them do the same as their readers.

A great article is no more valuable than a clickable poor one

83
Q

Sell so they can then sell

A

The rules have changed in online media.
Bloggers are not looking anymore for loyal readers: they are after the ad impression’s “smash and grab”.

Sensationalism and scoop are the new keywords and golden graals of modern digital publishing.
Sex, scandal, hatred, extremism, sensationalism… This is what sells, and this is what you must give them.

Bloggers steal your time to sell it to advertisers

84
Q

Killer headlines

A

Headlines are the equivalent of first impressions.
Actually, even more: with the news you don’t get a chance of changing anyone’s mind if they don’t click first.

Information that can’t be turned into a killer headline is not worth publishing, so you must help the blogger make a killer headline.

Persuasive readers are no better than accidental readers

85
Q

Page views are king

A

Bloggers and journalists are under pressure to produce as much content as possible.

They are low paid, and often their pay is tied to how much revenue and clicks they can generate.

It’s a hard and difficult pressure environment to work on, and that means they will really appreciate it if you can help them get some traffic. So when they write about you, share their news on your personal and company’s blog.

86
Q

Use sound-bites

A

Bloggers need a high churn of information. That means that deep and well-thought information does not work: you must share with them sound bites.

Bloggers take the audience at their worst and make them worse

87
Q

Fake it when necessary

A

HARO is a tool to connect journalists with expert resources.

In theory.

In practice, Ryan Holiday says, it’s a tool for self-promotion that looks like research.
It’s also the perfect tool to cherry-pick quotes from experts -or so-called experts- to fit the journalist’s narrative. The blogger receives a lot of quotes and opinions and he can just sift through them to pick the ones he likes the most to reverse-engineer the piece that he had already decided to write.

88
Q

Degradation Ceremonies

A

From a psychological and sociological point of view, Ryan Holiday raises a few important points on the darker drives of human nature that lead people to gang up, bully, harass, and abuse others.

He calls them “degradation ceremonies”, and people find a perverse sense of joy and accomplishment in tearing apart someone else.
By building a monster, it makes us feel better to be “normal” or “better than them”.

Snarky writers, says Ryan Holiday, are afraid of being criticized and laughed at, so they lash out first.
Attacking makes them feel stronger and in control.

And, of course, jealousy also plays a role. But hitting back at snarks is difficult because the moment you hit back you descend at their level, show they got to you and give them importance. So they are free to spread their gall and hatred.

89
Q

The Link Economy Degrades Information

A

Ryan Holiday quotes the creator of the expression “link economy” and he says that guy is an idiot.
The link economy is one of the main drives of rubbish journalism.

It creates a system of distributed responsibility similar to the subprime mortgage crisis, where everyone takes care of short-term gains while producing rubbish content.
“Don’t believe me? Here is a link, go check the resources”. But nobody checks them and the rubbish piles up.

The link economy is designed to confirm and support, not to question and correct
The link economy has changed the system from what’s happened to what someone has said.

Google’s Backlink System is Bogus
Here Holiday makes a great point I wholeheartedly agree with.

One of the biggest contributing factors for Google’s SERP position is backlinks. The idea is that if a page gets linked to a lot, then it’s high quality. But there is nobody to check and ensure quality, so you can get pages with nice pictrues to attract a lot of backlinks, which in turn help the whole website.

But, at the core, the backlink system is not based on quality but on what’s shareable.

90
Q

Corrections REINFORCE The Original Mistake

A

Ryan Holiday lists many instances in which unscrupulous bloggers published wrong information and later refused to withdraw the article.

Often the correction comes in a new post that only a fraction of the readers who read the initial wrong information read.
Or it becomes an update at the bottom of the article with the wrong headline staying exactly the same.

From a psychology point of view which is most interesting to this website, however, I learned of a study showing that corrections often reinforce the original mistaken article.
Those who saw the correction remembered and believed even more strongly in the initial mistaken claim.

This is because the correction re-introduces the initial claim into readers’ minds and forces them to re-run it, which reinforces the association.

We’re not only bad at remaining skeptical, but we are also bad at correcting plainly wrong information.

91
Q

Take Control of Your Wikipedia page…

A

… Or someone else might, and you never know what they are going to write. And just so you know, journalists all rely on Wikipedia.

92
Q

Learn “Media Speak” to Increase Your Critical Thinking

A

When you see “leaked” or “official document”, know that some random guy or a media manipulator emailed the blogger with a probably fake or made up document.

When you see “breaking” or “we’ll have more details as the story develops” know that what’s in the news has not been double checked and it’s the equivalent of made-up rumors.
When you read “sources tell us”, know that those sources are rarely vetted and they are desperate for attention.
When you read “exclusive” know that the source has cut a deal for favorable coverage. And that he probably gave that “exclusive” to other websites as well.

When you read “we reached to so and so”, know that they sent an email 2 minutes before publishing long after they had already prepared and finalized the article.

When you see “updated” know that there has likely been very little editing and someone just copy-pasted some new lines from some other random sources (see link economy)

93
Q

THE TACTICS

A

In this section of the book, Ryan outlines the tactics he has used for deceiving bloggers and publishers to get them to write what he wants and promote his brands. Warning: these techniques are not necessarily encouraged, but Ryan illustrates what he has found to be most successful when it comes to manipulating the media.

Help pay bloggers bills.
When a blog is starting, there’s no steady flow of page views, this becomes their goal. Any profit they are going to make is going to come from these impressions. All bloggers want to do is to increase their audience and be able to reach larger publishers. Help them out in the early stages, they will be appreciative of any freebies and advice. Ryan explains that by being there in the early stages they will remember your generosity, and this may just work in your favour when they’ve taken off and have an influential voice.

Tell bloggers exactly what they want to hear
Something bloggers are renowned for is their lack of attention to the facts. They often hear a snippet of information and the race is on to publish content. Bloggers are short on time and therefore source checking and fact verification often is ignored. Ryan explains that you can use this to your advantage, if you want them to publish something in your favour, simply tell them the information they want to hear. Ryan suggests acting like an expert or offering up a document that can be leaked will excite a blogger and they are likely to hit publish before they follow up on any credibility.

It doesn’t have to be good, it just has to be shareable
Ryan’s rule of thumb is that if something is not worthwhile of social sharing, there is little point in publishing. If people aren’t going to feel passionate about your content enough to share it on their Facebook page or talk about it on public media then there is little point. Ryan emphasises the importance of sharing content that can evoke strong emotions such as anger and passion, and more often than not being controversial is key.

”If it’s not going to get shared socially, it may as well not exist.”

94
Q

Getting Stories to Journalists

A

JOURNALISTS ARE POOR
To help you understand the motivations of many of these journalists, Holiday points out this: They might have gone to an expensive grad school, and now live in a big, expensive city, such as NYC, San Francisco, or Washington D.C. They’ve been close enough to taste a $200,000-a-year journalism job.

But now they’re churning out articles at a breakneck pace, without even getting health insurance. Meanwhile, the people they cover are rich and successful, and may include talentless reality TV stars. New York magazine called the result “the rage of the creative underclass.”

JOURNALISTS ARE BUSY
These bloggers have to write a face-melting amount of content. When journalist Bekah Grant left VentureBeat, she wrote a post saying she averaged five posts a day – more than 1,700 articles in twenty months.

Henry Blodget, founder of Business Insider, said his bloggers need to generate three times their salary, benefits, and overhead costs to be worth hiring. So, an employee making sixty-thousand dollars a year needs to produce 1.8 million page views a month, every month. (1.8 million page views is a lot. At my current traffic, it takes me about a decade to generate that much on my blog, and I make more than sixty-thousand dollars a year.)

JOURNALISTS ARE DESPERATE FOR A STORY
Most sites that journalists write for make their money from ads, and the way to make money from ads is to generate page views. As such, many journalists are paid by the page view. I’ve personally heard this from a friend who worked for a newspaper with a good reputation, covering news for a major city.

So, journalists are desperate for a story that will generate page views. So, if you give them a juicy story that will generate page views, they will generally publish it. They’re too busy to fact check it, and since they’re compensated by the page view, they aren’t motivated to care whether or not it’s true.

95
Q

Four types of Intelligence

A

IQ – How innately smart you are
AQ – How much you know
TQ – How fast you assimilate and leverage technology for low-value tasks.
EQ – How you relate, respond to, influence and persuade humans.

96
Q

5 Techniques Ultra High Performers Deploy

A

Prospect Fanatically. They have the luxury of spending their limited time on the most qualified deals with the highest win probabilities.

Qualify with discipline. They have the courage to walk away or detach emotionally from low-probability prospects, because they have a full pipeline and emotional discipline.

Map stakeholders. Buyers, Amplifiers, Seekers, Influencers and Coaches (BASIC). They understand the role of potential stakeholders in the buying process.

Align 3 processes of sales. They align Sales, Buying and Decision process.

Develop sales-specific EQ. They never forget they’re dealing with fallible, irrational and emotional human beings. They work hard to gain a deep understanding of the motivations, desires, needs, wants, fears, aspirations and problems of each stakeholder.

97
Q

How do you know someone is empathetic?

A

Situational attribution: A person is angry. You interpret this to mean he is having a bad day.
Dispositional attribution: A person is angry. You believe that he is a jerk.

People who interpret human heavier based on situational attribution tend to be more empathetic.

98
Q

6 Keys to Develop Self-Awareness

A

Psychometric assessments (such as DISC or Myer-Briggs)

Coaching or mentoring

Direct feedback

Writing down my goals

360-degree review

Self-reflection (sit in silence, think, listen to your inner voice, heed your intuition, take stock of where you’re and where you’re going, become aware of what’s holding you back)

99
Q

Regaining your composure and control of the conversation

A

Simply pause before you speak. When you feel emotions taking over, slow your breathing and count to five. This simple pause allows time for adrenaline to dissipate and your rational brain to catch up.

100
Q

2 Ledge

A

Same effect as pause, it gives your rational brain the magic quarter second to catch up. Instead of stumbling through a nonsensical answer, coming off as defensive and weak. Say:

That’s interesting – can you tell me why this is important to you?
How so?
Would you tell me more?
Just to be sure I understand your question, could you elaborate a little more?

101
Q

Qualifying Prospects using BANT

A

Budget – Does the prospect have the budget?
Authority – Does the prospect have an authority to make a decision?
Need – Does the prospect have a need for my product?
Timeline – Does the prospect have an urgent need?

102
Q

Qualifying prospects using PACT

A

Pain – Does the prospect have a level of pain to ease that pain?

Authority – Does the prospect have the authority to decide?

Consequence – Does the prospect know the consequence for not action on the pain?

Target profile – Does the prospect fit my IQP profile?

103
Q

Never ever leave a conversation without micro-commitments.

A

You should consistently ask for micro-commitments and the next steps. Always test the stakeholder engagement.

104
Q

3 words you should never use in sales

A

Just checking in. It adds no value fails to engage stakeholders. It’s a passive way to follow up.

105
Q

Ask yourself Questions to see through their eyes.

A

What are their motivations?
What’s the risk to them personally for choosing us?
What’s the risk of not choosing us?
Why would they advocate for us?
Why would they disrupt us?
What are their emotional hot buttons?
How can I speak so it makes them feel like one? their language?
What makes them feel important?
What do they fear?

106
Q

Instead of asking “Are you the decision maker?”

A

Ask:

Tell me about your buying policies?
Could you walk me through the buying process?
How does you company typically make decisions about bringing in new vendors like us?
How did you make the decision on this service the last time you signed a contract?

107
Q

Your Sales Call Agenda

A

1 Greet

Thank you for meeting with me. I know how valuable your time is and appreciate the opportunity you’ve given me to learn more about you. Just to confirm, I have us down for thirty minutes. Is that good for you?

(If he says quick…)

Five minutes is not nearly enough time for me to learn about you and your company. Pitching my product without understanding your issues would be a disservice to you and waste your time. You deserve better than that. Why don’t we reschedule for Wednesday afternoon at 2PM?

(notice the assumptive ask- always offer a time)

108
Q

2 Call Objective

A

What I’d like to accomplish today is to learn more about you and your organization, in particular, how you currently manage compliance reporting. While I don’t know whether it makes sense for our companies to work together, I thought that might be the best place to start. Then if we find common ground we can reschedule a meeting with your IT team to take a closer look at your current data management system.

109
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3 Check your Stakeholder’s Agenda

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Before we get started, is there anything else you want to be sure we cover

(mostly they’ll say “I’m good”)

110
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4 Frame the Conversation

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If it’s okay with you, why don’t we start off with a few questions that’ll help me learn about your unique situation? Then we can talk a little bit about our service. From there we can decide together if it makes sense to move to the next step.

111
Q

Step to the sales call

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2 Call Objective

Your Sales Call Agenda
#1 Greet
Thank you for meeting with me. I know how valuable your time is and appreciate the opportunity you’ve given me to learn more about you. Just to confirm, I have us down for thirty minutes. Is that good for you?

(If he says quick…)

Five minutes is not nearly enough time for me to learn about you and your company. Pitching my product without understanding your issues would be a disservice to you and waste your time. You deserve better than that. Why don’t we reschedule for Wednesday afternoon at 2PM?

(notice the assumptive ask- always offer a time)

What I’d like to accomplish today is to learn more about you and your organization, in particular, how you currently manage compliance reporting. While I don’t know whether it makes sense for our companies to work together, I thought that might be the best place to start. Then if we find common ground we can reschedule a meeting with your IT team to take a closer look at your current data management system.

Before we get started, is there anything else you want to be sure we cover

(mostly they’ll say “I’m good”)

If it’s okay with you, why don’t we start off with a few questions that’ll help me learn about your unique situation? Then we can talk a little bit about our service. From there we can decide together if it makes sense to move to the next step.

112
Q

4 Principles of Effective Sales Conversations

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People respond in kind.
People communicate in stories.
Questions control the conversation flow.
Listening builds deep emotional connections.

113
Q

Leading people into Self-disclosure loop

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Begin with easy open question
Reward him for talking through listening and interest
Avoid interrupting
Pause 3-5 seconds before speaking (allow him to fill in silence)
Once the loop is running, center your follow-up questions on his disclosures to unearth his real pain

114
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Breaking Ice Simply

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(He says 20)

Congratulations that’s quite an achievement. I bet you’ve seen a lot of changes around here.

(He says 6 months)

What made you decide to work here?

115
Q

We’ve been having a hard time with …

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on’t pounce and start pitching the solution.

Make note of this potential opportunity and based on your call objective, follow the path and ask deeper follow-up questions to get full story of the issue (for a future meeting).

116
Q

SPIN Selling – 4 Questions to Ask In Order

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Situation – gather and qualify facts
Problem – uncover prospect problems
Implication – uncover the pain the problem is causing
Need-payoff – uncover the benefit of solving the problem

117
Q

Ask yourself “So What?”

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Always tailor the benefits to stakeholder unique situations.

Our customer satisfaction rate is 96.7 percent. So, What?

Our implementation process is seamless and hassle-free. So, What?

Our product will save you up to 30 percent over what you’re spending now. So, What?

118
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Start with pain points to open the gate of Amygdala

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Amygdala holds key to the cognitive gate. If it refuses to open the gate, it doesn’t matter how well you crafted your message, you’re not getting in.

Activate your stakeholder’s brain and pull their attention towards you first by engaging amygdala. Amygdala is hardwired to person to threats and pains. So, begin with a problem of pain.

119
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Two words to position yourself as an expert – “I Recommend”

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Don’t dilute your authority with more passive phrases like my company offers or we provide.

120
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Turning Around Objections

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Relate (acknowledge and relate to objection)
Clarify (ask questions to isolate real objection)
Minimize (remind the stakeholder of their problems and yeses I’ve collected)
Ask (ask again and assume the yes)
Fall back (offer alternative commitment)

121
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(Relate)

A

Your prices are high compared to your competitors.

I get how you might feel that way. They sometimes do seem a little higher than our competitors, and no one wants to pay more than they should.

122
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(Clarify)

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I’m just curious. When you say our prices are too high, from your standpoint what does that mean?

It’s the monthly rate. You are 10 percent higher than what we’re paying now.

Okay got it. Other than that, is anything else bothering you about our proposal?

That’s it. I’m going to have a hard time justifying the increase in monthly relate to my boss. I also heard from our current vendor that we’re facing a significant cost to make a change. Your cost is already too much and I’m not sure I can justify to my boss a change is worth it.

123
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(Minimize)

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When I do that math, you’re losing $63,600 a year by stick with your current vendor. Of course, you’re right working with us does mean you need to build a little bit more into your monthly budget. However,

124
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(Ask)

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Based on these numbers, it doesn’t make sense to wait, so why don’t we go ahead and get this started

I agree. What are our next steps?

125
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(Fall Back)

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It sounds good, I think we’re almost there. But I need to go over the math one more time before we make this big of a commitment. Give me a week or so and I’ll get back to you.

I’m going to be back ore this way next Thursday. Why don’t we get together at 11AM and make a thumbs-up or thumbs-down decision then?

Sounds good.

126
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Here Are Some Ways To Increase Your Likability:

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“Smile” – This makes a positive first impression.
“Voice tone” – Maintain a “neutral, friendly” and “upbeat” tone. Regional dialects don’t help salespeople. If you have one, work to eliminate it. Unless you are talking to those from similar backgrounds.
“Be polite” – Rudeness drives away clients. You know good manners; use them.
“Dress” – Never let your appearance sabotage your sales success. Always dress to impress.
“Grooming” – Look sharp. Cut your hair neatly and manicure your nails.
“Attention focus” – Strive to remain fully engaged and present. Keep your mind on the buyer in front of you. He or she wants and deserves your undivided attention. (Read – OUR CURIOUS WANDERING MIND AND WHAT CAN WE DO ABOUT IT)
“Style” – People like people who are similar to them. Match your style to your buyers. So, research them first.
“Language” – Speak the way your buyers speak; match their “words, jargon, and approach.”
“Enthusiasm” – Everyone likes high-energy people, so show your passion.
“Confidence” – Self-assurance is contagious. Be confident, but never arrogant.

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Types of employees

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“Buyers” – An organization’s purchasing decision makers can approve a purchase but may lack authority to dispense funds.
“Amplifiers” – Some people within your buyer’s firm are good at identifying internal problems that your product or service could solve. They broadcast information about the problem to others in the firm in the hopes of buying a product or making a change that will fix the issue. Amplifiers have varying degrees of influence on the purchase decision.
“Seekers” – Some employees inside your customer’s organization conduct research to learn about available resources and vendor options to fix the problem amplifiers target. Seekers have minimal influence on purchase decisions.
“Influencers” – Some managers and executives have major clout as to whether the company will buy what you’re selling. Seek advocates among them, get the fence-sitters on your side and nullify the naysayers.
“Coaches” – Specialized employees can support your sales effort and give you valuable internal information to help you close the deal.