Grief Counseling Exam 1 Flashcards
the scientific study of human behavior
Psychology
the study of human behavior as related to funeral service
Funeral Service Psychology
the EXPERIENCE of the emotion of grief…a STATE of deprivation of something valuable
Bereavement
an adjustment PROCESS which involves grief and/or sorrow over a period of time and helps in the REORGANIZATION of the life of an individual following a loss or death of someone loved
Mourning
an EMOTION or set of emotions due to a loss
Grief
the study of death
Thanatology
an irrational, exaggerated fear of death
Thanatophobia
counseling defined by Webster
The dictionary begins with the letter A
advice, especially that given as a result of consultation
counseling defined by Edgar Jackson
the math teacher
anytime someone helps someone else with a problem
counseling defined by Carl Rogers
good communication within and between men; or good [free] communication within or between men is always therapeutic (preferred style among FD)
preferred style of counseling is defined by whom?
Carl Rogers
an individual who provides assistance and guidance
counselor
a treatment of mental or emotional disorder
psychotherapy
NEEDS OF THE BEREAVED…
- To confirm reality
- To establish stability and security
- To receive emotional support
- To express emotions
- To modify emotional ties to the deceased
- To provide a basis for building new inter-personal relationships
PURPOSES AND VALUES OF THE FUNERAL RITE
- The opportunity to receive and express love
- To show respect for the family, friends and the deceased
- To provide an opportunity to express grief
- Provides for a face to face confrontation with death…confirm the reality that death has occurred
- To gain emotional support through sharing…“Joy expressed is joy increased, grief shared is grief diminished.”
- Theological, psychological and social needs of those who mourn are nourished
- Provides an opportunity for farewell through ritual
- Provides a dramatic presentation of the fact that a life has been lived by reflecting upon memories of the deceased
- Helps establish emotional stability through a social support network
- Establishes a socially accepted climate for mourning and expression of feelings
Theories of Grief—Lindemann p10, “Normal Grief” Coconut Grove fire, 1942, over 500 dead “The Symptomatology and Management of Acute Grief” – 1944, he introduced the Grief Syndrome Survivor guilt
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- Somatic or bodily distress of some type
- Preoccupation with the image of the deceased
- Guilt relating to the deceased or circumstances of the death
- Hostile reactions (anger)
- Inability to function as before the loss (sense of absolute helplessness)
ERIC LINDEMANN – GRIEF SYNDROME
- Studied the question, “Why do people grieve?”
- Attachments come from a need for security and safety (not for biological need)
- Situations that endanger the bond of attachment give rise to emotional reactions
- The greater the potential for loss, the more intense the reaction
JOHN BOWLBY…ATTACHMENT THEORY…POST LOSS GRIEF
who adapted the five stages of death and dying?
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
What are the five stages of death and dying?
Denial and isolation anger bargaining depression acceptance (DABDA)
what is probably the most useful stage of death and dying?
depression
WILLIAM WORDEN- FOUR TASKS OF MOURNING
- To accept the reality of the loss
- To work through the pain of grief
- To adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing
- To emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life