Chapter 14 Flashcards
We ___ to be part of a stable, healthy bonds with family members, romantic partners, and friends in order to function normally.
need
Psychological need
A mechanism for regulating behavior to acquire the tangible pr intangible resources necessarily for survival and well-being.
Need to belong is satiable: What kind of friendships does one need?
Just a few that are lasting and caring, and whey they have them they are less motivated to form additional relationships.
How many close relationships does one have?
Face-to-face interactions might take place with only about six people.
The need to belong is satisfied in what way? Expound
Flexible ways.
When people are unable to satisfy their need to belong in existing relationships they turn to other relationships.
Expound on When the Need to Belong Is Satisfied, People Thrive
Feeling connected to others promotes an individuals mental and physical health. Have higher self-esteem, feel happier, more satisfied with life, better mental health, increased physical health.
Need to belong is unmet brings what?
Decrease in physical and mental health
Loneliness
Feeling that one is deprived of human social interaction
People claim to feel more fulfilled in an ____ relationship than they do when in no relationship at all
unhappy
Loneliness can lead to what?
Alcohol, drugs, depression, eating disorders, schizophrenia, weaker immune system, smoking, obesity.
4 pieces of evidence that the need to have intimate bonds with others has an evolutionary basis.
- The motive to belong is universal
- Innate affiliation behaviors
- Rejection hurts- literally
- Reproduction success
Rejection sensitivity
A dispositional tendency to have an especially strong fear of being rejected or evaluated negatively by others.
Propinquity effect
Increase likelihood of forming relationships with people who are physically close
Caveat to Propinquity effect
Can form close relationships over internet but face-to-face it more important for mental health and life satisfaction
Reward model of liking
Proposing that people like other people whom they associate with positive stimuli and dislike people whom they associate with negative stimuli.
Attributes of others that increase our attraction to them
Transference
Culturally Valued Attributes
Personality Traits
Transference
A tendency to map on, or transfer, feelings for a person who is known onto someone new who resembles that person in some way.
Culturally valued attributes
Drawn to characteristics in others that our culture deems valuable
Personality traits that are preferred
Friendliness, Honesty, warmth, kindness, intelligence, sense of humor, emotional stability, reliability, ambition, openness, extraversion
Which ones are most important will depend on the type of relationship.
This might be because our culture tells us these are most important