Chapter 14 Flashcards

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what does the bio. approach say hate is due to?

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our natural tendency to be aggressive as it’s a survival bhvr to defend territory/mate/offspring

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the genetic-environment interaction of aggression

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parents who display aggression can influence their kids’ aggression

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fathers w/ control disorders tend to have kids with

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similar disorders

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death instinct and whose idea is it

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our tendency to revert back to nothingness
Freud

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reaction formation

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having such strong fears that we flip it to hate/aggression

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dsiplacement

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when things are going wrong we choose to blame it on a scapegoat rather than ourselves or someone close to us

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3 defense mechanisms that come off as hateful

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reaction formation
projection
displacement

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Jung’s shadow

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our dark side/alter ego

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9
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what happens if we don’t restrain our shadow (Jung)

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we are violent

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10
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which type of person according to Jung can lead to hatred if their characteristics are extreme

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thinking extraverts

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11
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who said the inferiority complex can lead to developing a _______ ________ as a way of overcompensating

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Adler; superiority complex

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12
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ruling type

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someone focused on their own gain regardless of the effect it has on others

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13
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Horney said kids with which type of childhood can lead to more basic anxiety and possibly them acting more aggressively later in life as a way of taking back control

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abusive childhoods

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14
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who said failing to develop trust/independence/initiative can lead to developing hostility

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Erikson

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15
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who said our culture pushes us toward independence

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Erich Fromm

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who said that people who lose a sense of connection seek out authoritarian leaders and why

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Fromm; ppl do this bc these leaders will provide them with a sense of structure

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17
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who said a lack of positive regard from others leads to anxiety

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Rogers

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18
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who said conditions of worth from others can cause us to stray from our ideal path

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Rogers

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19
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who said self doubt is at the root of hatred

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Maslow

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20
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who believed hatred could become a cardinal trait

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Allport

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21
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who said a personality trait of being emotionally unstable, aloof, critical, dominant, etc exists and could lead to aggression

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Cattell

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22
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who said psychoticism is often associated with hatred

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Eysenck

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23
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what 3 big 5 traits are associated w/ hatred

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low agreeableness
low conscientiousness
high neuroticism

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24
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who said the more empathy someone has the less aggressive they are

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Feshbach

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cognitive simplicity
seeing things in the world as only either good or bad
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who said aggression stems from cognitive simplicity
Kelly
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why does cognitive complexity make it harder for us to aggress
events are no longer black and white
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what would someone using the learning approach ask about aggressive bhvr?
are there stimuli promoting aggression? what are the reinforcers fueling it?
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what does the bio approach say about procreation
it has survival value
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attachment releases...
oxytocin
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attraction releases...
dopamine and NE
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sexual pleasure/love releases...
endorphins
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who said love follows sexual attraction and attraction to our opposite sex parent gets transferred onto a partner who's similar to the parent
Freud
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who said we need a strong sense of identity to not be at risk of taking on our partner's identity
Erikson
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which type of ppl never feel like they're close enough to their partner, relationships based on fear of abandonment, jealousy
anxious/ambivalent attachment
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which type of ppl see love as not satisfying, never lasting, jealousy, skeptical, fear intimacy
avoidant attachment
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who is better at casual relationships
avoidant attachment
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what does the cognitive approach say about us expecting our partners to meet all of our needs
we never do this to our friends so why should we do it to our partners?
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the learning approach says love is a _____ _______
basic emotion
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who says we have to accept ourselves before we can love someone else
Rogers
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deficiency love
comes from need for belonging, selfish need
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being love
general love for others, naturally extends to others, selfless need
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who says Love results from our connection to other people
Fromm
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Fromm's dif kinds of love
motherly brotherly erotic neurotic pseudo immature mature
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brotherly love
general love for everyone
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motherly love
unconditional
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erotic love
focused on one person, focus is on sexual needs or to cope w anxiety
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neurotic love
person is very dependent, wants to be looked after
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pseudo love
Person "in love" abandons all self care and only focuses on taking care of other person/making other happy, tosses loving themselves to the side
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immature love
getting more than you give
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mature love
not abandoning your needs/self-love
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who said good sex follows love
Fromm
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who said love requires effort
Rollo May
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philial
Rollo May's brotherly love
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agape
devotion to welfare of others (Rollo May)
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who saw the world as moving towards less connection to others
Rollo May
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Lee's types of love
eros ludus storge mania agape pragma
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eros
erotic love
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ludus
game love, ppl have no expectations for anything long lasting
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storge
steady friendship love
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mania
fear based love based on jealousy
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pragma
logical/practical love
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Sternberg's 3 components to love
passion intimacy commitment
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7 types of love
1. Liking - intimacy 2. Infatuation - passion 3. Empty love - commitment 4. Romantic love - intimacy and passion 5. Fatuous love - passion and commitment - Rarely lasts 6. Compassionate love - intimacy and commitment 7. Consummate love - passion, intimacy and commitment
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conscientiousness is associated with ________ for males and females
intimacy
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women are ______ likely to fall in love quickly
less