Chapter 14 Flashcards

1
Q

what does the bio. approach say hate is due to?

A

our natural tendency to be aggressive as it’s a survival bhvr to defend territory/mate/offspring

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2
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the genetic-environment interaction of aggression

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parents who display aggression can influence their kids’ aggression

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3
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fathers w/ control disorders tend to have kids with

A

similar disorders

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4
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death instinct and whose idea is it

A

our tendency to revert back to nothingness
Freud

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5
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reaction formation

A

having such strong fears that we flip it to hate/aggression

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6
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dsiplacement

A

when things are going wrong we choose to blame it on a scapegoat rather than ourselves or someone close to us

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7
Q

3 defense mechanisms that come off as hateful

A

reaction formation
projection
displacement

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8
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Jung’s shadow

A

our dark side/alter ego

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9
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what happens if we don’t restrain our shadow (Jung)

A

we are violent

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10
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which type of person according to Jung can lead to hatred if their characteristics are extreme

A

thinking extraverts

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11
Q

who said the inferiority complex can lead to developing a _______ ________ as a way of overcompensating

A

Adler; superiority complex

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12
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ruling type

A

someone focused on their own gain regardless of the effect it has on others

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13
Q

Horney said kids with which type of childhood can lead to more basic anxiety and possibly them acting more aggressively later in life as a way of taking back control

A

abusive childhoods

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14
Q

who said failing to develop trust/independence/initiative can lead to developing hostility

A

Erikson

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15
Q

who said our culture pushes us toward independence

A

Erich Fromm

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16
Q

who said that people who lose a sense of connection seek out authoritarian leaders and why

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Fromm; ppl do this bc these leaders will provide them with a sense of structure

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17
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who said a lack of positive regard from others leads to anxiety

A

Rogers

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18
Q

who said conditions of worth from others can cause us to stray from our ideal path

A

Rogers

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19
Q

who said self doubt is at the root of hatred

A

Maslow

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20
Q

who believed hatred could become a cardinal trait

A

Allport

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21
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who said a personality trait of being emotionally unstable, aloof, critical, dominant, etc exists and could lead to aggression

A

Cattell

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22
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who said psychoticism is often associated with hatred

A

Eysenck

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23
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what 3 big 5 traits are associated w/ hatred

A

low agreeableness
low conscientiousness
high neuroticism

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24
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who said the more empathy someone has the less aggressive they are

A

Feshbach

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25
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cognitive simplicity

A

seeing things in the world as only either good or bad

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26
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who said aggression stems from cognitive simplicity

A

Kelly

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27
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why does cognitive complexity make it harder for us to aggress

A

events are no longer black and white

28
Q

what would someone using the learning approach ask about aggressive bhvr?

A

are there stimuli promoting aggression? what are the reinforcers fueling it?

29
Q

what does the bio approach say about procreation

A

it has survival value

30
Q

attachment releases…

A

oxytocin

31
Q

attraction releases…

A

dopamine and NE

32
Q

sexual pleasure/love releases…

A

endorphins

33
Q

who said love follows sexual attraction and attraction to our opposite sex parent gets transferred onto a partner who’s similar to the parent

A

Freud

34
Q

who said we need a strong sense of identity to not be at risk of taking on our partner’s identity

A

Erikson

35
Q

which type of ppl never feel like they’re close enough to their partner, relationships based on fear of abandonment, jealousy

A

anxious/ambivalent attachment

36
Q

which type of ppl see love as not satisfying, never lasting, jealousy, skeptical, fear intimacy

A

avoidant attachment

37
Q

who is better at casual relationships

A

avoidant attachment

38
Q

what does the cognitive approach say about us expecting our partners to meet all of our needs

A

we never do this to our friends so why should we do it to our partners?

39
Q

the learning approach says love is a _____ _______

A

basic emotion

40
Q

who says we have to accept ourselves before we can love someone else

A

Rogers

41
Q

deficiency love

A

comes from need for belonging, selfish need

42
Q

being love

A

general love for others, naturally extends to others, selfless need

43
Q

who says Love results from our connection to other people

A

Fromm

44
Q

Fromm’s dif kinds of love

A

motherly
brotherly
erotic
neurotic
pseudo
immature
mature

45
Q

brotherly love

A

general love for everyone

46
Q

motherly love

A

unconditional

47
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erotic love

A

focused on one person, focus is on sexual needs or to cope w anxiety

48
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neurotic love

A

person is very dependent, wants to be looked after

49
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pseudo love

A

Person “in love” abandons all self care and only focuses on taking care of other person/making other happy, tosses loving themselves to the side

50
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immature love

A

getting more than you give

51
Q

mature love

A

not abandoning your needs/self-love

52
Q

who said good sex follows love

A

Fromm

53
Q

who said love requires effort

A

Rollo May

54
Q

philial

A

Rollo May’s brotherly love

55
Q

agape

A

devotion to welfare of others (Rollo May)

56
Q

who saw the world as moving towards less connection to others

A

Rollo May

57
Q

Lee’s types of love

A

eros
ludus
storge
mania
agape
pragma

58
Q

eros

A

erotic love

59
Q

ludus

A

game love, ppl have no expectations for anything long lasting

60
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storge

A

steady friendship love

61
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mania

A

fear based love based on jealousy

62
Q

pragma

A

logical/practical love

63
Q

Sternberg’s 3 components to love

A

passion
intimacy
commitment

64
Q

7 types of love

A
  1. Liking - intimacy
    1. Infatuation - passion
    2. Empty love - commitment
    3. Romantic love - intimacy and passion
    4. Fatuous love - passion and commitment
      • Rarely lasts
    5. Compassionate love - intimacy and commitment
  2. Consummate love - passion, intimacy and commitment
65
Q

conscientiousness is associated with ________ for males and females

A

intimacy

66
Q

women are ______ likely to fall in love quickly

A

less