Chapter 10 Flashcards
—to connect with others in enduring, close relationships.:T
need to belong
Satisfy the need to belong in balance with two other human needs—to feel … and …
autonomy and competence
Exclusion hurts longest for …
anx- ious people and younger people
ostracisms opposite
love
the pain of social rejection is so real that …
a pain-relieving Tylenol can reduce hurt feelings
Ostracism is a real pain. And love is a natural painkiller.
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social ostracism evokes a brain response similar to that triggered by physical pain, activating the … and the right …
anterior cingulate (A) ventral prefrontal cortex (B).
My colleagues in sociology have pointed out that minority groups who feel excluded show many of the same patterns that our laboratory manipulations elicit: high rates of … decreased …., poorer …, more self- destructive acts, short-term focus, and the like.
aggression and antisocial behaviour,
willing- ness to cooperate and obey rules
intellectual performance
those that help initiate attrac- tion: …4
proximity, physical attractiveness, similarity, and feeling liked.
Even more significant than geographical distance is “….”—how often people’s paths cross.
functional distance
Why does proximity breed liking? One factor is …
availabil- ity
Anticipation of interaction
MERE EXPOSURE
T: t to all sorts of novel stimuli—nonsense syllables, Chinese cal- ligraphy characters, musical selections, faces—boosts people’s ratings of them.
mere exposure effect
when does repertion breed bordom
when it continuing without pause or interruption.
You can probably recall immediately liking or disliking something or someone without consciously know- ing why. why
emotions are often more instantaneous than thinking. Zajonc’s rather astonishing idea—that emotions are semi-independent of thinking
It is a “hard-wired” phenomenon that predisposes our attractions and attachments and that helped our ancestors categorize things and people as either familiar and safe or unfamiliar and possibly dangerous.
whats mere exposures negative side
fear of the. unknown = racism
how does physical attractivness influence woman and men differently
attractive wives led to happier husbands, but attractive husbands had less effect on wives’ happiness
woman better recall others appearences
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Do women respond to men’s looks?
yes just as important for m and woman
heterosexual people display a positive bias toward attractive job candidates and university applicants of both sexes
f — if they are of the other sex
When choosing whom to approach, knowing that the other is free to say yes or no, people usually approach someone whose attractiveness roughly matches their own :T
matching phenomenon
Perhaps this research prompts you to think of happy couples who differ in perceived “hotness.” whats going on here
In such cases, the less attractive person often has com- pensating qualities.
Men who advertise their …, and women who advertise their …, receive more responses to their ads (
.income and education
youth and looks
Does the attractiveness effect spring entirely from sexual attractiveness?
no
how do adults respond to attractive children differently
they assume they have more redeeming qualities
T: What is beautiful is good. Children learn the stereotype quite early—and one of the ways they learn it is through stories told to them by adults.
physical-attractiveness stereotype
o say that attractiveness is important, other things being equal, is not to say that …
physical appearance always outranks other qualities
physical appearence has most of its effect on …
first impressions
They found that for each additional scale unit of rated attractiveness, people earned, on average, an additional $1988 annually is this more for men or woman
men
Is the “beautiful is good” stereotype accurate?
physically attractive people do not differ from others in basic personal- ity traits,
what’s crucial to your social skill is not how you look but ..
how people treat you and how you feel about yourself—whether you accept yourself, like yourself, feel comfort- able with yourself.
why are attractive people morel liked
small average differences between attractive and unattractive people probably result from self-fulfilling prophecies. Attractive people are valued and favoured and so may develop more social self-confidence.
what is attractive
Strictly speaking, attractiveness is whatever the people of any given place and time find attractive. This, of course, varies. The beauty standards by which Miss Universe is judged hardly apply to the whole planet.
strong agreement both within and across cultures about who is and who is not attractive,
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universally what is attractive
perfectly average = easier for brain to categorize
They assume that beauty signals bio- logically important information: …
health, youth, and fertility.
Men with attractive faces have higher-quality sperm.
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men require a modicum of … woman require…, and both welcome …
physical attractiveness, women require status and resources
kindness and intelligence.
During …, women show heightened preference for men with masculinized faces, voices, and bodies
ovulation
Although our mating psychology has wisdom, attraction is not all hard-wired. What’s attractive to you also depends on your ….
comparison standards.