The self I: Making life easier, better and more positive Flashcards
the desire to see the self in positive terms
A bias like any other?
Probably a bit more to it…not just about limits to processing system compromising accuracy but also…
Subjective biases arising from our own desires and needs - high self-esteem, control and affiliation
terms used
Positivity bias
Ego-protection
Self-esteem enhancement
Positive illusions – often talk about the future
“we are motivated to enhance the positivity of our self-conceptions and to protect the self from negative information.” (Moskowitz, 2005)
positive illusions
It’s healthy to see the self in positive terms (until it becomes delusional!)
3 categories of positive illusions
Unrealistically positive views of self
Unrealistic optimism
Exaggerated perceptions of personal control
unrealistic positive views of self
Self-serving bias – attribution bias
Provide dispositional, personal based explanations when we do well and situational reasons when we fail
A robust, cross cultural finding
Increases over time
Take credit for success – self-enhancing bias rather than self-protecting bias – deny responsibility for what went wrong
relating unrealistic views of self to attribution - pos illusions happen because
We attribute our own negative outcomes to the situation but…
Positive outcomes are viewed as arising from dispositional and stable causes
Enduring across contexts – internal, stable factors
Need to protect ourself – motivational explanation
How we process info about ourself – cognitive explanation
Expect to succeed – when succeed opinions and real life coincide – weighted strongly in memory – leads to a bias – adaptive bias – more positive self-concept – more inclined to stick at tasks as expecting to do well – more likely to get back to work after redundancy, more popular
empirical evidence - Stevens and Jones (1976)
False feedback on how they had done – IV – was consensus high or low? – self-esteem threatened
How attribution was measured - 100 points shared between ability, effort, task difficulty and luck; scales rating each of these factors – explain behaviour
Results - Success = personal ability; failure = bad luck; most extreme when blow to self-esteem and consensus was to do well (18% personal ability, 40% luck)
Defensive attribution pattern - why?
motivated scepticism
Tendency to be sceptical – more critically hostile towards info that we don’t want to believe about ourselves.
Don’t process info too deeply that we already know
how are we sheltered from self-esteem damaging feedback?
Feedback is typically positive, or if negative, sugar coated
We choose friends with similar views
We tend to see ambiguous feedback in most positive light for us (ignore it if unambiguous and negative)
We opt to denigrate (discredit) source of negative feedback
cognitive dissonance reduction
Very applicable to dealing with bad things about the self!
Illustration - smoke, but know it’s not a wise thing to do - how to reconcile this?
How important are dissonant elements to self-concept?
Would you predict more dissonance in people who are high or low in self-esteem? Why? – hard to reconcile due to big divide to cross
ways of reducing dissonance that involve the self
Eliminate negative behaviour that is source of discrepant cognitions - not always easy (give up smoking)
Justify/rationalise discrepant act to accommodate undesirable behaviour
How do we do this?
the Bluffer’s guide to rationalisation
Seek cognitions consistent with discrepancy – find beliefs that what we’re doing isn’t that bad
Change your attitude so cognition and behaviour not discrepant
Affirm sense of self as positive in other related domains - e.g. good person in other ways
Trivialization – ‘life is too short’
defensive pessimism and self-handicapping
“I am doomed to fail”
Often not the case, so why say this? – ward off possibility of failure – sets them up to over prepare
Can such fears work to protect self-esteem?
Self-handicapping - may do something to increase chance of failure just to have a good excuse for failure when it happens (get drunk night before an exam) – preserves self in tact
defensive pessimism
a chronic tendency to prepare for/expect the worst
unrealistic optimism
We don’t like to think negative events will happen to us
Seems like a good self-preservation plan!
Difference between being optimistic and being unrealistically optimistic in predicting the future
Some examples…motivated inference