Relationships and Personality Flashcards
what are the two theories of attraction?
attraction similarity theory
complementary needs theory
what is attraction similarity theory
we use assortative mating
what is assortative mating
we’re attracted to people similar to us
what is complementary needs theory
we’re attracted to people whose personality complements ours
opposites attract
what does data show about the attraction theories
people’s preferred partner had opposite personalities to them
people’s actual partner showed similar personalities
no support for complementary needs theory
what factor predicts relationship satisfaction in terms of your partners similarity? which doesn’t?
if partner is similar to your ‘ideal’ personality
if you and partner have similar personality
what do females identify as important traits in a partner in order
mutual love
dependable
emotional stability
pleasing disposition
education/intelligence
sociability
good health
what do males identify as important traits in a partner in order
mutual love
dependable
emotional stability
pleasing disposition
good health
education
sociability
what do females identify as less important traits in a partner in order
similar religious backgrounds
similar political background
chastity
what do males identify as less important traits in a partner in order
chastity
similar religious background
similar political background
what traits actually predict partner satisfaction overall?
male; agreeableness, emotional stability, openness
female; agreeableness, conscientiousness, emotional stability, openness
what traits actually predict partner satisfaction in confiding?
male; agreeableness
female; agreeableness, emotional stability, openness
what traits actually predict partner satisfaction sexually?
male; agreeableness, conscientiousness, emotional stability
female; agreeableness
what traits actually predict partner satisfaction in enjoyment?
same in both
male; agreeableness, emotional stability
female; agreeableness, emotional stability
what can be biasing self-reported personality
reference group effect
what is reference group effect
tendency to rate oneself relative to the people their close to socially
how can the reference group effect be influencing assortative mating studies
people rate themselves as different from their partner, when in reality the have relatively similar personality
what correlation coefficient do partners get in personality similarity in earlier studies?
.10
how did new research in assortative mating bypass the reference group effect
measured personality behaviour instead of self report
studied language and likes on facebook to predict their big 5 traits
what were the results of the facebook study of assortative mating?
likes correlation; .24
language correlation; 0.38
what traits predict future relationship quality/conflict?
PEM
NEM
CON
what is PEM
positive emotionality
what is positive emotionality
confidence, enthusiasm, social warmth, well-being, zest
what is NEM
negative emotionality