Module 7: Connecting and Communicating in the Modern World Flashcards
how much more likely are people with positive relationships to survive over time
50%
define intimate connectedness
relationship that makes you feel who you are is affirmed
define intimate relationships
- relationships with family members, friends, and romantic partners
- characterized by behavioral interdependence, need fulfillment, emotional attachment, and emotional availability
define behavioral interdependence
- mutual impact that people have on each other as their lives intertwine
- what one person does influences what the others person wants to do
what needs do we fulfill through intimate relationships
- intimacy: sharing feelings
- social integration: sharing worries
- nurturance: taking care of
- assistance: help in time of need
- affirmation: reassurance of worth
define emotional attachment
- feelings of love
- not only sexual relationships
define emotional availability
ability to give and receive emotions from others without fear of being hurt or rejected
when and why is holding back on emotional availability healthy
- after a painful breakup
- offers time for introspection, healing, and considering lessons learned
define accountability
- recognizing responsibility for your own choices and actions
define self-nurturance
- developing individual potential through a balances and realistic appreciation of self-worth and ability
- being patient with yourself
define self-concept
- the way you define yourself
- how you view your physical features, emotional states, talents, likes an dislikes, values, and roles
- may define self as activist, mother, honor student, athlete, musician, etc
define self-esteem
- the way you evaluate or feel about yourself
what is the central focus of a family
- protect, care for, love, and socialize with one another
- nurturance and support
define family of origin
- people present in our household during our first years of life
- initially leant about feelings, problems solving, love, intimacy, and gender roles
what characteristics are components of romantic relationships
- fascination: preoccupied with other person
- exclusivity: relationship takes priority
- sexual desire: physical intimacy
- giving the utmost: sacrifice for other
- being a champion or advocate: ensuring that other succeeds
what are the components of the triangular theory of love
- intimacy: emotional components
- passion: motivational component
- commitment: cognitive component
define the term consummate love
a relationship that combines intimacy, passion, and commitment
what are the components of Helen Fisher’s predictable theory of love based on brain circuitry and chemistry
- imprinting: evolutionary patterns, genetic predispositions, and past experiences trigger romantic attraction
- attraction: neurochemicals produce feelings of euphoria
- attachment: endorphins cause lovers to feel peaceful
- production of a cuddle chemical: oxytocin
according to Helen Fisher, why do some people constantly seek out new love
- endocrine system secretes hormones (dopamine, norepinephrine, and phenylethylamine) which are similar to amphetamines
- attraction causes natural high but body builds tolerance over time
what type of romantic relationship is intimacy only
liking
what type of romantic relationship is commitment and intimacy
companionate love
what type of romantic relationship is commitment only
empty love
what type of romantic relationship is passion and commitment
fatuous love
what type of romantic relationship is passion only
infatuation
what type of romantic relationship is intimacy and passion
romantic love
define attraction theory
- more than just chemical and psychological processes influence who a person falls in love with
- includes proximity, similarities, reciprocity, and physical attraction
what are the four ways that social support is delivered and describe each
- emotional: caring, love, trust, empathy
- instrumental: help and service
- informational: advice, suggestions, and information
- appraisal: information that is useful for self-evaluation
what matters when it comes to health: quality or quantity of relationships
quality
what is the average number of confidants reported by americans
a little over two per person
what percent of americans report have no one they can turn to for discussing important matters
9%