LO 2.2.2: Distinguish various types of interpersonal communication - LO 2.2.3: Recognize active listening and response skills Flashcards
LO 2.2.2: Distinguish various types of interpersonal communication including linguistic signs and non-verbal communications - LO 2.2.3: Recognize active listening and response skills during in-person communications with clients.
Interpersonal communication
process of gathering client data
- Communicating one on one (individuals and couples)
- Understanding and application of verbal and non-verbal skills when interacting with clients
- Good data gathering = interviewing nature with give and take conversation
Open-ended questions
require clients to answer in their own words
- facilitates communication/data gathering as goals are developed
- allow for elaboration, for the client to engage in the conversation
- do not ask all open-ended or you’ll never get through it all
Closed-ended questions
use as few as possible in data-gathering
- limits data gathering because they only require yes/no/solitary answers
- do not ask all closed-ended questions or else it’ll come off as interrogation rather than conversation
What does mastering interpersonal communication skills involve
mastering interpersonal communication involves understanding differences when communicating across
* generations (more reverent with seniors), * cultures (more comfortable in familiar cultures), and * genders (be respectful with who people are) * * communicate in the way that people want to be communicated, will help them receive the message
Body language
all behavior is communication and relays a message to clients
- involves facial expressions, eye contact, gestures, and body postures, and
- impacts how clients receive messages more than any other type of communication
Facial expressions
form of body language, communicate emotions such as interest, agreement, excitement, fear, surprise, or contempt.
Eye contact
form of body language, can indicate attention, interest, and engagement between planners and clients.
Importance of voice pitch and tone
Pitch and inflection of voice influence the message conveyed more than the actual spoken words
Pitch
Sound quality of highness or lowness;
- primarily dependent on the frequency of the sound wave
- Low voice pitch, conveys confidence
- High voice pitch, projects uncertainty
Tone
Inflection of voice, or emphasis on certain words
* Shows attitude, whether humor, anger, sincerity, or sarcasm
Mirroring
A technique used to improve rapport with clients
- Imitate clients’ gestures and physical positions or
- by using a similar verbal style
- Subtly adjust own gestures and verbal style to those of client’s
- mirroring communicates to clients that the financial planner accepts and is open to the clients’ suggestions and ideas
Physical mirroring
copy client’s body language, it shows we are involved in a connection with that client
Verbal mirroring
imitate the clients’ word use, tone of voice, and communication method; use the same words or paraphrase what the client said
Emotional Intelligence
ability to recognize emotional expressions in themselves and clients
* selecting socially appropriate responses to the circumstances and their clients’ emotions
Active listening
- key to effective communication
- practice by paying full attention to what clients are saying and respond by paraphrasing
- helps planners fully understand what their clients are trying to communicate