Exam 3 (Grief Counseling And Grief Therapy Ch.4-5 Flashcards
According to William Worden, grief therapy is
For those specialized techniques that are used to help people with abnormal or complicated grief reactions
Grieving has historically been facilitated through
- the family
- religious organizations
- funeral rituals
- other special customs
Goals of grief counseling
To help the survivor adapt to the loss of a loved one and adjust to a new reality without them
Specific goals that correspond to the four tasks of mourning
- increasing the reality of the loss
- helping the counselee deal with the emotional and behavioral pain
- helping the counselee you overcome various impediments to readjustment
- helping the counselee find a way to maintain a bond with the deceased well feeling comfortable reinvesting in life
Parked described three basic types of grief counseling…
- performed by trained doctors, nurses, psychologists, or social workers
- volunteers are selected and trained and supported by professionals
- self-help groups
When to do grief counseling
In most instances grief counseling begins at the earliest a week or so following the funeral
According to William Worden, grief counseling involves
Helping people facilitate uncomplicated or normal grief to a healthy adaptation to the tasks of mourning within a reasonable timeframe
3 approaches-or philosophies to bereavement counseling
- offered to all individuals who have experienced a death related loss
- some people need help with bereavement but wait until they experience difficulty
- if we can predict in advance who is likely to have difficulty, we can intervene early
The ratio of widows to widowers in the United States
5:1
Raphael discovered the following characteristics were significant predictors of the person who will not do well with death 1 and 2 years later
- A high-level of perceived non supportiveness in the bereaved’s social network
- moderate level of perceived non supportiveness in social network response
- previously high ambivalent marital relationship with the deceased
- presence of a concurrent life crisis
Toronto, Sheldon, Cochrane, Vachon, Lyall, Rogers and Freeman found 4 major groups of predictors were more important in explaining adjustment to bereavement in 80 widows
- sociodemographic variables
- personality factors
- social support variables
- meaning of the death event
If several of these dimensions are present in the 4week post death assessment, the person is identified as in need of intervention
1) more young children at home
2) lower social class
3) employment little, if any
4) anger high
5) pining high
6) self-reproach high
7) lacking current relationships
8) coping assessment by rater requiring help
Principles that will serve as guidelines for the counselor so that they can help the client work through and acute grief situation
1) help survivor actualize the loss
2) help survivor to identify and experience feelings (anger, guilt, anxiety, sadness)
3) assist living without the deceased
4) find meaning in the loss
5) facilitate emotional relocation of the deceased
6) provide time to grieve
7) interpret “normal” behavior
8) allow for individual differences
9) examine defenses and coping styles
10) identify pathology and refer
Worden suggests that anger probably comes from two sources…
- frustration
- a sense of regressive helplessness
In extreme cases, retroflected anger may result in
Suicidal behavior either in thought or action
A small subset, _______ %of bereaved people will continue to struggle and develop some type of complicated mourning such as chronic or prolonged grief reactions
10-15
Platitudes
Not helpful, statements like “I know how you feel”, “you’ll be fine”, etc.
Useful techniques in grief counseling
– Evocative language – Use of symbols – Writing – Drawing – Role-playing – Cognitive restructuring – Memory books – Directed imagery – Metaphors
Ways that drawing can help in grief therapy
– Helps facilitate feelings
– Identify conflicts that the mourner may be unaware of
– Heighten awareness of what the person lost
– Identify where the person is in the mourning process