Exam 1 - ch 3 Flashcards
Describe the stages of skill development in nutrition counseling
- motivation - have desire to learn
- learning - acquire knowledge, skills, and attitude
- awkwardness - expect it, role play various situations
- conscious awareness - as you gain skill, you will still be consciously aware of the process
- automatic response - little or no forethought or discomfort
- proficiency - can perform and modify the skills with a variety of health conditions, in a variety of settings
Describe some challenges a novice counselor might have.
Limit discussing yourself
Only ask questions when:
- you need the answer to clarify,
- gain understanding,
- need the data to use in your session/note
Avoid lulls and silences unless necessary
Define empathy
the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
list all 16 of the counseling responses
- Attending
- Reflection
- Legitimation
- Respect
- Personal support
- Partnership
- Mirroring
- Paraphrasing
- Giving feedback
- Questioning
- Clarifying
- Noting a discrepancy
- Directing
- Advise
- Allowing silence
- Self-referent
define synchrony
mirroring and matching the clients body language
List several unproductive non-verbal behaviors
- Toe tapping, swinging your feet
- Pencil tapping, twirling
- Yawning
- Looking at your watch or clock, shoes, papers on your desk, or anything in the room excessively
- Slouching
- Playing with your hair
List the 4 steps of reflecting (empathizing)
- Correctly Identify the feelings being expressed
- Reflect the feeling you have identified to the client
- Match the intensity of your response to the level of feeling expressed by the client
- Respond to the feelings of your client, not to the feelings of others (spouse, family members)
What is something good for you as a counselor to know when working with a client?
the circumstances that brought a client to you
List and describe the 4 communication roadblocks, be able to describe how the roadblocks interfere with self- exploration
- disagreeing
- warning
- agreeing; giving advice
- reassuring; making suggestions
Attending (active listening)
- Giving undivided attention
- Listening for verbal messages
- Observing nonverbal behavior
- Focus is on what you see and hear
Legitimation (affirmation, normalization)
Communicates the acceptance and validation of the client’s emotional experience
Respect
Appreciation for the worth of the client
Personal support
- Lets them know strategies are available
- You are there to help them implement those strategies
- You want to help
Partnership
- Establish collaborative relationship
- Let them know you are going to work together to find solutions
Mirroring (parroting, echoing)
- Repeat back exactly what the client said with few words changed
- Lets them know you are listening
- Encourages them to keep talking and exploring